It's not a question of "Who cares," it's a question...of there would never be a question.
How could they find out, and if they did, which is unlikely, why would it become common knowledge, unless the people you know in life
were bottom dwelling scum who loved to humiliate people, even after they died?
Many people here are terrified of being "found out," and embarrassed, which is fine, I've felt that when I was younger. But how, why and when would that ever happen?
For example, describe the last funeral you attended where the widow or widower talked about, in graphic detail, the sexual habits of their dead partner......
"I really miss my loving husband, and now's the time to inform everyone that he loved to get his dick sucked. He also loved when I played with his
dick until he had a huge orgasm. They we'd have sex on the couch and he played with my breasts and kissed my belly button..."
Boy, would more people attend funerals if that was the case. Or maybe far less...I can tell you, I wouldn't want to hear that about anyone I know.
In fact, do you know the sexual interests of anyone in your life, relative or friend (not counting intimate lovers?)
I have close friends who I hang out with all the time...I have....NO idea what they do when I'm not there, and I certainly wouldn't ask, or to be honest, really want to
hear about it. Not in any kind of "It's none of my business - but boy do I want to know!" way, in a truly "I really don't care and if I was offered the information by someone seeking to embarrass
them, still wouldn't want to know."
My point being, for everyone here, is don't make THAT big a deal out of something that really isn't anyone's business except a lover. Many of friends probably have freaky things
they like to do in bed. You're probably don't go around asking, unless you're that creepy person who has no friends, because you ask what people do in their bedrooms.
And if, for some bizarre reason, if you knew...THAT guy, the one who seeks out dirt on people and lets everyone know about it - I have known one person in my life like that,
that I stopped hanging around years ago, because he sickened me and most other people. (He never had a lot of friends, because, you know, most people don't like being
blackmailed for some evil guy's fun, especially since most of it was made up. That, and if everyone I knew was a drug dealer, crack head, pedophile, raving slut, wife beater, gay in the evil
way, hard core porn star, or all of the above...you'd think everyone would be in jail.....) If you knew THAT guy, and he blabbed to everyone, you know, the three people who decided to
keep his company, would they really be THAT bothered since, in accusing everyone of everything, no one believes him about anything....?
