Questions about finding people to tickle

[Chaostar]

Hey everyone,

I’m Chris and a Ler. I’ve never had the opportunity to tickle anyone but loved watching clips for years. And since I’m trying to be active here I thought I’d focus on one of the questions I’ve had so far.

When most Ticklers tickle others do the majority of them pay the person who’s being tickled? Sometimes i’ll Watch a clip and they mention the person being tickled getting money. Even on this sites personal section I’ve seen people post that they will pay the ticklee to be tickled.

So if someone wants a tickling session is the best way to offer them money? By the way even though I mentioned people in tickling clips I don’t have a clip store and not trying to run a business in this, so does the money apply only to people making tickling clips? I don’t know if I’ll get the opportunity most tickling meetups that I’ve seen are out of my state. So is this how it always goes?

Oh yea and how much is normal I’ve seen people offer $200?

Remember I’m new and trying to figure this out.

Thanks in advance

 

[tickler29]

I haven't had much luck setting up sessions either. As far as paying a lee, that's probably something you'd have to work out with them. I'm not sure if there's a going rate. The only time I paid for tickling was at a strip club where one of the dancers was willing to take me in the VIP room and let me tickle her for tips.

 

[TicklishGirl666]

You don ' t really need to pay the ticklee to just tickle them. Those models appear in videos, modeling is a job, therefore they are paid for the job. But there are certain people and groups of people interested in tickling sessions or gatherings with no strings attached. Have you actually tried a fetish social media or dating site? You can find people interested in tickling. You can even find a submissive girlfriend on those sites that is comfortable with being tickled or tolerates it and there ' s long term potential on that. And lastly there are escorts or fetish models that would allow themselves to be tickled for money even off camera.

 

[BeautifullyBNT]

Paying is the quickest route. I've had limited luck on fetlife in the past with dating women into tickling.

 

[SxyFetishGirl]

it's definitely hard to find this fetish in real life in a real relationship situation the best way to do it I have found this just to be open and honest! Go on Tinder go on match.Com put out there that you have a tickle fetish you like to tickle people who cares what people think? don't you want to be happy? Then you need to start putting it out there in your everyday life you'd be really surprised at who around you and your immediate circle is actually really into it too! People that have fun with their fetish have fun in life people that have fun in life are super happy and people that are happy are very healthy so I encourage you to be happy and healthy...


But in the interim you probably need to pay a professional

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Depends how badly you want your itch scratched so to speak. Trying to find a female into tickling can sometimes feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Plus you also have to weed out the fakes and flakes. You're better off trying to convert someone not into tickling and you'll have even better luck converting someone kinky who hasn't tired it. Of course confidence and how you present your love tickling play a huge factor. If you come off as desperate, thristy, and creepy good luck wooing the ladies because most will stay far far away. Of course even if you do manage to get a female open to the idea of being tickled that doesn't mean she'll have a fetish for it. Yeah ultimately paying is the fastest and usually easiest route if you're not caring to get into a serious relationship and just want to full-fill your fetish fantasies.

 

[siamese dream]

If you come off as desperate, thristy, and creepy good luck wooing the ladies because most will stay far far away.

Lol, this is so true even of guys just looking for vanilla sexual encounters.

 

[Sodahead]

Everyone's making some really good points here. In my experience, every woman I've dated has been willing to engage in my kinks on some level AFTER they felt comfortable with me. I mean, I've never actually set out trying to find a woman just to tickle, it was more a by product of being with someone I liked and then being like "hey tickling kind of turns me on...wanna try it sometime?" (The opposite is also true. I've adopted some kinks over the years with my partners. I'm currently doing things and considering doing things now I never would have imagined.)

I'd be willing to bet my experience isn't all that unique. I suppose you could pay someone and might enjoy it. I've never tried that so I wouldn't know. But for me part of the fun of tickling is that the other person wants to be involved and enjoys the experience.

