As far as the personals go, the lady's get the responses. Period.
As for the lady lees specifically, it depends on where they are and what they want exactly and whom they want to be tickled by and to what extent do they want to be tickled.
Another factor is whether or not it appears as if they are really a female or some guy looking to gets rocks off.
Other than all that, the only real factor should be ticklishness.
"Hotness" is being too, shallow and judgmental as well as insulting to someone you may turn down merely due to "looks" and nothing else.
It goes back to the choice between two: One who may not be "attractive" but is deathly ticklish against one tho is "hot" yet moderately to just a little ticklish.
One must align ones priorities.
Boris