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A touch of fear as a ticklee...
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I agree
Yes I agree I am absolutely ticklish and when my wife and or our girlfriend work on my feet I know I m going to suffer. Both women are expert ticklers, they can take their time and if they just tickle my feet I mean no caressing no kissing just plain evil tickle torture...this is great, at some point I need to be sexually stimulated or else its going to be a real torture.
Anyway for my experience both as a tickler and ticklee its just imposible to really torture someone by tickling. I mean at some point no mater how gifted the tickler the ticklish sensations fade away (I ve never heard of tickling as real torture and it would be great because its basically harmless)
So its nice to give or receive a good deal of this fantastic "torture" and of course you really suffer for a while
Diego
Yes I agree I am absolutely ticklish and when my wife and or our girlfriend work on my feet I know I m going to suffer. Both women are expert ticklers, they can take their time and if they just tickle my feet I mean no caressing no kissing just plain evil tickle torture...this is great, at some point I need to be sexually stimulated or else its going to be a real torture.
Anyway for my experience both as a tickler and ticklee its just imposible to really torture someone by tickling. I mean at some point no mater how gifted the tickler the ticklish sensations fade away (I ve never heard of tickling as real torture and it would be great because its basically harmless)
So its nice to give or receive a good deal of this fantastic "torture" and of course you really suffer for a while
Diego
TickleLee,
I know where you are coming from. I am also a very ticklish male lee, also have the love/hate feeling and also wonder about going beyond my limits. The longest I have been tickled is about an hour. I felt like I had had the hell tickled out of me but the tickler indicated that what I had just experienced was not that intense. So far, I've never experienced the waning of ticklishness that Diego disucusses; so, tickle torture may be a real possibility for some of us.
I know where you are coming from. I am also a very ticklish male lee, also have the love/hate feeling and also wonder about going beyond my limits. The longest I have been tickled is about an hour. I felt like I had had the hell tickled out of me but the tickler indicated that what I had just experienced was not that intense. So far, I've never experienced the waning of ticklishness that Diego disucusses; so, tickle torture may be a real possibility for some of us.
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It took only 45 minutes, not two hours, for me to be tickled senseless by Mistress Zara and Mistress Kassandra working as a team. You can read about it here:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28953
I have the same fantasy as you, to be tickled way beyond my limits by one or several beautiful women. The reality was better than the fantasy. Although I had a safeword, I was laughing too much and, later, too much out of breath to use it. It was Mistress Zara who saw, after 45 minutes, that I was nearly unconscious, and stopped it. Only to begin again when they had tied me a new position!😀 😀
And before I forget: Congratulations on your first post, and welcome to TMF!
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28953
I have the same fantasy as you, to be tickled way beyond my limits by one or several beautiful women. The reality was better than the fantasy. Although I had a safeword, I was laughing too much and, later, too much out of breath to use it. It was Mistress Zara who saw, after 45 minutes, that I was nearly unconscious, and stopped it. Only to begin again when they had tied me a new position!😀 😀
And before I forget: Congratulations on your first post, and welcome to TMF!
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The 1st time I was EVER tied & tickled it was by 2 women whoweren't into tickling but were into domination , so the sufferring I experienced was something I really loved. At the time the idea of sdafewords wasn't all that common, so trust and an inherent knowledge of when to quit was really important. Anyway, they tickled me until I screamed "Mercy" - and I meant it. It stopped being fun at that point, it was no longer sexy & tittlating, and if they had ask for any "secret information" they would have gotten it - not by my choice but the survival insticnt would have kicked in and it just would have been blurted out to fend off the attack my body was experiencing. I was scared and desperate. And it was totally real.
Well, I'm still here, and I've never been tickled like that again. Since that wall was broken down, I don't know if I ever could be again. I can say that after I got it this intense, I was exceptionally high for the next day or two on the chemicals that flow through your body. I've always wondered what it would have been like, what would have happened if they didn't stop when I yelled out. And I've always wanted to be taken that far again, farther even, if only to regret it later - there's just a curiosity there that I can not explain. Because, although the payoff was great with the calmness and "high" that came, it was not a pleasant experince in the process.
Well, I'm still here, and I've never been tickled like that again. Since that wall was broken down, I don't know if I ever could be again. I can say that after I got it this intense, I was exceptionally high for the next day or two on the chemicals that flow through your body. I've always wondered what it would have been like, what would have happened if they didn't stop when I yelled out. And I've always wanted to be taken that far again, farther even, if only to regret it later - there's just a curiosity there that I can not explain. Because, although the payoff was great with the calmness and "high" that came, it was not a pleasant experince in the process.