 

[Chaostar]

Thanks for the responses they were all good. Ill try and mention it a little on maybe dating sites. Good to hear that you don’t really need to pay unless you want to find someone fast.

Thanks

 

[Chaostar]

Paying is the quickest route. I've had limited luck on fetlife in the past with dating women into tickling.

Yea I’ve been on fetlife. I actually don’t like the site, every time I’m on there it felt like i was in high school everyone’s clicky or whatever and only respond to people they know. Basically it was like walking in to someone’s home and everyone knew each other and your some stranger that walked in uninvited haha.

 

[Chaostar]

Go on Tinder go on match.Com put out there that you have a tickle fetish you like to tickle people who cares what people think? don't you want to be happy? Then you need to start putting it out there in your everyday life you'd be really surprised at who around you and your immediate circle is actually really into it too! People that have fun with their fetish have fun in life people that have fun in life are super happy and people that are happy are very healthy so I encourage you to be happy and healthy...

Ill try that I actually never thought about regular dating sites for this I’ve always been looking on fetish site. Regular dating sites could be better. Thanks

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

You could also try meet and greets and different functions if you look in your area, i don't know how much that will help. As others have said after knowing a few friends they accepted my kink and kinda enjoyed it, so it takes patience.

 

[IrvingKrebb]

Placing an ad and offering payment is one option. At least that way there's no need for a lot of discussion, it's just a business arrangement. But as someone mentioned above, you don't have to pay someone to tickle them. What about friends? Close friends of the same or opposite sex, I don't know what you're looking for but why not try them first? It doesn't hurt to ask and you'd be surprised how many would think it "sounds like fun." Just keep it kind of casual and emphasize safety and consent, and tell 'em - I really like tickling but I don't get to indulge very often, I was wondering if you might be interested...etc. etc.

 

[bestmed]

I'm in the same situation. As far as I know there isn't anyone around here who shares this interest.

 

[Chaostar]

You could also try meet and greets and different functions if you look in your area, i don't know how much that will help. As others have said after knowing a few friends they accepted my kink and kinda enjoyed it, so it takes patience.

In my area in New Jersey I’ve never seen a tickling meet and greet not even in this sites section that lists events.

 

[Chaostar]

I'm in the same situation. As far as I know there isn't anyone around here who shares this interest.

Yea it really sucks. I’ll have to figure something out.

 

[Chaostar]

Placing an ad and offering payment is one option. At least that way there's no need for a lot of discussion, it's just a business arrangement. But as someone mentioned above, you don't have to pay someone to tickle them. What about friends? Close friends of the same or opposite sex, I don't know what you're looking for but why not try them first? It doesn't hurt to ask and you'd be surprised how many would think it "sounds like fun." Just keep it kind of casual and emphasize safety and consent, and tell 'em - I really like tickling but I don't get to indulge very often, I was wondering if you might be interested...etc. etc.

I think offering money takes the fun out of it because the other person may not even be interested and just wants to get payed. As for friends i don’t think that will work. I don’t have any female friend the ones from high school we all went are own way. Non female friends not really interested but they live outta state anyway.

Thanks though i’ll Figure it out somehow.

 

[IrvingKrebb]

Chaostar - I grew up in New Jersey, Carteret, to be precise. You have to figure that NJ is crazy overpopulated so numbers alone mean there's going to be someone that you can hook up with. There used to be a group in NJ called Knot for Everyone, and it was mostly for folks into bondage, S/M, but I went a few times and met people with all kinds of interests. I don't know if the group still meets but you might want to check it out. Also - I've paid women for videos and in my experience, I wasn't getting professional, fetish model types, they were just regular girls looking to make some easy money. Now, I didn't require nudity or any sexual activity at all, so that made it more appealing to the "girl next door" type, but it will depend on what you're looking for. Hiring a pro is a lot different but you don't have to go that route. Keep it fun and casual and you may be surprised.

 

[knotdafeet]

It's a no brainer! I use to go either to go-go bars or massage parlors.