this may sound dumb, but is it really possible to give up a fetish? i mean come on now, i know with me, its part of who i am... it isnt WHO i am, but its a part of me... and theres worse things that I could be into... thats just my opinion.
No, it's not possible. Just like you can't give up being homosexual. You might be able to suppress it, but you will never feel happy with it. You like what you like, and instead of trying to get rid of it (I don't see why you would want to anyways....unless you are not into children, who are you hurting?), it is way more healthy to just accept it.