BellaRisa
4th Level Blue Feather
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We've all been taught that being late is rude, or at least unthoughtful...but is it kinda rude to be early? I've had a few friends/aquaintances (and I still DO) who would show up anywhere from 15 minutes to half an hour before they were supposed to be at my place, and frankly it drives me crazy; I'm the type that needs 'all' of my time, especially after work since I work at home, to get myself ready and straighten the house and all of that. I HATE having someone show up while I still have Legos and PlayDoh everywhere and and no eyebrows . It just happened a moment ago, friends were supposed to drop off their child for a playdate; they called and said they'd be about 30 minutes late, then showed up 10 minutes before the original time, making them 40 minutes early; I was just about to step into the shower when the doorbell rang and had to greet them in my robe. They said they'd eaten lunch much faster than they'd anticipated. Um, alrighty then .
Now I'm honestly asking, because I know I can be a bit...prickly . Is being early a little rude, or is it up to a host to expect early arrivals and be ready way earlier than the time planned for?
Now I'm honestly asking, because I know I can be a bit...prickly . Is being early a little rude, or is it up to a host to expect early arrivals and be ready way earlier than the time planned for?