As the person who knows what the ratio is, I can assure you that your numbers are exceedingly incorrect, and that sugar soaker is a lot closer.
The f/m ratio hasn't really been that skewed ever, after the first event, which was 100% guys. And that didn't deter me from going to the next one, as a tickler, even though
all of the other guys were ticklers, too.
That said, people who need to know the ratio miss the point of the event, which is that people of all sexual identity are welcome, so our gay male population may appreciate having
a slightly higher male ratio, and that doesn't seem to bother any of the heteronormative folks who attend. NEST is a tickling gathering, but it's really about making friends and
socializing with people who are into similar things to each other, and having activities to help people meet and interact with each other.
Lee