Last night my boyfriend and I were talking about relationships. Considering we are only of a year and a half and now in college, I told him of my nightmares involving him and other girls. Of course, I know I can trust him. However, I've had nightmares of such things happening, so I can't help myself. He is not cheating on me whatsoever. And I am not concerned about it at all, but the fear of it and the feeling from those nightmares I worry about.
I was thinking of ways that situations like that would be some form of acceptable, whereas he had absolutely no control over the situation. I made a deal with him. If this ever were to happen, and he was clearly truly innocent, and really truly sorry, I would give him the punishment of a good, merciless tickle torture. And in turn, he can do the same to me, if I act out of turn for any reason. We wanted to try someday this form of tickling anyway, but for punishment, it would be ruthless.
With this deal we have made each other a serious couple. He agreed. Although this may sound negative to some of you, we still love tickling each other playfully and look forward to the day to do this innocently for fun, and not for punishment.
I was thinking of ways that situations like that would be some form of acceptable, whereas he had absolutely no control over the situation. I made a deal with him. If this ever were to happen, and he was clearly truly innocent, and really truly sorry, I would give him the punishment of a good, merciless tickle torture. And in turn, he can do the same to me, if I act out of turn for any reason. We wanted to try someday this form of tickling anyway, but for punishment, it would be ruthless.
With this deal we have made each other a serious couple. He agreed. Although this may sound negative to some of you, we still love tickling each other playfully and look forward to the day to do this innocently for fun, and not for punishment.