lifetime Ler converted into a Lee

[veryTicklishLER]

Hello everyone,
I wanted to share my experiences this past weekend and hear your thoughts.
For nearly most of my life, I have always considered myself a Ler with willingness to be the Lee on occasions out of curiosity. On Friday I submitted to my wife for a full body, no limit, no safeword tickle, torture night. Nothing was off-limits or not allowed.
After being extremely nervous to begin with, I found myself enjoying the whole experience. I extremely enjoyed being forced to laugh, and carry on, even though it tickled so much. I have yelled and screamed and laughed harder than I ever have before. I have never experienced that. it was amazing. I have never in my entire life ever been tickled like that, nor did, I think I would ever be able to handle it.
After it was over, I felt extremely relieved and distressed. It was almost like Therapy. I couldn’t stop thinking about it the next day. So on Saturday, I asked her if we could have another session. Her eyes widen and she smiled devilish at me and was like “oh really?” I explained to her that I just can’t get over the feeling and wanted to do it again. She very easily obliged. She tied me up once again, and tickled the hell out of me. I laughed uncontrollably and screamed and hollered much to her delight. At time she stopped and looked at me, thinking that maybe she was giving me too much, and I told her to keep going, and to do it harder. Her eyes once again widened, and she had this huge grin on her face as she attacked my ribs and upper body once again, which made me scream, like never before. I love the whole experience!
Then, again, on Sunday, I asked if she could give me another tickle treatment. She said to me “oh my God, I’ve created a monster!” She again tickled me mercilessly on Sunday, and I hope to have almost daily sessions with her.
I can’t tell you how it relieves my stress, and how it makes me feel afterwards. It’s like all the stress in my body escapes through that tickle session. It’s incredible to just laugh uncontrollably and there’s nothing you can do about it. It is very therapeutic, in my opinion.
All of these years I have loved to tickle, but I am now finding out that I am really gravitating towards the Lee side of tickling. I was always a bit scared to submit, but now I actually look forward to it. It relaxes me afterwards, and I think it will make me a lot healthier too.
What do you all think? Has anyone else experienced this? Do you think it helps manage stress better? What does everyone think?

 

[footfan69]

Good for you, VeryTicklish! I am not surprised that you enjoyed it and actually crave it. You are very lucky that your wife obliged you so willingly and fulfilled your need so well. So give us more detail on where and how she tickled you. Did she tease you verbally? Use any tools? We’re you naked? What did these sessions “lead to” afterward? Hopefully, you two can set up a “schedule” or use a code word to see who gets to be the Lee next. Bravo!

 

[footfan69]

Oh, BTW, what celebrity does your wife resemble? It helps to get the full picture, so to speak. Thanks.

 

[BlueLine7045]

Honestly, many people on here tend to gravitate towards one or the other. A lot of Lees on here prefer to only Lee, while a lot of Lers prefer to only Ler. I, myself, tend to lean more towards the latter. I actually had a professional tickle session with Mistress Mia several years ago and marked the first time I was ever really tied down and tickled. I actually had no idea how ticklish I really was until that day. The loss of control and helplessness was both torturous and also fun/arousing. I still prefer to Ler, but will switch with my wife when we play tickling games.

The point I originally was trying to make is, love whatever you love, by why limit yourself to mainly one? Being the Ler and Lee is equally fun in my opinion, especially with a good turning the tables or revenge scenario. Switches have the most fun. You dish it out, and take it.

 

[natscott6282]

honestly i cant imagine having it done to me I would die !!

 

[veryTicklishLER]

Good for you, VeryTicklish! I am not surprised that you enjoyed it and actually crave it. You are very lucky that your wife obliged you so willingly and fulfilled your need so well. So give us more detail on where and how she tickled you. Did she tease you verbally? Use any tools? Were you naked? What did these sessions “lead to” afterward? Hopefully, you two can set up a “schedule” or use a code word to see who gets to be the Lee next. Brav

Good for you, VeryTicklish! I am not surprised that you enjoyed it and actually crave it. You are very lucky that your wife obliged you so willingly and fulfilled your need so well. So give us more detail on where and how she tickled you. Did she tease you verbally? Use any tools? We’re you naked? What did these sessions “lead to” afterward? Hopefully, you two can set up a “schedule” or use a code word to see who gets to be the Lee next. Bravo!

Thanks for the replies, and to answer your questions… we have Velcro handcuff restraints, set up on the bed, and she straps me tightly into them, and mainly tickles my upper body my tummy, sides, ribs, and waist are deathly ticklish. I absolutely lose it when she tickles me prolonged there. She always teases me verbally a lot when she tickles, especially when I am really laughing and gasping for air. She has used some tools like feathers, hairbrushes, paintbrushes, and the like, but she found out that her fingers definitely work Best to get the absolute reactions out of me. Clothing I have on are socks so every ticklish spot is completely exposed. And it’s funny that you mentioned a “schedule” because I actually proposed to her the idea of having 30-minute tickle session every day (or MOST days (maybe 5x a week) as some it may not be possible with different things going on) the session could happen at any time… Morning, afternoon, evening… Could be predictable, like right after work, or could be totally unexpected Sometimes we may have to get creative during busy times and I’m sure she will come up with something. But she has definitely embraced this tickle session idea, and I have no doubt that it will be carried out to the fullest.
To answer your final question… My wife strongly resembles Mayim Bialik and there is only a 1 year difference on their ages.

 

[Madame_T]

I'm going through a similar situation myself as I explore my sexuality...

