losing faith

[jerry29]

For years I've seen posts...looking for lees and lers...from ladies in here...but I'm beginnning to believe.the posts are just to see how many men reply...I'm sure its tough to.go through with it...but c'mon. I've had a foot/tickle fetish since I was a teen...embarrassed to tell anyone except g/fs.. I have a sneaky wild side...I want to fullfil my fantasies, but I don't see it happening until people are honest with their requests. Too anyone making it work...My hat's off to you.

 

[dvnc]

Perhaps you should consider meeting some folks socially within this community. Whether locally, or at a gathering in another part of the country, it's really far easier to meet more people when you've a known quantity.

Mind you, I married my 'lee, whom I met at my gatherings in California. YMMV.

 

[SantaFeSwitch]

Good advice...there are more and more gatherings. I'm going to NEST 2012 in May to meet people in person.

Perhaps you should consider meeting some folks socially within this community. Whether locally, or at a gathering in another part of the country, it's really far easier to meet more people when you've a known quantity.

Mind you, I married my 'lee, whom I met at my gatherings in California. YMMV.

 

[jerry29]

I guess you're bith right...thanks. however...if you look at most.of the posts made by women...they rarely comment on their own posts more than once. so it just seemed that they're fishing...problem is none of is can resist the bait.

 

[dvnc]

Most replies and conversations, in my experience, are done via PM, email, IM, and meeting over coffee/lunch/insert-public-activity-here.

I did a personal once. You can dig far enough back and see it. Few replies.

Again, married my 'lee, who found me through the TMF.

It's about stepping out to meet folks. Not easy, but fairly simple. You arrange to chat via IM. You meet for a beverage. If that one don't fit ya, or you don't fit them, you try again. No different than vanilla folks, except you KNOW one thing is similar and shared.

Good fortunes!

 

[sweetpiggy22]

I totally agree with dvc. I don't usually reply to personal posts on the forum, but through PM the person. I agree with everyone that you do have to step out there and start going to meet-ups or gatherings. Its not like its going to fall in your lap like some guys think it does.

 

[cutenticklishnc]

I am in NC and I am not fake. I have met some lee's and ler's for tickling fun but I have run across some who are all talk and just keep stringing you along. Good luck and if you wanna play meet first in public that always makes people feel more at ease. Tickling is very sensual to me so I have to be comfortable with the pperson I am playing with