I don't know if I'm a true "Tickler". I am a sadistic top, that I know. Sadism can take many forms, however. In the end, what gets me hot is anything that causes a specific facial expression...certain reactions...induces begging... causes involuntary compliments or worship... that whatever the chosen action elicits.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=lZwhh5kPMr8
I liked that video; what really got me excited was the breathless begging and how he complimented her. Saying how amazing she was. That's why I'm unsure about being a true tickler; whatever gets me those reactions? I'm up for. I don't have favorite tools or favorite spots to tickle. I'm in it for the reactions; not the actions.
**How did all this start?**
He lived nearby and sent me a lovely well written message. We met for coffee and chatted for about 90 minutes then parted. A few weeks later, he sent another message, proposing an idea for play. After watching the above video, and chatting with a mutual female friend of ours to assess his personality status, I replied. Wanting new experiences, I said yes. We met again, we talked for nearly 3 hours, and parted yet again. Wanting to keep the momentum, I pushed for a play date a few days later.
He was new to tickle torture, as well, and gave me some information but definitely not a "how to." I was left with research and imagination. Before his arrival, I heated the room as best I could, and lit lots of candles. He arrived to the location and I showed him the room. It being my friend's BDSM basement, he found it very interesting.
I asked him to take off his shirt, but keep his socks and jeans on, and placed quality cuffs on both his wrists and ankles. I had dragged up the spanking bench to the Spider Web made of chain. With that setup, he could kneel on the spanking bench, leaving his feet sticking out. I clipped the ankle cuffs to the spider web chain. Coming to the front, I cuffed his wrists at a comfortable distance to the sides. Asked abut his comfort level at this point, making sure things weren't at bad angles.
We ended up not using a safe word, but I did tell him, "No" "Stop" and "please" weren't safe words. And he'd have to say something like, "My arms/legs/etc are hurting, let me out."
I then placed a blindfold over his eyes and tucked ear buds into his ears for the music. He wasn't supposed to see or hear anything either. At a recommendation from an online tickle friend, I purchased two Enigma song off Amazon for him to listen to to drown out all noise.
Since I'd hardly hugged this person more than twice, I decided that starting very lightly all over with my finger pads would be a good ice breaker. Kind of like getting a horse used to your presence and attention before actually doing anything with it. First, from behind, through the hair, mere seconds on the scalp. Soft hair, I did briefly think. Down the neck, then both hands gliding across shoulders and down arms. To the front, hands and fingers gliding from upper chest, down sides, over abdomen. Honestly, no real reaction to this that I could see, but it made me feel more comfortable.
I then moved up to dragging my nails from top to bottom on the sides. Just observing as I did so, it seemed the glimmerings of a reaction began. I was not moving frantically or particularly slowly. I went steadily, up-down, side-side, getting silent laughter at first and working him up to the point of snorting just to catch his breath. He was never loud.
The head phones wouldn't stay in his ears from all his writhing about, so I ended up taping them onto his head at this point.
Thinking I would get stronger reactions from his helpless feet, I switched sides. I peeled a sock off the left heel but not all the way. Tickle scratched there for a time. He kept tilting forward and then back against the chains, trying to get away, I suspect, but absolutely unsuccessful in that endeavor, I was free to continue. The right heel got attention. Then both heels at once. Then peeled the sock off more, and tickle scratched the left arch. Then the right. Then both. Until both socks were off and I was scratching lightly all over them.
Then attacked his tummy from behind, catching him off guard. Then feet. Then tummy. Not getting the reactions from his feet I was quite hoping for, I returned to the front. Where I discovered that placing the pad of my thumb over his navel and wiggling about drove him nuts and finally elicited that sweet sweet begging.
"oh my god, please stop touching there." "Stop." "Stop."
I got playful. I pretended my fingers were legs and walked, non tickling, over his skin. Making him think I would go one place by "walking" that direction, lifting my hand, and tickling elsewhere. But sometimes also tickling where I had implied I would. I brought his arm pits into the action during this, and he got very out of breath. I stroked his sides lightly, to give him a break. I repeated this twice, perhaps thrice more.
During one of the breaks, there was something about his body stance. I peeled the tape of his left ear, and ask if he were done.
He said he was "tired" from all the laughing. So, I ripped off the tape. (ha.) Undid the cuffs of his ankles, but while doing so, gave him one last tickle with some taunting like, "I thought you were done, why aren't you getting away?" Even though he was still cuffed.
Then uncuffed the front. Gave a short shoulder arm massage to help relax the muscles there.
Then sat a bit away from each other and chatted about the experience.
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My favorite parts (and arousing to me) from this were putting the cuffs on, *(there's just something about a guy giving up his wrists to be tied or cuffed that is pretty erotic.)* His begging for me to stop tickling his navel where I got the strongest reactions. Then my taunting him towards the end of play, when I was really warmed up, yet he was done.
