dardanos78
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I was just curious, ladies, if a guy is in the military, would you consider that a pro or a con in this day and age of dating/relationships?
The reason I ask is I have been in the Navy for almost a year now and although I get the occasional "thanks for your service" handshakes from most people, when I talk to most women they usually run for the hills when they find out that I am military.
Even on personals websites I usually fared well enough to at least start e mailing someone before something causes either myself or the person I'm talking to to part ways. But lately I've been searching the ads, sending out flirts/winks all with no luck save for the few bogus ads that are obviously not real people.
In the bar scenes its similar, though I can usually spark a conversation with a nice young woman, once the question of "what do you do for a living" comes around I dread it because usually it ends with us parting amicably with no contact info exchanging hands.
I've been thinking about this a great deal and wonder if I sacrificed more than I bargained for when I signed up or am I just barking up the wrong trees? Any insight would be wonderful and helpful.
The reason I ask is I have been in the Navy for almost a year now and although I get the occasional "thanks for your service" handshakes from most people, when I talk to most women they usually run for the hills when they find out that I am military.
Even on personals websites I usually fared well enough to at least start e mailing someone before something causes either myself or the person I'm talking to to part ways. But lately I've been searching the ads, sending out flirts/winks all with no luck save for the few bogus ads that are obviously not real people.
In the bar scenes its similar, though I can usually spark a conversation with a nice young woman, once the question of "what do you do for a living" comes around I dread it because usually it ends with us parting amicably with no contact info exchanging hands.
I've been thinking about this a great deal and wonder if I sacrificed more than I bargained for when I signed up or am I just barking up the wrong trees? Any insight would be wonderful and helpful.