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TickleLee said:
The verbal teasing while they were tying me up in the second, more stringent, position was quite arousing. They let me know that the second round would be more cruel than the first, and the gleam in their eyes showed me it would truly be. 😀 😀
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Oh, man, that sounds scary, Milagros: You wanted to use the safe word but couldn't talk?
(Not that you sound like you're complaining.)
(Not that you sound like you're complaining.)
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Yes, I wanted to use my safeword, but had no breath, and could neither talk nor laugh out loud.
Fortunately, Mistress Zara is an experienced dominatrix and could see that I was trying to speak, so she stopped and told Mistress Kassandra (who wasn't near my face, but attacking my feet) to stop also.
And I definitely not complaining.😀 It was wonderful!😀 😀
Fortunately, Mistress Zara is an experienced dominatrix and could see that I was trying to speak, so she stopped and told Mistress Kassandra (who wasn't near my face, but attacking my feet) to stop also.
And I definitely not complaining.😀 It was wonderful!😀 😀
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I love the Anticipation of being Tickled and before the tickling begins I am giggling from the nervousness ,once my most ticklish spots are touched even lightly I burst out laughing just as my reflexes kick in 😱 .
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TickleLee, why did you edit out all of your posts in this thread?
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For those of you who got to read my story, you know that I'm terrified of tickling - the mind is NOT willing but the body is. Despite the fact that I just can't stand the idea of being tickled because I know it'll be pure hell, I can't resist the temptation to fulfil this ONE dream.
And, I edited out my posts because I was a bit embarassed by them after I endured some teasing over the story I had posted.
It was way too personal for some people to read without adolescent snickering.
-tl
For those of you who got to read my story, you know that I'm terrified of tickling - the mind is NOT willing but the body is. Despite the fact that I just can't stand the idea of being tickled because I know it'll be pure hell, I can't resist the temptation to fulfil this ONE dream.
And, I edited out my posts because I was a bit embarassed by them after I endured some teasing over the story I had posted.
It was way too personal for some people to read without adolescent snickering.
-tl
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mind vs body
Lets talk about that for a second...
Think about it - usually the flesh is willing but the mind is weak. I, on the other hand, have a body that's willing and a brain that knows better. And the body always seems to win the fight in my mind.
If I ever end up a real ticklee, then it'll be like watching a movie for me. I'll groan and complain to myself the entire time, right through the point where the first hand is chained up. It's at this point that I suspect my body will then start to listen to the brain and revolt. But after one limb is secured, it's too late. 2 good pokes to the ribs on the exposed side would be all it takes to have me quitely and willingly let my other hand be secured. I can only imagine the mental turmoil that would go on as I "agree" to more intense tickling than 2 (unbearable) pokes to the ribs. My little world would snap.
To quote what someone who read my personal analysis of my tickling fear said, "All I can say now is WOW,WOW!.You sound just so perfect as a ticklee 🙂...I am sure your laughter is lovely background music,and I would love to get my hands on you to see if your honestly as ticklish as you have me picturing in my mind 🙂..You would Definitely be in Ticklish Hell with me..."
Lets talk about that for a second...
Think about it - usually the flesh is willing but the mind is weak. I, on the other hand, have a body that's willing and a brain that knows better. And the body always seems to win the fight in my mind.
If I ever end up a real ticklee, then it'll be like watching a movie for me. I'll groan and complain to myself the entire time, right through the point where the first hand is chained up. It's at this point that I suspect my body will then start to listen to the brain and revolt. But after one limb is secured, it's too late. 2 good pokes to the ribs on the exposed side would be all it takes to have me quitely and willingly let my other hand be secured. I can only imagine the mental turmoil that would go on as I "agree" to more intense tickling than 2 (unbearable) pokes to the ribs. My little world would snap.
To quote what someone who read my personal analysis of my tickling fear said, "All I can say now is WOW,WOW!.You sound just so perfect as a ticklee 🙂...I am sure your laughter is lovely background music,and I would love to get my hands on you to see if your honestly as ticklish as you have me picturing in my mind 🙂..You would Definitely be in Ticklish Hell with me..."
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Ticklee,
All I can say is, when you feel right, and with a person you trust, give it a try. The 1st time WILL be difficult. But it won't hurt, and you won't die. And the high afterward is amazing (if it's done right). Make sure to use a safe word. Make sure to communicate before and during the tickling. Make sure you have a 'Ler who will show you supportive affection eve as you are deing tickled to death, and during any breaks. AFTER that 1st time, it will stillbe difficult to take, you'll still feel fear, but it won'tbe nearly as intense as that one time. You'll grow to like the loss of control as a catharsis.
