So, I started seeing this woman recently. Hurray. Anyway, I find out she's not ticklish. At all. Boo. But I'm still seeing her, because she's a cute gamer nerd girl and you damn well don't find those every day.
Anyway, I got to thinking last night after hanging out with her. She's really goofy, and has a bit of a devilish sense of humor. It got me wondering as to whether or not she'd make a great 'ler.
And even if she didn't, it spawned an interesting philosophical query that I thought I'd pose to the members here.
Let's say you're a 'ler - 100% 'ler, not a 'switch 'ler, and you meet a woman who's also 100% 'ler, ditto. Neither of you can or would 'lee for the other (like, for example, if you're not ticklish). Could such a relationship truly survive?
Experience has taught me (with extreme prejudice) that one cannot "turn off" their fetish, so if both people in the relationship were 'lers, then obviously, they would have to seek gratification outside the relationship. Such a relationship would require 'concessions' of some sort to make it work, I think.
So, I'd like to hear from the community. Could such a relationship work, with or without 'outside help'? Are there any folks here with actual experience in such a situation, who could shed some light?
Personally, I think in a way it'd be totally hawt to 'tag-team' a 'lee with my best gal by my side. "You get the feet, hon... I'll take the armpits and we'll meet in the middle!"
Discuss.
Anyway, I got to thinking last night after hanging out with her. She's really goofy, and has a bit of a devilish sense of humor. It got me wondering as to whether or not she'd make a great 'ler.
And even if she didn't, it spawned an interesting philosophical query that I thought I'd pose to the members here.
Let's say you're a 'ler - 100% 'ler, not a 'switch 'ler, and you meet a woman who's also 100% 'ler, ditto. Neither of you can or would 'lee for the other (like, for example, if you're not ticklish). Could such a relationship truly survive?
Experience has taught me (with extreme prejudice) that one cannot "turn off" their fetish, so if both people in the relationship were 'lers, then obviously, they would have to seek gratification outside the relationship. Such a relationship would require 'concessions' of some sort to make it work, I think.
So, I'd like to hear from the community. Could such a relationship work, with or without 'outside help'? Are there any folks here with actual experience in such a situation, who could shed some light?
Personally, I think in a way it'd be totally hawt to 'tag-team' a 'lee with my best gal by my side. "You get the feet, hon... I'll take the armpits and we'll meet in the middle!"
Discuss.