What's the difference?

[maggie772]

I think I see two types of people here: those in the videos, where full out bondage and nudity is involved, and those who casually talk or fantasize about tickling. Maybe not even going through with it. Am I wrong? Is there a happy medium,, say a 1 to 10 scale, in which the video girls are 9 or 10 and the newcomer like me is a 1?

PS sorry if this idea has been asked before

 

[LindyHopper]

Well... there are also those in videos without bondage or nudity, and those who fantasize about hardcore tickle torture and sex. It seems like you need two scales here, the "What you actually do" scale, and the "What you'd like to do" scale.

Besides, I don't think you ought to be comparing most of the girls in videos to actual TMF members like yourself. They're doing what they're paid to do - it's not like they're expressing their own tickling preferences when they do videos.

If you stick around the forum, you'll find members who have had all sorts of real experiences, from casual friendly tickles to naked bondage ticklesex. And you can fit in wherever you like.

BTW - welcome to the forum!

 

[maryallison]

As I wrote in a recent story, I started as very vanilla and went a little further each time. Of course no girl is going to strip down the first time ( I hope ) but my guy took me down the road step by step until i would have literally surrendered to him, as he famously "commands" his lees to do.

 

[maggie772]

I'm wary about the "surrender" idea

 

[commander]

The difference is easy: in videos women are paid, and in my experience a woman comes to her ler voluntarily, sometimes not even sure why she returns, but each time she is more and more willing. yes, some folks here deny the thought, but it is true: women love to surrender to the right man.

 

[maggie772]

omg, every time I read the word surrender, it sounds more appealing

 

[bttf4444]

For me, personally, I don't really see tickling as being sexual. The type of tickle videos I like to see is where the tickler and ticklee are fully dressed - and the ticklee is being tickled relentlessly on the soles of his or her feet, non-stop. Like in my stories, for instance.

 

[kilitiinko1]

Yes,it IS!

omg, every time I read the word surrender, it sounds more appealing

As a `lee myself,I absolutely agree that being able to surrender to the tender mercy (Or lack thereof!) of my `ler is a huge turn-on! There is nothing like it!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I certainly enjoy when a lee surrenders to me..

 

[bttf4444]

Yeah, usually in my stories, Michael J Fox - or one of his characters - will initially try to will himself to not be ticklish or try to take his mind off the tickling sensation. Eventually, though, he just surrenders to the tickling sensation. I guess I'm mostly interested in tickling the soles - because, for many people, it is the most ticklish spot on the body. Also, they're usually unbearably ticklish. Plus, the sensation does seem a little different than being tickled elsewhere.

 

[David.s]

Well, there's a difference between finding something sexy and finding it sexual I think. I mean, there are plenty of people who get genuinely aroused by tickling but don't have any huge desire to actively incorporate it into their actual sex lives or do other more obviously sexual stuff at the same time or whatever. Personally I've never really liked the videos where nudity and other stuff is combined with tickling, but that's more because I tend to find the ones that exist pretty distasteful or cheesy or something rather than hating the idea of mixing the two.

Thinking about it, my favourite thing about tickling would probably be its weird potential to be totally innocent and playful or really sexual or both. It's sexy and fun dammit! Being silly and stupid is the best though

 

[bttf4444]

Yeah, I really don't really like the way so many tickling videos contain so much nudity. It's because I like tickling, but I'm really not into porn.