Other fetishes we share

[UnclStevel]

I've ran across several of our TMF friends who, in the course of interacting here, have opened up about other kinks that they have. I think it's safe to say that many of us share a foot fetish to some degree, but what about other kinks? I've noticed hairy armpit lovers, crossdressers, spankers, and general BDSM enthusiasts so far. There are some among us who are offended by "pornography" and nudity in tickling videos.

We are quite a diverse community. What other fetishes do you either combine with tickling, or enjoy seperate from tickling? Do you meet with a local bdsm club, but never find a willing 'lee, so you just supress your urge to tickle? Are you a wandering golden shower lover looking for that rumored "tickle 'till she pees" scene in a tickling video? Do you wish to see more hairy girls being tickled? Have you never even considered the dom/sub aspects of tickling that relate us to the bdsm scene?


Steve

 

[strtbottomjim]

The "sub aspect" of surrender, absolutely .

But fixating on feet just puzzles me . I mean ya, they're ticklish as hell, but past that?

And it works out good having an exhibitionist "streak" (pardon the pun) because public play scenes are WAY safer if you don't know the 'lers *extremely* well. And in my case, I'm "open to tickles" from pretty much anybody who'll play nice .

 

[Krokus]

Mine

The only other fetish I have is a foot fetish.

 

[njjen3953]

Hey Steve,
I guess it is no secret that GuitarPeteTklr and I enjoy the playful side of BDSM. Combined with tickling, it is ONE of the things that brought us together and have kept us together for a little over a year now.
We have explored many aspects of this combination, and although it is rare, we have found some BDSMers that can also appreciate it.
At my gathering in Albany last month, we introduced several ticklephiles to the pleasures of Bastinado combined with foot tickling and as far as I know, some are using it in their play today.

The heavier BDSM we reserve for private play or if at a BDSM play party/club.

Thanks for the topic,
Jen

 

[BellaRisa]

Hi Steve,

Anyone who knows me knows that I love spanking as well as tickling, and combine the two quite often. In fact, it doesn't matter which type of gathering I'm attending, the other kink always shows up at some point . I am a collared submissive, and an officer and former trustee of MORAL <Mid Ohio Rose and Leather>, Columbus's local BDSM group. I'm not into pain at all, for the record, my non-tickling play is still about subspace and sensation -and discipline in some cases. Luckily, there's always something going on in Ohio (I just got home from a spanking party in Cleveland Saturday), I've never had trouble finding a 'ler or-a 'lee if I'm in the mood to switch .

Bella

 

[Mimi]

I have a rather unique one outside of tickling, that is just now starting to grow in popularity. I have had it since I hit puberty, and unlike tickling, I was aware of the arousing powers of THIS fetish as soon as I knew what sex was. Tickling did not become sexual until my early 20's. The fetish? Purring. To me, there is just nothing sexier then a man who can roll his tongue. Very softly, like a kitten purring. Talk about instant hot flashes!


Mimi - who is off to fan herself.....

 

[thefeatheroom95]

I have a foot fetish and a liking for BDSM. If I add the two together and thing of a good torture for the feet, i somehow get tickling. I love to stare at feet, and yet i like to tie up willing people and make them scream.

 

[JoBelle]

Oh, dare I say it??? Does it count if it's a newly discovered fixation???


WAX....on my feet.....**SHIVER** I'm sure it would work just as wonderfully on other body parts...but mmm mmm mmmmm. There is just something about hot wax all over your feet making them a nice bright pink just before a tickler gets hold of them. So sensitive! So, again I say *SHIVER*

Joby

 

[njjen3953]

Oh, dare I say it??? Does it count if it's a newly discovered fixation???


WAX....on my feet.....**SHIVER** I'm sure it would work just as wonderfully on other body parts...but mmm mmm mmmmm. There is just something about hot wax all over your feet making them a nice bright pink just before a tickler gets hold of them. So sensitive! So, again I say *SHIVER*

Joby

Yep Joby. Hot melted wax does work well on other body parts, but I would have to agree with you on the feet thing.

And remember, you promised to wax mine.

Jen

 

[Dave2112]

Besides my tickling fetish, I'm also into bondage and BDSM in many of it's forms. I also seem to have this weakness for women with British, Irish or Scotch accents.

...and I do have this affection for bright, shiny objects...but that's a story for another time.

 

[mrhm53755]

I have a big hair fetish, late eighties style.

 

[mysterytic]

Feet, love those feet

I don't have to tickle feet to enjoy them. In addition to sensitivity of female feet, I also like their shape. Just looking at a pretty pair of feet gets me standing at attention. Most guys give the "once over" and stop at the butt. I can't help but continuing on down to the floor to "check out the latest shoe fashions"

Every now and my eyes get caught by the woman, but it sure is worth the embarassment. Only a foot lover will know the incredible enjoyment of a pretty pair of feet . It can not be explained, only experienced.

