kcantankerous
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But why would tickling result in all of those nasty things happening to you if it's not embarrassing? Hell, i'd rather piss in my pants in jail than be tickled. Why is that?
The jail example is an extreme one but my point still stands. Tickling is a form of domination. Irreparable damage can be done to one's image just by being tickled. I used the jail example because those men act on the impulses the general population suppresses right?
My reaction wasn't a cognoscente one...but a natural innate reaction to someone trying to dominate me. Here's a thought experiment....try poking(tickling) a random guy and try patting that same guy with an open hand not tickling. Which touch is more likely to solicit an angry response?
Take a tough guy actor....say "The Rock"....lets put him in a tickling video. Sure the kink aspect might be weird....but even worse the video would do irreparable harm to how he is seen as a man. Seeing Sarah Kozer and Joanna Krupa in tickling videos has in no way hurt their ability to go mainstream. The case is different for men. Can you imagine Ghaddaffi being tickled while he was in power...how much respect and fear would he lose as a result of that? While the embarrassment would be on a smaller scale in the bar setting amongst friends it's still there none the less. I think being ticklephiles we forget that.
I don't know I think your views of the dominant aspect are strong for you and have their merits. I suppose that is what most appeals to you about the fetish. However it depends, for me I am not that ticklish as far as pokes and prods go so even if someone tried I most likely wouldn't react much. If a girl tries to tickle me I tickler her back and since generally those that are lers even in fun are even more ticklish in return.
A guy never has tried to tickle me and I imagine my response would be similar to yours GQ. I understand your allusions, although I am trying to remove the examples from my head now, but yeah I don't see it as a power shift thing. Granted I am not incredibly ticklish or it takes a while before my ticklishness gets heightened to the point where I actually laugh and squirm.
Thanks,
K