Haltickling
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During the last few years, I've observed a development which disturbs me somewhat: It seems the 'desirable man' has to become more feminine to please nowadays' women. Clean shaven, no moustache or beard, no body hair. A distinct shifting in 'beauty ideal', comparable only to the 'slimness craze' in the male's idea of a beautiful woman.
I have been wearing a moustache since almost 30 years now, and recently I start to notice very negative reactions like 'a man who wears a moustache or beard has something to hide' (BTW: Do women wear make-up or nail polish for the same reason? ). Same thing at the beach: I'm quite used to snide comments on my big belly (cost me a lot to acquire it finally… ), but now the comments tend to find my body hair 'primeval', although I'm just about average hairy or the chest, and none on my back.
What I mean: Facial and body hair is a secondary sex characteristic for the male human being, mainly caused by the male hormone testosterone. Do women really want more feminine men? With all the consequences?
Seen from a slightly different angle: Another trend is to get a boyfriend/husband to read every wish from a woman's eyes, devoting himself to her to the point of self-denial, and when this is achieved, girls call him 'a total wimp'. They treat him like shit, sometimes running off with a super-macho Latin Lover who treats HER like shit.
I'm not advertising macho-ism at all. Still I fail to understand women. But as a wise man once said: 'There are three types of women a man will never understand: young women, middle-aged women, and elderly women…'
Now Myladies, can you help me out of this confusion? What is your opinion?
I have been wearing a moustache since almost 30 years now, and recently I start to notice very negative reactions like 'a man who wears a moustache or beard has something to hide' (BTW: Do women wear make-up or nail polish for the same reason? ). Same thing at the beach: I'm quite used to snide comments on my big belly (cost me a lot to acquire it finally… ), but now the comments tend to find my body hair 'primeval', although I'm just about average hairy or the chest, and none on my back.
What I mean: Facial and body hair is a secondary sex characteristic for the male human being, mainly caused by the male hormone testosterone. Do women really want more feminine men? With all the consequences?
Seen from a slightly different angle: Another trend is to get a boyfriend/husband to read every wish from a woman's eyes, devoting himself to her to the point of self-denial, and when this is achieved, girls call him 'a total wimp'. They treat him like shit, sometimes running off with a super-macho Latin Lover who treats HER like shit.
I'm not advertising macho-ism at all. Still I fail to understand women. But as a wise man once said: 'There are three types of women a man will never understand: young women, middle-aged women, and elderly women…'
Now Myladies, can you help me out of this confusion? What is your opinion?
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