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So I was reading some topics on Reddit on some of the general sexuality subreddits that got me wondering about the trends in porn and things that were discussed there, vs our fetish and whether being into this generally indicates that you have a more gentle bedroom "style" and respond more to gentler touching than might be common?
Some of these topics were about how common it is for guys to want/expect hard face-fucking or deepthroating when receiving oral... One answer that was telling was someone older, closer to my age saying that today's porn is far too violent for their taste, and seemed a lot more loving and fun 15+ years ago. Another said "porn is not a good depiction of real sex", while another thoughtful response said "porn is not a depiction of real sex, but a sad indication of what sex will become." This seemed to go along with sentiments from women in another thread talking about how they hated giving oral bc guys always expect to really roughly make you deep throat them. Another topic talked about choking and how it seemed like porn depicting choking became popular and now suddenly everyone is choking their partners.
One thing I definitely have as a coinciding fetish with tickling is enjoying teasing/being teased... So from regular touching during sexual contact to oral, most of what I am into and how I touch, is going to be gentler and softer touching...I definitely would hate being choked, expected to do rough face-fucking oral, etc. I feel like enjoying teasing/edging goes along with tickling so often and so well, that I wonder if the rest of you feel like "rough" trends in porn/sex are a turn off too; and if you feel like you are a more gentle lover than maybe the average person is?
Some of these topics were about how common it is for guys to want/expect hard face-fucking or deepthroating when receiving oral... One answer that was telling was someone older, closer to my age saying that today's porn is far too violent for their taste, and seemed a lot more loving and fun 15+ years ago. Another said "porn is not a good depiction of real sex", while another thoughtful response said "porn is not a depiction of real sex, but a sad indication of what sex will become." This seemed to go along with sentiments from women in another thread talking about how they hated giving oral bc guys always expect to really roughly make you deep throat them. Another topic talked about choking and how it seemed like porn depicting choking became popular and now suddenly everyone is choking their partners.
One thing I definitely have as a coinciding fetish with tickling is enjoying teasing/being teased... So from regular touching during sexual contact to oral, most of what I am into and how I touch, is going to be gentler and softer touching...I definitely would hate being choked, expected to do rough face-fucking oral, etc. I feel like enjoying teasing/edging goes along with tickling so often and so well, that I wonder if the rest of you feel like "rough" trends in porn/sex are a turn off too; and if you feel like you are a more gentle lover than maybe the average person is?