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I was just about to post something in the True Stories; back in the day, there was only the Stories section. Under my old account (nontkl), I lobbied hard to get a True Stories section and I never considered there was any problem with it.
But a TMF member told me, both on the board and off, that he found True Stories morally repugnant because it wasn't fair to the people in the stories.
My feeling is 1.)people are envisioning the situation, they don't know who these people are or what they look like and 2.) we're trading notes about our common fetish and experience, telling the only people in the world who would understand what it was like.
Additionally - and amazingly - I had a bizarre interaction with a mod quite a while ago, in which I had asked that an extremely innocuous story be moved from the "Stories" section into the "True Stories" section (as it was a True Story that was written before there was a True Stories section, and I had wanted to bump it for purposes that related to a more recent story, and tie them all together). The story was a guy was at a punk show, overheard two young women recounting a tickle experience that had happened the night before, one of them tickled the other and bumped into the writer of the story. She turned around, apologized, shyly explaining to him that she had just been tickled....and he said it was all right and gave her a flirty poke to her tummy, making her giggle for a split second before they went back to watching the show.
To put it mildly, I was taken to task for even suggesting this, that this was non-consensual, and basically, such stories should not be posted.
I can't tell you how many 'lees I've spoken to, talking about their dating lives with vanillas, and how many times they were PRAYING that something like that would happen to them. One 'lee I know REFUSED to tell ANY of the guys she dated about the fetish: she wanted them to do it on their own initiative, and never suspect she liked it. Telling them would ruin it for her, and was not an option. Tickling is part of flirting, or so I thought. Most of my stories that I have posted are about scenarios exactly like the one I described, where I'm flirting with someone, or fooling around with them and I take a chance and tickle them. The idea that tickling only exists in the contrived setting of a bondage session is a little odd to me, but hey....that's why I'm opening this thread up.
What do YOU think? Is it unfair to the people in the story? Should tickling, as it happens in the world of flirting and dating, be off-limits for archiving here on the Forum because a 'ler might have "taken a chance" and tickled without prior consent?
I have a ton of stories already written and a list of memories still to write out....I am also working on multiple interview projects with other TMF members about their experiences. Should I abandon that ship and just focus on fiction writing? As I re-evaluate the "media" I post on the Tickling Media Forum, I'm open to people's arguments.
Your thoughts, please!
But a TMF member told me, both on the board and off, that he found True Stories morally repugnant because it wasn't fair to the people in the stories.
My feeling is 1.)people are envisioning the situation, they don't know who these people are or what they look like and 2.) we're trading notes about our common fetish and experience, telling the only people in the world who would understand what it was like.
Additionally - and amazingly - I had a bizarre interaction with a mod quite a while ago, in which I had asked that an extremely innocuous story be moved from the "Stories" section into the "True Stories" section (as it was a True Story that was written before there was a True Stories section, and I had wanted to bump it for purposes that related to a more recent story, and tie them all together). The story was a guy was at a punk show, overheard two young women recounting a tickle experience that had happened the night before, one of them tickled the other and bumped into the writer of the story. She turned around, apologized, shyly explaining to him that she had just been tickled....and he said it was all right and gave her a flirty poke to her tummy, making her giggle for a split second before they went back to watching the show.
To put it mildly, I was taken to task for even suggesting this, that this was non-consensual, and basically, such stories should not be posted.
I can't tell you how many 'lees I've spoken to, talking about their dating lives with vanillas, and how many times they were PRAYING that something like that would happen to them. One 'lee I know REFUSED to tell ANY of the guys she dated about the fetish: she wanted them to do it on their own initiative, and never suspect she liked it. Telling them would ruin it for her, and was not an option. Tickling is part of flirting, or so I thought. Most of my stories that I have posted are about scenarios exactly like the one I described, where I'm flirting with someone, or fooling around with them and I take a chance and tickle them. The idea that tickling only exists in the contrived setting of a bondage session is a little odd to me, but hey....that's why I'm opening this thread up.
What do YOU think? Is it unfair to the people in the story? Should tickling, as it happens in the world of flirting and dating, be off-limits for archiving here on the Forum because a 'ler might have "taken a chance" and tickled without prior consent?
I have a ton of stories already written and a list of memories still to write out....I am also working on multiple interview projects with other TMF members about their experiences. Should I abandon that ship and just focus on fiction writing? As I re-evaluate the "media" I post on the Tickling Media Forum, I'm open to people's arguments.
Your thoughts, please!
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