Would you rather tickle someone who loves or hates to be tickled?

method11236 · Jun 5, 2006

A willing partner who has consentingly given their ticklish flesh to you. A delightfully contented giggle and insincere begging. :evilha:

A screaming struggling adversary who would give a limb to stop your tickling fingers from causing them any more agony or suffering. :rant:

Which of these scenarios would you prefer?

I personally fantasize about the latter but might have some ethical hangups on actually torturing a person. I get plenty of the former and it keeps me satisfied.

Looking forward to your responses.

Cheers,

Meth

Redmage · Jun 5, 2006

Can I say "none of the above?"

My preference is for someone who loves tickling because she loves being taken to the point where she can't stand any more, and needs me to take her through that.

A close second, but still second, would be someone who hates being tickled but likes giving that gift to someone who will do things that she has a hard time bearing.

cloudgazer2k · Jun 5, 2006

Redmage said:
Can I say "none of the above?"

My preference is for someone who loves tickling because she loves being taken to the point where she can't stand any more, and needs me to take her through that.

A close second, but still second, would be someone who hates being tickled but likes giving that gift to someone who will do things that she has a hard time bearing.

i highly second that. it's just more fun and enjoyable to tie and tickle someone who can enjoy it. now, if i know the 'lee enjoys it, but puts on a good show of hating it...that's fun, too. :woot:

Mimi · Jun 5, 2006

I love a lee who does enjoy tickling, but ultimately it's pure torture for them. So they are cool with you torturing them....but they can't bear a moment of it...lol

Mimi 😀

isabeau · Jun 5, 2006

Mimi said:
I love a lee who does enjoy tickling, but ultimately it's pure torture for them. So they are cool with you torturing them....but they can't bear a moment of it...lol

Mimi 😀

ahh that's the type of lee i am..or wish to be if ever i get the chance to be taken to and beyond my limits..

BLUE_THUNDER · Jun 5, 2006

isabeau said:
ahh that's the type of lee i am..or wish to be if ever i get the chance to be taken to and beyond my limits..

thats exactly what i like in a 'lee , extremely ticklish but enjoys it and wants to be taken just beyond their boundries. now if i could just find a willing 'lee, ill be all set. peace.......BLUE_THUNDER

Papabear · Jun 5, 2006

I love to tickle someone who loves it themselves. A very sensual track is my favorite. But, my fantasy is to tickle someone who thinks it is torture or hates it and allows me to show them the sexual side and converts under my tongue and fingertips. I really think that if you could tickle someone while giving them a great orgasm they would come to understand the power it can have over the body in a really good way.

Helena · Jun 5, 2006

This post puzzles me because I am a ticklish lee. The reason it puzzles me is because fake and insincere reactions from tickling partners robs the lee of getting a skilled tickling and robs the tickler of improving skills to become a master tickler.

However, a delightfully contented surrender and insincere begging may be all you crave. In that case, carry on, and ignore what I just said. Everyone has their own enjoyments.

luvgirlsfeet · Jun 5, 2006

I would rather tickle a girl who enjoys it because it would be enjoyable for both her and I

Italian_Touch · Jun 5, 2006

Mimi said:
I love a lee who does enjoy tickling, but ultimately it's pure torture for them. So they are cool with you torturing them....but they can't bear a moment of it...lol

Mimi 😀

ditto... i.e. it is nice to tickle a ticklee who enjoys it and it is extremely ticklish...

subZer0 · Jun 5, 2006

I love to tickle whether it is consensual or not. I prefer it when the 'lee is willing to be tickled for however long I want, but she has to be ticklish too. Sometimes, it just suits my mood, but most of the time, to make it more erotic/enjoyable, it's nice to keep it consensual, but with a litttle role-play thrown in, like a naughty 'lee who, as a punishment, has to be tickled! :cool2:

drew70 · Jun 5, 2006

Redmage said:
...someone who hates being tickled but likes giving that gift to someone....

I'm curious. How can someone give a hatred of tickling as a gift? Even if it were possible, why would you want to transfer that hatred of ticking from that person to yourself? The wording of this statement seems to make no sense as it stands.

Em Es · Jun 5, 2006

I'm with Redmage and Mimi

Redmage said one kind of ticklee he likes is " . . . someone who hates being tickled but likes giving that gift to someone who will do things that she has a hard time bearing."

Mimi said, "I love a lee who does enjoy tickling, but ultimately it's pure torture for them. So they are cool with you torturing them....but they can't bear a moment of it."

Both said it as well as I could have! My ideal ticklee is a ticklish gal who would never ask me to tickle her because she hates it - but suffers my incessant tickling because pleasing me matters more than how unbearable it is to endure!

