Hey all,
I'm a very anxious person and I overthink everything. I'm very private when it comes to my sex life, which is easy because I don't have one, but my love of tickling is super secret amongst my friends, even those very open about there fetishs and turn on's.
I've managed to maintain a very healthy friendly relationships with one of my ex's, I meet him tonight for a drink with a guy he is seeing. Whilst talking I mentioned I'd put on a little weigh. The guy he was dating was sat next to me and turned and put his hand on my stomach and said there's nothing on me before placing his other hand in me and deliberately tickled me. I'm quite good at containing myself in a situation like that mostly because I felt super awkward.
When he went to the bar my ex said "sorry I told him you were in to tickling, I think he wanted to see if he could get a reaction". Using a few choice words I asked why he felt it was ok for him to tell people and he said "I didn't think it was an issue, I've told loads of people I work with and my housemate knows". I socialise with all these people frequently and I feel totally exposed and awkward around them now.
To make matters worse his housemate sent him a message whilst we were out that was a meme that has a woman having her feet tickled in stocks with the caption "tag someone who would die" and said show Matt. I wasn't amused.
Am I over reacting. I feel so embarrassed and angry he would share that about me so willy-nilly when I don't tell my own friends. Has this happened to anyone else?
I'm a very anxious person and I overthink everything. I'm very private when it comes to my sex life, which is easy because I don't have one, but my love of tickling is super secret amongst my friends, even those very open about there fetishs and turn on's.
I've managed to maintain a very healthy friendly relationships with one of my ex's, I meet him tonight for a drink with a guy he is seeing. Whilst talking I mentioned I'd put on a little weigh. The guy he was dating was sat next to me and turned and put his hand on my stomach and said there's nothing on me before placing his other hand in me and deliberately tickled me. I'm quite good at containing myself in a situation like that mostly because I felt super awkward.
When he went to the bar my ex said "sorry I told him you were in to tickling, I think he wanted to see if he could get a reaction". Using a few choice words I asked why he felt it was ok for him to tell people and he said "I didn't think it was an issue, I've told loads of people I work with and my housemate knows". I socialise with all these people frequently and I feel totally exposed and awkward around them now.
To make matters worse his housemate sent him a message whilst we were out that was a meme that has a woman having her feet tickled in stocks with the caption "tag someone who would die" and said show Matt. I wasn't amused.
Am I over reacting. I feel so embarrassed and angry he would share that about me so willy-nilly when I don't tell my own friends. Has this happened to anyone else?