It'd be very cool to find out how to work someone, tickle wise, to the point of passing out.
Till next time.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=lZwhh5kPMr8
I liked that video; what really got me excited was the breathless begging and how he complimented her. Saying how amazing she was. That's why I'm unsure about being a true tickler; whatever gets me those reactions? I'm up for. I don't have favorite tools or favorite spots to tickle. I'm in it for the reactions; not the actions.
**How did all this start?**
He lived nearby and sent me a lovely well written message. We met for coffee and chatted for about 90 minutes then parted. A few weeks later, he sent another message, proposing an idea for play. After watching the above video, and chatting with a mutual female friend of ours to assess his personality status, I replied. Wanting new experiences, I said yes. We met again, we talked for nearly 3 hours, and parted yet again. Wanting to keep the momentum, I pushed for a play date a few days later.
He was new to tickle torture, as well, and gave me some information but definitely not a "how to." I was left with research and imagination. Before his arrival, I heated the room as best I could, and lit lots of candles. He arrived to the location and I showed him the room. It being my friend's BDSM basement, he found it very interesting.
I asked him to take off his shirt, but keep his socks and jeans on, and placed quality cuffs on both his wrists and ankles. I had dragged up the spanking bench to the Spider Web made of chain. With that setup, he could kneel on the spanking bench, leaving his feet sticking out. I clipped the ankle cuffs to the spider web chain. Coming to the front, I cuffed his wrists at a comfortable distance to the sides. Asked abut his comfort level at this point, making sure things weren't at bad angles.
We ended up not using a safe word, but I did tell him, "No" "Stop" and "please" weren't safe words. And he'd have to say something like, "My arms/legs/etc are hurting, let me out."
I then placed a blindfold over his eyes and tucked ear buds into his ears for the music. He wasn't supposed to see or hear anything either. At a recommendation from an online tickle friend, I purchased two Enigma song off Amazon for him to listen to to drown out all noise.
Since I'd hardly hugged this person more than twice, I decided that starting very lightly all over with my finger pads would be a good ice breaker. Kind of like getting a horse used to your presence and attention before actually doing anything with it. First, from behind, through the hair, mere seconds on the scalp. Soft hair, I did briefly think. Down the neck, then both hands gliding across shoulders and down arms. To the front, hands and fingers gliding from upper chest, down sides, over abdomen. Honestly, no real reaction to this that I could see, but it made me feel more comfortable.
I then moved up to dragging my nails from top to bottom on the sides. Just observing as I did so, it seemed the glimmerings of a reaction began. I was not moving frantically or particularly slowly. I went steadily, up-down, side-side, getting silent laughter at first and working him up to the point of snorting just to catch his breath. He was never loud.
The head phones wouldn't stay in his ears from all his writhing about, so I ended up taping them onto his head at this point.
Thinking I would get stronger reactions from his helpless feet, I switched sides. I peeled a sock off the left heel but not all the way. Tickle scratched there for a time. He kept tilting forward and then back against the chains, trying to get away, I suspect, but absolutely unsuccessful in that endeavor, I was free to continue. The right heel got attention. Then both heels at once. Then peeled the sock off more, and tickle scratched the left arch. Then the right. Then both. Until both socks were off and I was scratching lightly all over them.
Then attacked his tummy from behind, catching him off guard. Then feet. Then tummy. Not getting the reactions from his feet I was quite hoping for, I returned to the front. Where I discovered that placing the pad of my thumb over his navel and wiggling about drove him nuts and finally elicited that sweet sweet begging.
"oh my god, please stop touching there." "Stop." "Stop."
I got playful. I pretended my fingers were legs and walked, non tickling, over his skin. Making him think I would go one place by "walking" that direction, lifting my hand, and tickling elsewhere. But sometimes also tickling where I had implied I would. I brought his arm pits into the action during this, and he got very out of breath. I stroked his sides lightly, to give him a break. I repeated this twice, perhaps thrice more.
During one of the breaks, there was something about his body stance. I peeled the tape of his left ear, and ask if he were done.
He said he was "tired" from all the laughing. So, I ripped off the tape. (ha.) Undid the cuffs of his ankles, but while doing so, gave him one last tickle with some taunting like, "I thought you were done, why aren't you getting away?" Even though he was still cuffed.
Then uncuffed the front. Gave a short shoulder arm massage to help relax the muscles there.
Then sat a bit away from each other and chatted about the experience.
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My favorite parts (and arousing to me) from this were putting the cuffs on, *(there's just something about a guy giving up his wrists to be tied or cuffed that is pretty erotic.)* His begging for me to stop tickling his navel where I got the strongest reactions. Then my taunting him towards the end of play, when I was really warmed up, yet he was done.
It'd be very cool to find out how to work someone, tickle wise, to the point of passing out.
Till next time.