😎 I'm a nice guy, aren't I?

cloudgazer2k · Jun 5, 2006

Helena said:
This post puzzles me because I am a ticklish lee. The reason it puzzles me is because fake and insincere reactions from tickling partners robs the lee of getting a skilled tickling and robs the tickler of improving skills to become a master tickler.

However, a delightfully contented surrender and insincere begging may be all you crave. In that case, carry on, and ignore what I just said. Everyone has their own enjoyments.

sometimes a little roleplay adds spice to things, be it sex or bondage play. i mean, sure, an honest-to-kevin-bacon tickle session is absolutely awesome. but adding in a bit more distress, a bit more pleading and begging works for me as well. and when the 'lee is saying "no, no more! i hate being tickled", when we both know that's untrue makes me want to tickle more.

Bugman · Jun 5, 2006

I had a g/f many years ago who was very ticklish but truly did hate it.When she made that clear to me i stopped even trying because it was not fun for either one of us.

Helena · Jun 5, 2006

Cloudgazer,

You are sooooooo right. Spicing things up is wonderful. Roleplaying can be tons of fun. But fake laughing when it really doesn't tickle is not my cup of tea.

LindyHopper · Jun 5, 2006

Redmage said:
A close second, but still second, would be someone who hates being tickled but likes giving that gift to someone who will do things that she has a hard time bearing.

In response to drew70, or anyone else who can't make sense of this statement: here's an analogy. Let's say I hate bicycling. 😉 My husband loves it. If he could have his first choice, it would probably be for me to love cycling as much as he does. But if I don't, and am willing to do it anyway, then that's a "gift" to him - me doing something that I hate because I know it makes him happy. In that case, he might find my actions even more meaningful, because he knows that I'm doing it for him, and not for myself.

To method, Helena, or anyone else who thinks that begging from a 'lee who loves being tickled must be insincere: I disagree. I love being tickled, I never fake my reactions, and I have been known to plead... quite seriously. This post might help that contradiction make sense:
http://ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?p=1037359#post1037359

I hate fake laughter and begging too, which I why I only offer the real kind. 🙂

knight · Jun 5, 2006

drew70 said:
I'm curious. How can someone give a hatred of tickling as a gift? Even if it were possible, why would you want to transfer that hatred of ticking from that person to yourself? The wording of this statement seems to make no sense as it stands.

Well, as I've posted before, my wife is unbearably ticklish. And she really doesn't like to be tickled. She knows of my fetish however, and knows it's an erotic turn on for me. So on occassion, while we're being intimate, I'll ask her if I may tickle her. Sometimes she says no, and that's alright. Sometimes she says yes (just by raising her arms. Oh God, that gets my heart racing!). But I'm always gentle, and I don't do it for very long. And she knows full well if she says no, I won't do it. Ever. But she lets me do it occassionally, because she knows how much I love it.

Bugman · Jun 5, 2006

knight you are a good man and i think you must have a very nice lady in your life.congrats

knight · Jun 5, 2006

bugman said:
knight you are a good man and i think you must have a very nice lady in your life.congrats

Thanks. She's the best. And very understanding. And just to properly contribute to this topic, I definitely prefer willing. Unwilling is fine for stories (and notice, 9 times out of 10 the 'lee becomes willing by the end), but in real life, I much prefer a willing partner. But, this is a very erotic fetish for me, and the consent and enjoyment of my partner is very important.

tickleshotel · Jun 6, 2006

Definitely a lee that loves being tickled who goes crazy from my light tickling fingertips,fingernails but at same time loves being tickled and would not want it to stop :2poke:

Adam · Jun 6, 2006

I'd much rather tickle someone who enjoys it. I like to consider myself a nice guy, so I'd feel bad if I upset someone who truly did not like it.

terorizer · Jun 6, 2006

I much prefer someone who enjoys the tickling - A distant second would be those astounding folks who are extremely ticklish, yet are someone ambivalent towards being tickled. Either way it has to be consensual, and I do believe "enjoying" can take many forms. Some will curse and threaten while being tickled, yet, still manage to place themselves right back in the position to recieve more. I personally think of a tickle as a gift...and I wouldn't care to give any other type of gift to someone I knew was sure to hate it.

drew70 · Jun 7, 2006

Personally, I couldn't imagine asking someone who hated tickling to endure it as a gift to me. Especially somebody I cared about. To me, that would seem to be the ultimate in selfishness. "I know you hate it, baby. But I dig it, and after all, that's what's important here." If you value your own pleasure over that of your partner, I guess that's a good way to express it.

indivision · Jun 7, 2006

It is possible to enjoy being tickled AND beg for it to stop while it is taking place. It's not insincere, either. Whether you like tickling or hate it, it tends to produce an avoidance response. Therefore, if I'm being tickled and I like being tickled, I am probably going to struggle and possible plead for it to stop---out of instinct.

I could probably elaborate on this some more, but it is late and I think I've made my point.

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