I've found with men I've always only been comfortable as a ler, but as I've started sessioning with women I've found myself becoming more and more of a switch for them. It's been an interesting journey to say the least

 

[footfan69]

Thanks for the replies, and to answer your questions… we have Velcro handcuff restraints, set up on the bed, and she straps me tightly into them, and mainly tickles my upper body my tummy, sides, ribs, and waist are deathly ticklish. I absolutely lose it when she tickles me prolonged there. She always teases me verbally a lot when she tickles, especially when I am really laughing and gasping for air. She has used some tools like feathers, hairbrushes, paintbrushes, and the like, but she found out that her fingers definitely work Best to get the absolute reactions out of me. Clothing I have on are socks so every ticklish spot is completely exposed. And it’s funny that you mentioned a “schedule” because I actually proposed to her the idea of having 30-minute tickle session every day (or MOST days (maybe 5x a week) as some it may not be possible with different things going on) the session could happen at any time… Morning, afternoon, evening… Could be predictable, like right after work, or could be totally unexpected Sometimes we may have to get creative during busy times and I’m sure she will come up with something. But she has definitely embraced this tickle session idea, and I have no doubt that it will be carried out to the fullest.
To answer your final question… My wife strongly resembles Mayim Bialik and there is only a 1 year difference on their ages.

Awesome relationship! So glad she is embracing the lifestyle. Please post how it’s going, and any other experiences as they develop.

 

[veryTicklishLER]

Awesome relationship! So glad she is embracing the lifestyle. Please post how it’s going, and any other experiences as they develop.

It’s going great. We are perfect for each other.

 

[aberdeen]

Hello everyone,
I wanted to share my experiences this past weekend and hear your thoughts.
For nearly most of my life, I have always considered myself a Ler with willingness to be the Lee on occasions out of curiosity. On Friday I submitted to my wife for a full body, no limit, no safeword tickle, torture night. Nothing was off-limits or not allowed.
After being extremely nervous to begin with, I found myself enjoying the whole experience. I extremely enjoyed being forced to laugh, and carry on, even though it tickled so much. I have yelled and screamed and laughed harder than I ever have before. I have never experienced that. it was amazing. I have never in my entire life ever been tickled like that, nor did, I think I would ever be able to handle it.
After it was over, I felt extremely relieved and distressed. It was almost like Therapy. I couldn’t stop thinking about it the next day. So on Saturday, I asked her if we could have another session. Her eyes widen and she smiled devilish at me and was like “oh really?” I explained to her that I just can’t get over the feeling and wanted to do it again. She very easily obliged. She tied me up once again, and tickled the hell out of me. I laughed uncontrollably and screamed and hollered much to her delight. At time she stopped and looked at me, thinking that maybe she was giving me too much, and I told her to keep going, and to do it harder. Her eyes once again widened, and she had this huge grin on her face as she attacked my ribs and upper body once again, which made me scream, like never before. I love the whole experience!
Then, again, on Sunday, I asked if she could give me another tickle treatment. She said to me “oh my God, I’ve created a monster!” She again tickled me mercilessly on Sunday, and I hope to have almost daily sessions with her.
I can’t tell you how it relieves my stress, and how it makes me feel afterwards. It’s like all the stress in my body escapes through that tickle session. It’s incredible to just laugh uncontrollably and there’s nothing you can do about it. It is very therapeutic, in my opinion.
All of these years I have loved to tickle, but I am now finding out that I am really gravitating towards the Lee side of tickling. I was always a bit scared to submit, but now I actually look forward to it. It relaxes me afterwards, and I think it will make me a lot healthier too.
What do you all think? Has anyone else experienced this? Do you think it helps manage stress better? What does everyone think?

I totally think that tickling could be a stress reliever, even though it may initially seem to increase stress....I've been reading a little bit more about ASMR and some ppl think that the slower paced movements that feel relaxing in that practice are similar to the light grazing tickles that many ppl find relaxing and maybe that is why some really enjoy/crave the Lee position. I myself have never been held down or restrained enough to fully test my limits so to speak, but I do have a switchy mentality that believes it would be worth at least one big roller coaster ride with a good LER to explore my true reactions. I think the roller coaster is also a good analogy of the exhilaration and adrenaline rush of the ride acting like the intense tickling...then as the car slows down, (or tickling slows and stops) your body puts out a wave of endorphin that bathes you in more relaxing, more pleasant sensations....IE the feels so bad it's good sensation....My wife did enjoy fulfilling the so bad its good scenario on me several times by straddling my arms and grazing my arms and pits! I also think that more tickle therapy or tickle spas would be a boon to our over stressed society...and could help reduce stress, abuse of alcohol and drugs etc.... again....tickling is such a variable fixation that it leads to many different responses and needs in people.

 

[Takahane]

Oof. One word -- panic. I couldn't get past that to "enjoy" the experience. * shudder *

 

[kucheeku]

No doubt, I would love to provide stress relief for men through tickling.

 

[aberdeen]

Just to add this...there are a couple tickle therapy places around the country (or. used to be--I havent checked in a while) where you could pay for whatever type of experience yu wanted -- single ler, multiple, light...more 'hardcore'....I mean, yeah sounds like a BDSM dungeon w emphasis on tickling. I am on Tumblr and even on this board there seems to be a large number of ppl wanting to BE tickled and seem to crave it...I think another reason is we are a 'touch-starved' society, where everything has devolved to where their is so much mistrust that the simplest acts of kindness (trying to help a woman with obviously too heavy groceries, ie) is met with the highest suspicion and distain. Now I know there are creeps and bad ppl out there but no one acting righteously for someone else's good is seemingly given a chance---just lumped in with the pedophiles or rapists or other crazies. anyway. with all the seeming need for stress reduction and improved well being in our society..I can see where a legit tickle therapy spa would be no more unusual than the salt mist therapy or the IV infusion therapy clinics that we see more in existence today. If we can just get over the barriers of the fear of physical touch and automatic go to of drugs or alcohol.