In keeping with the TMF's non-hijacking policy, I thought it best to start a new thread for a discussion that originated as a tangent in one the the Tickling Discussion threads. It started like this
However I suspect that what Wikipedia means by "intimacy" is actually sexual intimacy, which opens up a whole new pandora's box. If we take this implied definition, then I would answer Icycle's question this way: It's one thing to share love and intimacy. It's another thing altogether to share body fluids. From a medical point of view, it's not very hygenically wise to engage in multiple partnered sex, although like most people, I've indulged a fantasy or two in my day.
My opinion is that if you're single, there is little to no impediments that would keep one from such a lifestyle. For a married person, you've entered into a commitment and if you "fuck around" so to speak, it's adultery, whether or not your spouse approves.
Lindy Hopper said:...If I wasn't into tickling, I also would never have explored polyamory, or BDSM anything. I think that would be a very different life, and surely not as fun....
drew70 said:I'm curious. What is "polyamory." It sounds like a protectorant for your car's dashboard.
Lindy Hopper said:It sounds like you need to work on your Greek and Latin word roots.
From Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory):
"Polyamory, in its broadest usage, is the practice or lifestyle of being open to having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved."
I know, I know. Sinner! Harlot! Get me to a nunnery!
drew70 said:Oh, cool! Kind of like adultry with built in amnesty!
A very good question to which one might find a variety of answers. Based on the given definition, taken word for word, I could say I engage in polyamory. I have female friends and even family members for whom my love is very deep and genuine. I'm intimate with them on a variety of levels...I know their personalities, their likes and dislikes, their moods. We embrace when we see each other. We have very intimate conversations. My wife is fully aware and approving of these relationships. So based on the Wikipedia definition, I would venture to say that many of us engage in polyamory.Icycle said:Except the words you choose have exactly the wrong connotations. Your choice of words implies that she is guilty of some kind of immoral act, but gets away without punishiment.
There are no lies, no sneaking around, no betrayal, nor distrust. Why should love and intimacy only be shared with one other person?
However I suspect that what Wikipedia means by "intimacy" is actually sexual intimacy, which opens up a whole new pandora's box. If we take this implied definition, then I would answer Icycle's question this way: It's one thing to share love and intimacy. It's another thing altogether to share body fluids. From a medical point of view, it's not very hygenically wise to engage in multiple partnered sex, although like most people, I've indulged a fantasy or two in my day.
My opinion is that if you're single, there is little to no impediments that would keep one from such a lifestyle. For a married person, you've entered into a commitment and if you "fuck around" so to speak, it's adultery, whether or not your spouse approves.