 

[TicklingDuo]

In addition to tickling...? Well, Drew's into feet. We like the bondage thing...though nothing too heavy. I also have a thing about laughs. I don't know that I'd call it a fetish. But, I just love to hear people crack up. It doesn't matter what the cause is. I even remember the laughs of some of my friends from high school! 'Tis music to my ears!

Ann

 

[BigJim]

other fetishes..........

Like quite a few TMF lers, I've had a foot fetish since I was kid. Also I have quite a partiality towards bastinado. This is something I've not mentioned in the TMF before, but recently saw a post by Jen about the subject, so I thought "Yippee, I'm even freer than the TMF already made me!" LOL
Interesting thought.....does this interest stem from my dom personality? I'd be interested to hear anyone elses thoughts on this.

 

[GuitarPeteTklr]

Re: Feet, love those feet

I don't have to tickle feet to enjoy them. In addition to sensitivity of female feet, I also like their shape. Just looking at a pretty pair of feet gets me standing at attention. Most guys give the "once over" and stop at the butt. I can't help but continuing on down to the floor to "check out the latest shoe fashions"

Every now and my eyes get caught by the woman, but it sure is worth the embarassment. Only a foot lover will know the incredible enjoyment of a pretty pair of feet . It can not be explained, only experienced.

Guilty as charged, mysterytic! Don't cha love it when you get caught too? Hehehe...Some of the reactions you get in public from the "less than savvy" females on this fetish are precious. I also know that many males (both inside and outside this forum) share our love of the feminine form, as it relates to their feet! The evidence of this is easily corroborated, when you see the number of Yahoo Groups dedicated solely (pun intended) to the reverence, admiration, and adoration of female feet!

I know UncleSteve wanted us to focus on those fetishes other than foot fetish that prevail in our core forum interest at hand (which is still tickling), but I think he will understand how important it is for us to validate our fetish, in spite of a fair amount of disdain for it among our society's females.

Then again, I have had the pleasure of meeting a few females of late, in this interest, who have confided to Me a POWERFUL fetish for male feet! Talk about validation through turn about play! Mutual foot reverence! What a concept! If only My feet were as ticklish as My admirers'!

Had the bastinado discussion with BigJim in PM the other night too. Find a consentual female or attend an appropriately structured gathering/play party where such play/players are present, My friend, and YOU GO! For the like-minded ticklees, it sure heightens tickle sensitivity!

*GuitarPeteTklr shreds his way back into tickling oblivion feeling further validated by this venue created by UncleSteve and fostered by mysterytic and BigJim as he watches his jen and friend JoBelle exchange foot waxings*

 

[mysterytic]

Quote from Pete: "in spite of a fair amount of disdain for it among our society's females", in referring to our enjoyment, loves, interests in female feet.

On a serious note Pete, I am pretty new here, and was not aware that many female members feel that way. I am sure the heavy posters do not, but with those who lurk, you may be correct. I think I will start a thread and ask the question, plain and simple. I just hope we get enough females interested to come up with a valid sampling.

Pete you have a very clever, creative ability to put your thoughts in writing. Mysterytic

 

[GuitarPeteTklr]

Thank you, mysterytic!

Quote from Pete: "in spite of a fair amount of disdain for it among our society's females", in referring to our enjoyment, loves, interests in female feet...was not aware that many female members feel that way. I am sure the heavy posters do not, but with those who lurk, you may be correct. I think I will start a thread and ask the question, plain and simple. I just hope we get enough females interested to come up with a valid sampling.

Pete you have a very clever, creative ability to put your thoughts in writing...

First of all, mysterytic, thank you very much for that compliment on My writing abilities. I try to learn that from others here, like yourself, (too numerous to name in one post! hehehe) who keep "the bar" nice and high, on expressive content value in posting.

And now for a note of clarification, so as to avoid misrepresenting observations, experiments, or sentiments formed as a result of measuring feminine regard for male fetishism of female feet, if I may.

As you started to say, mysterytic, "...was not aware that many female members feel that way. I am sure the heavy posters do not, but with those who lurk, you may be correct..." you hit My perception about 3/4 on target. The truth about "My" perception is that MOST females in THIS forum don't have a problem with an appropriately behaving male (i.e. a male who refrains from giving a female in this forum inappropriate, truly unwanted, or truly unsolicited attention of ANY kind) extolling the virtues of his female foot fetish, so long as it is done with respect and in good taste. Of course, there are even A FEW females here in this forum who have disdain for a male's female foot fetish and such is their right or prerogative. I still hold those females here in high esteem.

When I say "society's," in the context of this discussion, I mean it in the broadest (no pun intended) national sense and mean to exclude the females of this forum in that coalition. It has been My experience that the females of this forum deserve much more credit for such awareness, as a general rule of thumb. If you (and the others) caught that important distinction, I apologize for this addendum. If you didn't catch that, then I am glad I posted anew.

