TIPS 1-1O
TIP #1
(Sensatizing)
Now this is not by any means new. In fact, I heard the concept by someone here for the first time. Basically, sensatizing involves the tickler to very lightly and gently tickle the ticklee all over the body, particularily the spots you know you wanna tickle later in the session. By doing so, you rev up your victims nerve endings to feel everything to its fullest potential. If done right, it always works, or at least it has for me that is.
TIP #2
(There are no rules)
I know that I am giving tips here but one thing you must remember is that what works for one person does not for the other all the time, and your ticklee may respond to one thing today and not at all the next. You have to be flexable. I am more of the consensual, enjoy making my girlfriend moan and laugh in tickle ectsasy type of guy. Although I have figured out some awesome tricks that I will share, being flexable is very important.
By the way, you really need to look at the thread I started called (I am the new guy, and boy do I a story to tell) You absolutely gotta see that, you will know more about me then.
TIP #3
(Variety or Consistency)
Which one is the best? The answer is.. both. They both have their strong points. When I am tickling my girlfriend, my tickling soul mate whom I will be marrying this year, I will be tickling her neck and armpit area and then quickly swipe the tip of my finger from one hip bone and across her belly to the other. This drives her nuts in a good way. By jumping to spot to spot you can really excite your partner.
However, sometimes when she is feeling more sexual....I must clarify that we both have an extreme tickle fetish so we both get immensly turned on no matter how we do it, but when she is feeling more sexual, a slow steady tickle is preffered. I never leave my hand or finger from her body and I slowly move all over.
If you asked me where my favoiurite spot was to tickle her, I would say, yeah. It is all good. Just look at my name.
With variety, the body is suprised thus making it more intense and with cosistency, the nerve endings are joyfully anticipating their turn as the finger/feather/hand/etc is moving closer.
TIP #4
(Mind games)
This is pretty simple. When I am tickling my girlfriends back, she loves it. Usually I will establish some sort of pattern. Then her mind and body gets into a trance with the pattern. At this point I will suddenly change the pattern or stop completely. You gotta try this. Get your ticklee in a postition where she cannot see you. then begin tickling your victim in an area they really enjoy. Now as you see their body reacting to you pattern, try either stopping completely or going to a different spot. Watch you victim cringer in pleasure.
TIP# 5
(FIELD TESTING)
This is fun. Not only do you get to tickle but you also learn. Now, I am speaking as a boyfriend so I have a regular ticklee. This makes it easier to learn how to tickle my girl. There is not much to say about this tip except when you tickle, pay close attention. I often compare tickiling to sex and if it is between a loving couple then it is very similiar especially when both of you have a fetish to tickling as my princess and I do. You see, just as a good sex life takes effort, do does being a good tickler. Yeah, it may be more work than just aimlessly tickling but you will get better which makes you enjoy it more.
TIP# 6
(COMMUNICATION)
Again, like any relationship, communication is essential. When you are the tickler, ask your partner what they like, how does this feel, where is it better, etc. If you are the ticklee, give your tickler feedback, you both will benefit.
TIP #7
(LEAVE NO STONED UNTURNED OR SPOT UNTICKLED)
I have discovered all of my girlfriends ticklish spots and some she never knew of. Try it all, different areas, different ways. Back to the point of learning, some spots will not be ticklish initially yet be on fire after the proper processes. Likewise some spots may be ticklish then all of the sudden lose the sensation. See next tip.
TIP# 8
(SEQUENCING)
As a general rule, if you know your ticklee, you can break this tickle code, yet there are always occasional exceptions. Some uncommon tickle spots that may even need to be unlocked by proper senquencing are the elbows, forearms, wrists, palms, collar bone, ear, even scalp. Just because a tickle may not be ticklish there at the moment doesn't mean that it is not a good spot. There is an oriental belief of the body having an energy or chi. I have found this to be true. The body also contains highways of this energy called meridians. By properly tickling your way from a high tickle spot towards an area not know to be ticklish, you can guide the tickle energy to the new spot. It works, believe me. Just keep practicing if at first you do not succeed.
TIP# 9
(MORE AWESOME CHINESE TICKLING METHODS)
I am about to unleash some Chinese on ya. The Chinese believe that there are energy spots on the body. THIS IS TRUE!!!
I will even tell you one. There are two spots on the body about three inches below the hip bones along the groin line and in towards the center of the stomach about a half an inch. This is a sexual energy spot. Tickle it light or hard, fingers or other devces, and it feels very good. Yes, my girlfriend says that it definately fires up her sex drive and tickling on and or below these areas can produce an orgasm like sensation. Keep in mind that me and my woman love each other, she is relaxed around me, and comfy with me so it is easier for her to feel sexual. Not all people all the time will experience this reaction.
