I don't say much here, but this is a time where I sort of feel like I should.* Fake videos do bother me for a number of reasons.**
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First, I'd like to say that I watch videos like a lot of people here, but I try to stay in touch with reality and work towards overcoming my struggles.* You can't let the accessibility of these videos make up for trying to deal with life's struggles or how you feel about yourself.* A lot of people here seen to have, which is why many companies have always just put out any old thing, because it doesn't make a difference what they give us, it's not changing who we are whether it's good or bad.* Many people will just lower their standards.* So whether you're looking at something fake or not, you have to keep honest with yourself about who you are and what this is.* I think that a lot of reason for the arguments here is because people don't.
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A lot of people's sex lives here have become completely compromised because of their dependency on these companies, who like any other company, produce content that's cheapest as possible to make.* There are many people on this site here not only out of touch with taking control of their lives and experiencing real human interaction, but since this is all that they have, it's actually*making some people only able to be turned on by fake stuff.**
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It's gotten to the point where some people who watch videos now associate fake laughter with naked women and have some fixation with fake stuff now. For the sake of art and a healthy connection with reality and sexuality, it's important that one does know the difference between what's appropriate as well as real. It's bad enough that a lot of people here are becoming very disillusioned and even depraved living off of way too many videos, but on top of it they're all fake, so they're becoming dependent on being given nothing that they want. And that's just plain sad.
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I think that there's even less of a chance in real life of having any good and honest relationships if you develop an unhealthy dependency on videos that are telling a lie.* It's self-imposed abuse in my opinion.* People who think settling for this is the answer, or the closest thing they can equate to happiness, become used to being in relationships where people are "playing a part" for them. Some people here have actually limited their relations to something they pay a model for now. It doesn't make sense.
And aside from the fact that obviously we have a common interest in this, I think that some people argue over this because they are either out of touch or haven't developed the sense to see what's real and what's not. It's a matter of intuition to know whether or not a person is faking.* Since this excites us, obviously any person who sees the truth wants to see something authentic.* I know that imagination plays a part in all sexual excitement anyway, but I can use my imagination without paying for it, so I prefer to get what I'm paying for videos.
Here's an observation I've made.* In a professional fight, even though there are controls in place, much like an adult video, people are seeing something real happening and filmed in a manner that's appealing to the eye.* When a fight is filmed for a movie or dramatization, we know it's fake, but people appreciate the ways to film something that is fake and make it look real, or like all the action is happening in real time, if it's not.* That is the art of movie making!
I wonder why companies don't do that more often in adult cinema, just cut and change perspectives/frames when filming a person, either focusing only on the ticklish areas, or use different ticklish people who are about the same size and wearing the same clothes in order to create the illusion that one person is really being worked over.* If filmed properly, people would really get immersed and enjoy it!* *Anybody in film school could do it.
But this hasn't been the case of movie making in the world of mainstream adult videos since the 70s and 80s. Nobody wants to spend money immersing somebody's imagination to make something look perfect, they just hire whatever person they can find to do something they're not passionate about. It is a shame that that art is lost in the current adult film world. It maintained the idea of realism.
My suggestion to companies.* If you know it's going to be fake, don't insult people's intelligence and standards.* Make it look real. I know it costs money to get several models to make something like that, but it matters.* After a while, the audience starts becoming extremely disillusioned by what's real and what's not, leading to these kinds of conversations.* But this community is different from the average one, and we can be better than that. We can treat ourselves better than that.