CuteJill143
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As the few of you on here who know me personally might have known, I first went to college with aspirations to become a Pharmacist (Doctor of Pharmacy) I began to take all of the prerequisites at my College such as the General Biology, General Chemistry, Organic Chemistry, Physics, Calculus, ect. I began to fall in love with Biology, especially all of the laboratory work. Instead of being an undeclared pre-health major, I then declared Biology thinking that I can always finish my BS then apply to a Pharmacy program afterward.
Once I made it around to the advanced Biology classes like Microbiology & Neuroscience; which had a lot more lab activity, I became more into the idea of research and being in the laboratory, i instead of dealing with patients all day. I was also working as Pharmacy Technician at the time and not loving the profession as I used to. It was really Microbiology which fascinated me the most, especially with a Clinical aspect of infectious disease. I then declared my second major in Med Tech (Clinical/Medical Laboratory Science) as this was the degree I needed instead to become a Clinical Microbiologist. So starting a second Bachelors' in science is taking me more time but I will be getting Clinical training and a National and State License out of it and the good salary that goes with that. I feel that this is worth me taking a bit longer. I plan on going for my Master's in Microbiology after my clinicals. I decided that it is what I truly want; to work as a Clinical Microbiologist and to teach it to College students and maybe one day go for my PhD in Microbiology but that I am not rushing into. I have blown the rest of the students in my Clinical Microbiology class away academically, it is not something I need to try extra hard in since I am good at it.
My career goals have changed drastically and took a longer route then I had anticipated and.. well....my parents and the rest of my family are not too thrilled about that at all. If it were up to them I would have become an Accountant like my cousins and their wives do and what my sister is going for. In my family, they tend to worship anyone in the field of business or accounting. I guess since most of my family are Accountants, in their eyes that's their only vision of a success story.
Going into Medical Lab Science is not impressing them and they are putting me down telling me its not a big deal. I will be graduating with two degrees so what the hell are they complaining about? I am finally doing something that I love that is not only practical, I will make a nice living on it as well. A Doctor's diagnosis will be based on what I do in the lab. I have talked to my professors and mentors about it. I will be 27 in a few days. They are old fashioned and just are afraid that if I start a PhD later in life, I will never get married or be established. I might be taking longer but I am doing it and not going to quit.
My brother also passed away 2 and 1/2 years ago and I also took less credits when that happened on top of working in a lab. You think my family would cut me some slack!!! Does anyone else have these issues with their parents and what they think you should do with your life as opposed to what you want and love? Although I love what I do, there's a part of me that feels like I still need to impress them. It's rough. =/
Once I made it around to the advanced Biology classes like Microbiology & Neuroscience; which had a lot more lab activity, I became more into the idea of research and being in the laboratory, i instead of dealing with patients all day. I was also working as Pharmacy Technician at the time and not loving the profession as I used to. It was really Microbiology which fascinated me the most, especially with a Clinical aspect of infectious disease. I then declared my second major in Med Tech (Clinical/Medical Laboratory Science) as this was the degree I needed instead to become a Clinical Microbiologist. So starting a second Bachelors' in science is taking me more time but I will be getting Clinical training and a National and State License out of it and the good salary that goes with that. I feel that this is worth me taking a bit longer. I plan on going for my Master's in Microbiology after my clinicals. I decided that it is what I truly want; to work as a Clinical Microbiologist and to teach it to College students and maybe one day go for my PhD in Microbiology but that I am not rushing into. I have blown the rest of the students in my Clinical Microbiology class away academically, it is not something I need to try extra hard in since I am good at it.
My career goals have changed drastically and took a longer route then I had anticipated and.. well....my parents and the rest of my family are not too thrilled about that at all. If it were up to them I would have become an Accountant like my cousins and their wives do and what my sister is going for. In my family, they tend to worship anyone in the field of business or accounting. I guess since most of my family are Accountants, in their eyes that's their only vision of a success story.
Going into Medical Lab Science is not impressing them and they are putting me down telling me its not a big deal. I will be graduating with two degrees so what the hell are they complaining about? I am finally doing something that I love that is not only practical, I will make a nice living on it as well. A Doctor's diagnosis will be based on what I do in the lab. I have talked to my professors and mentors about it. I will be 27 in a few days. They are old fashioned and just are afraid that if I start a PhD later in life, I will never get married or be established. I might be taking longer but I am doing it and not going to quit.
My brother also passed away 2 and 1/2 years ago and I also took less credits when that happened on top of working in a lab. You think my family would cut me some slack!!! Does anyone else have these issues with their parents and what they think you should do with your life as opposed to what you want and love? Although I love what I do, there's a part of me that feels like I still need to impress them. It's rough. =/
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