What I wanted to post in closing, which I didn't post to the new thread you created, since it is specifically asking "ladies" to respond is the following:

Other than MOST females in this forum, there is a strong coalition of females (in the broadest context of society) who either feel objectified (as if males are NEVER objectified by females...LOL!!!), offended (because they feel that even a FETISHIST should express equal love for ALL their body, or the parts of their BODIES that the particular female is most proud of, i.e. their mind, genitalia, etc...any part BUT her feet!), or they are taught that it is simply "dirty" or "wrong" to love feet, female or otherwise, because that is the one part of their body that MOST OFTEN makes contact with the ground...the dirt...and furthermore that men who love feet are dirty, vile, wrong...etc...........I could go on and on, as I have heard some very extraneous rationales for such regard, to be sure.

Anyhow, mysterytic, I just wanted to set the record straight and offer some insight as to why SOME (not all ) females are "less than accomodating" to foot fetish, when it appears that they otherwise enjoy My/your intimate company.

*GuitarPeteTklr asks mysterytic to hide his soapbox, as he shreds his way back into tickling oblivion again*

 

[winston]

Like many others posting on this thread, I too
have a foot fetish, which seems to go hand-in-
glove with tickling. Or perhaps, foot-in-nylon?

Which brings me to other "pecadillos" I have. I seem
to have this thing for nylon-clad female feet, and
the tickling thereupon. This is alos something
not uncommon in our tickling community. I do
also have a rather unusual fetish, especially
for our group - sleepy. I love to look at
sleeping women. Welllll, maybe not just "look"

And my personal ideal scenario encompasses all three (or is it four?) interests...
There's something about seeing a dozing lass' feet sticking out vulnerably from under the covers,
encased in nylons of course, watching as they wiggle
& twitch while I gently tickle them, all the while
my sleeping beauty is dreaming on. Sometimes,
getting a murmur or even a giggle while she dreams
of the tickling in her sleep.

But hey, that's just One Man's Dream(TM)

 

[MaxSpeer]

Good thread.

Well, do I really have to say it? I mean you all know from the stories I write.
A female's smooth, shapely, bare arm revealed in a sleeveless article of clothing like a dress or shirt. I can endlessly stare, transfixed, at a an attractive woman's bare arms. For some reason, the excitement is accentuated when she wears this kind of clothing. A nude woman has way too much going for her to allow me to focus on this one particualr area. I am much too distracted. Pleasantly distracted. That's why I like it "showcased" in a sleeveless dress or shirt.

Of course, as soon as that arm comes away from her body a little, my tickling fetish kicks in like an autopilot to fixate on tickling under her arms.

Be still my beating heart!

Max

 

[CurtWild]

hmmm i have foot fetish(thank god summers coming up)and i don`t know if this is a fetish but i have this thing for green eyes.if a girl has green eyes i`m instantly attracted to them.

 

[P.H. Tickler]

Interesting thread

Tickling is a given, DEFINITELY Female Feet, and for me, Nylons also... any form will do but I'm partial to cheap ultrasheer non-support pantyhose without the dreaded "cotton crotch panel"... you know, the kind that are easy to rip thru with your teeth when the foreplay gets to be too intense...
the one that puzzles even me is the added excitement of corporate attire... silk blouse and skimpy "business" skirt. I don't even work in an office! My wife does, but it's more of a casual environment there. Pretty much the only time she's in hose is at home , but she has this short grey business skirt (with the silky lining and a zipper hidden in one of the seams) that she hasn't worn since her initial interview several years ago. We generally don't "roleplay", but a few times, she had on this outfit and I got to play "Tickle the sexy bank executive for the safe combo" or something like that... that was fun, and HER idea! She wanted to try a roleplaying thing when she read it in one of her "woman's" magazines... What kind of stuff is in there?!? I Must make it a point to see sometime.

 

[Jerry67911]

Long, straight, silky hair. That drives me crazy. The sight of it, running my fingers through it, brushing it, feeling it dragged over my entire body. It can also be a great tickling instrument for the midsection, underarms, face, ears, nose, neck, ass, between the toes...

 

[Oddjob0226]

Yeah, a foot guy here too. I like 'em big or small, don't really care as long as they are clean, somewhat soft, and of a nice shape ( well, what's would you call a nice shape, ?) I don't know, just an undefinable impression that I get. Oh, and they should be sensitive!

Also, I have a very sadistic imagination and fantasy life - really dark stuff that WOULD NOT belong on this board... however, I have no intention on acting it out and in fantasy it will stay - tickling is sadistic enough in my real life.....

Just to share, I read somewhere - a "Joy of Sex" type of book, it was about human sexuality. It mentioned that 80% to 90% of hetro men have some kind of fetish, and, 80% to 90% of THAT percentage could almost be evenly split with either a fetish for feet or crossdressing.... how predictable we men are!

 

[njjen3953]

Also, I have a very sadistic imagination and fantasy life - really dark stuff that WOULD NOT belong on this board... however, I have no intention on acting it out and in fantasy it will stay - tickling is sadistic enough in my real life.....

Hey Oddjob,
E-mail me and tell me what some of those fantasies are. I love good bedtime reading.

Jen

 

[Oddjob0226]

Oh, Jenn, I will! I keep meaning to call, to, but they keep me late at work! Anyway, you asked for it.....