A "geeky chick" that's into swords...careful, I just might fall in love. First apartment, huh? Congrats! I don't think I could do the roommate thing, though. I'm much to territorial for all that. I really wanted to go back into martial arts, but right now, going to the gym is much cheaper and I'm in a saving money mode (I DO have to be able to afford NEST again this year). The dating service is called It's Just Lunch and for a fee, they hand select 3 girls a month for you to meet with and you give them feedback. They've gotten really good reviews so far, and I like the idea that I'm not picking the girls myself. Ever heard of it? Anyway, I don't know what's wrong with some of those guys you dated, but I would LOVE to have a sword wielding, geeky chick in my life.