powerslideX
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Ok, of course i think safe words really suck! They give your lee back some of the control that you are trying to take away from them during the 'breaking' process. Of course there are lees out there who are trying to save face by refusing to use a safe word and the occasional lee that actually can't get enough of being tickled but in general the truely, deeply, PERFECTLY, excruciatingly ticklish lees are so effected by the act or even thought of tickling the will immediately blurt out the safe word. sometimes even before you touch them. You have 2 options. a.) ignore them or b.) change the rules up a bit.
I choose B!!
My method....... before the session give the lee a specific amount of times the safe word can be used, depending on the set length of the session. (ex. 10 minute session ~ give them a 3 time use of the safe word. each use results in a 30 second break) And STICK BY YOUR RULES!!! Tell them once they use them they are GONE!! If they use 'em up in the first 3 minutes..... well then they are f***ed aren't they!
Now, this does come with a responsibility as well. If you see at one point in that 7 minute stretch that they have damned themselves with, that they are in distress (actual distress) PLEASE be responsible enough to have THEIR best interest in mind! That is where becoming a GOOD ler comes into play!! LEARN TO READ YOUR LEE!!! You can actually give them somewhat of a physical or mental break by reading the lees reaction on the fly and adjusting your techniques. You can change to a less ticklish area or go to a more teasing type of light tickle for a few seconds. They get a break from the stress without a break in there helplessness, thus keeping the spirit of the sadism alive!!! (Yay!!!!) Plus it breaks the monotony of working the same area too long, and they won't get used to the tickling. The idea is to effect the lee as profoundly as possible without actually killing them..... lol. That way you stay out of jail and maybe even get to tickle that person again someday!!
There is more to being a good Ler than just flailing on a lee untill they piss. A controlled method that is physically AND mentally exploitative will have a much more profound effect on your lee and yield a better, more desperate response devilish,without your lee ever being in actual harms way. Thats just my take on things..... what do you think?????
I choose B!!
My method....... before the session give the lee a specific amount of times the safe word can be used, depending on the set length of the session. (ex. 10 minute session ~ give them a 3 time use of the safe word. each use results in a 30 second break) And STICK BY YOUR RULES!!! Tell them once they use them they are GONE!! If they use 'em up in the first 3 minutes..... well then they are f***ed aren't they!
Now, this does come with a responsibility as well. If you see at one point in that 7 minute stretch that they have damned themselves with, that they are in distress (actual distress) PLEASE be responsible enough to have THEIR best interest in mind! That is where becoming a GOOD ler comes into play!! LEARN TO READ YOUR LEE!!! You can actually give them somewhat of a physical or mental break by reading the lees reaction on the fly and adjusting your techniques. You can change to a less ticklish area or go to a more teasing type of light tickle for a few seconds. They get a break from the stress without a break in there helplessness, thus keeping the spirit of the sadism alive!!! (Yay!!!!) Plus it breaks the monotony of working the same area too long, and they won't get used to the tickling. The idea is to effect the lee as profoundly as possible without actually killing them..... lol. That way you stay out of jail and maybe even get to tickle that person again someday!!
There is more to being a good Ler than just flailing on a lee untill they piss. A controlled method that is physically AND mentally exploitative will have a much more profound effect on your lee and yield a better, more desperate response devilish,without your lee ever being in actual harms way. Thats just my take on things..... what do you think?????