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TIP #10
(GIVE EM THE FINGER, TRUST ME, THEY WON'T BE OFFENDED!)
The fingers are just amazing things. They can do so much to a victim. The biggest key to remember is to try all you know to do with them. Now being that I have, I will give you some pointers on tricks I have learned that work well.
It is amazing that using one finger tip, barely making contact to the skin, moving very slowely, can drive a tickleee wilder than several fingers fast and intense all over. You gotta know where and when. Again, this goes back to knowing your ticklee.
I almost always recommend starting off slow to sensatize my girlfriends body. In cases or days when you victim is not as ticklish, you may need to periodically tickle with more intensity in known tickle spots on their body to get there nerve endings to respond everywhere else. Prior to contrary belief, you can make someone ticklish and you can get someone in the mood to be tickled.
When using one finger, there are several basic techniques.
Your finger has three basic tickle parts.
1. finger tip (no nails)
2. nails (scrathing lightly)
3. backside of nails (this is the smooth side)
Now simply match any of the three parts above to a technique given below.
1. slow dragging (light and torturous)
2. fast swipe (tickle jerking usually follows)
3. circles (when you find a hot spot, drive em mad this way)
3. wavey lines (sometimes to throw off the nerve endings on your partner, do not go in a straight line)
Additional finger tips
Know where your parnter is most ticklsh.
Add in some tips given above such as variety and then consistency.
Now for a exciting true story to demonstrate a few of these pointers.
My girlfriend just loves to lay in my lap as I tickle her top side.
I get her underarms, arms, chest, sides, ribs, hips, belly, and even farther south. WARNING: Do not go south without knowing that you are welcome there (for the perverts out there). I ususally work my way down there, getting her excited. Once I am low, I usually tickle around her private parts to further tease them. Occasionally sweep lightly over her actual kitty. If nothing happens, do not proceed. If you see a jerk, thrust, shift, moan, etc. Go you!
Remember that keeping your victim on the edge to where they just about can't stand the tickling is sometimes even better than tickling them hard and furious.
Note to the men: Women in general have ticklish backs too. Check it out. The slow torture stuff can really get em going.
Hot spots on a female back will usually be lat muscles behind the armpits, neck, shoulders, upper back, mid back, lower back, sacrum. her back ribs, the section just below the bra strap and all areas usually cover by the bra will be sensitive because they are never touched. Use a light sensatizing touch to get her going and find hot spots.
Orgasm back trick!!!
Now this might just be my girlfriend but I am willing to bet it is not, so you other guys out there, try this on your women and tell me how it goes.
This is not easy so listen carefully.
1. You must have her shirt off so you can see what you are doing.
2. She can leave her bra on if she wants.
3. Have her lay tummy down over your lap usually on a pillow or two. You wouldn't want to poke her in the belly with that third leg now would you? If you like ticklin like me, you gotta think about this stuff.
4. Start by sensatizing her back. When she is worked up and twitching and moaning from your touch you are ready. A really good sign is if she keeps arching her back and holding her breath.
5. Place either your pointer and middle finger or thumb and pointer on her mid back on each side of the spine.
(Never poke anyones spine, a light finger swipe up and down it works wonders but never poke it. Do not do these next tips on anyone with a bad back or injury to their back. It may hurt em and you don't want that. Start the next steps with light intensity to gage response and further build up their excitement.)
6. One finger should be across the other on either side of the spine. Now gently tap downward with a one second pace. go down the back all the way to the top of the butt to the bottom of the neck. She will more than likely love this. When you find a spot that gets a particularely good reaction, stay there a bit.
(Always tap swiftly, your finger should quickely go down, bounce of the muscle and quickly get off the skin. This creates an electrical sensation to the ticklee!)
7. If all is going well then you can pick up the pace. Try tapping faster and harder. You can drive a woman bonkers with this.
8. Now if you are an all pro spinal tapper at this point, go in for the kill by alternating this technique with the other finger tips mentioned above. You may have to tie her down, and sometimes my girlfreind has me stop because she almost reaches orgasm with this technique.
I will leave you with maybe the best tip of all if you are looking for a tickle soul mate as I have been blessed with. Forget the tickling, just find a nice girl that you have tons in common with, the tickling will come. Besides, if the tickling was all you shared then the relationship will not last long nor be as good as you would like.
If I can help someone enjoy tickling more, I am a happy man.