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  • I don't recall using that phrase at any time specifically, but having been a mod for 7 years I can tell you from experience that eventually you stop interacting if you want to be good at the "job". You need to learn to read the post content without even looking at whose name is on it and gauge it within the parameters of the rules and what your experience has taught you is acceptable. To add in the variable of "oh I know Jimmy...he doesn't mean anything by that comment" isn't correct or consistent. The entire drew fiasco created a lot more behind the scenes conversation on just this topic...applying disciplinary procedures accurately and consistently. Tough to do already without adding any emotional overtones into the process. Having no connections allows me to be as impartial as anyone can be...obviously your life experience will still "color" your perspective. It's not a matter of not wanting to get to know newcomers, believe me. With a membership base this size the only people I will regularly interact with are those struggling with the rules and interaction policies, and it won't be on a cordial basis for the most part.

    This is one of the things we discuss with mod candidates...the need to set aside what may have been an integral part of their forum experience and enjoyment. Some do a better job of it than others...most gradually come to realize the need for it or step down. We have a high attrition rate due to it,imo.
    There were a number of these threads after 9-11 that were explosive and combatative and refused to "die" down the front page. Basically they were clogging discussion and making everything else irrelevant. It needed to be solved....they were also hotbeds of GR violations. Emotions were running very high and we were caught between trying to let our people vent and trying to maintain some sense of order.
    Honestly I'd have to pick the P & R forum. It represents the culmination of nearly a year of debate and thought as to how to allow this type of conversation to exist without straining the rest of the forum. It was the first significant sub-forum and my brain-child...lol..if that makes sense?
    Blues Clues for Jews.....

    I know baby, how fucked up is that? I'll be on aim as soon as I get out of meetings. I miss you and ILY! :redheart: :redheart:
    Hi, TMF friend! I got a text message earlier from 07785998415 asking if I liked "gay fun" and since I have no idea who the number belongs to I can only surmise that it is a bored, lonely gay person in the north of Scotland (Corpach, to be precise). Please help this poor soul by spreading this number far and wide, so that another lonely gay soul might see it and they can be united forever 😀
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