All I can say is, when you feel right, and with a person you trust, give it a try. The 1st time WILL be difficult. But it won't hurt, and you won't die. And the high afterward is amazing (if it's done right). Make sure to use a safe word. Make sure to communicate before and during the tickling. Make sure you have a 'Ler who will show you supportive affection eve as you are deing tickled to death, and during any breaks. AFTER that 1st time, it will stillbe difficult to take, you'll still feel fear, but it won'tbe nearly as intense as that one time. You'll grow to like the loss of control as a catharsis.
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It just happened... I'm stuck now....
DAMNIT.... er...
Oh boy! Oh yes!
Oh no...
I just got some rather disturbing news. Someone sent me an email with an invitation to tickle hell. I mean... a REAL tickle hell.
As I mentioned earlier, I'm *very* powerless to not accept. Especially from this woman. She's brunette, and of course as pretty as an Atchafalya swamp before the mosquitos come out. (Yes, I'm a country boy.)
I have never... ever... been so scared in my life. Well, except for right before I went skydiving for the 1st time (I was horridly afraid of heights before that). After that I was only afraid of crashing jetliners. If you ever want to be able to fly again, don't let me tell you the story of the air disasters I've worked.
I'm changing the subject of course. And supportive affection during the tickling would NOT help make the tickling less intense. It would help me mentally to succomb to it.
I'm reminded of what a friend told me once. I had told her about some of my b/d fantasies (the tk one was still a bit repressed at the time since I hadn't found a.s.f.t or a.m.t. I thought I was alone in the world with the desire to be tickled. I was about to enter a b/d relationship with someone and I asked my friend, "What the hell am I going to do about this? I am scared to death - I get butterflies in my stomach just thinking about what is to come." She told me, "Well, Lee, the best advice I can give you is to sit back, <sarcasm> TRY </sarcasm> to relax, and enjoy yourself."
Now what in the hell am I gonna do? I've got an email I'm 3/4 finished composing to send back to her (with my pics of course). I'm an attractive guy so I know that won't be a problem. It's all over now... she MAY even have a friend that will help gang tickle me... AND I've got 2 other (f) friends that I may invite to come witness this. THEY may decide to take their hands to me once this gets started. Yet, I've GOT to accept because my body will not allow the rationale of the brain to come in and say, "No."
This is REALLY going to be an interesting event. Scared to death, I'll probably be shaking in fear just when I meet this woman. Her being incredibly attractive doesn't help matters in the least. I could handle being tickled by someone who I didn't find attractive but I suspect that a more beautiful tickler would make me all the more ticklish.
Here's what's going to happen. At least I hope... or I hope not... I haven't decided if I hope or hope not. Bear with me here... my stomach has knotted up again because I'm having to put down on paper what's going to transpire. She'll be wearing ordinary clothes... nothing fancy, no fanciful leather, etc. Just plain jane comfortable jeans and a t-shirt or shorts and a t-shirt. I'm going to be wearing a simple pair of shorts... or briefs... (that's up to her, and I don't wanna know which until the day of the tickling). And then I'll be tied face up (the back just isn't that ticklish, is it?) to a bed, arms straight up, not to the sides, and legs out and to the side. Sort of a half spread eagle. It puts the armpits up and available directly. Then, I've no clue what will happen...
Chances are I'll freak out and really start the begging before the hand ever comes near my ribs.
<pant> Ok.. .that's all I can really relate at the moment without freaking out.
Can *anyone* give me some advice? Is it really going to be as frightening as I think it's going to be? Has anyone else been through a 1st tickling that promises to be ruthless? I've heard of this lady's past tickles... <shiver>. I'll die if she holds down an arm or sits on my hips to assault the upper body... Ever heard a ticklee in a video give out that pitiful, almost crying laugh?
What have I gotten myself into....
Oh, this will be my 1st tickling as an adult. I had one at 16 that was pretty bad but I wasn't ever restrained to where I couldn't get away. And I was never tickled badly enough so that I wanted to get away. So, in many ways that was the heavy petting and this is the real thing.
*squeaking* help?
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I've been facinated by all of this most of my adult life but haven't played much. Then a guy who's afraid of tickling gets 4 volunteers to work him over????? Wish I had your bad luck....
The is time WILL be as frightening as you think it is. No other way to say it or avoid it. Now to avoid real emotional trauma so that you may never approach tickling again, just be sure you trust the person you're with, and make sure that you outline when enough gets to be too much with her. Can you let us know her screen name, that way anyof us who have had experince with her can let you know how it went and pass along our "results" or feedback? Personally, I think for a 1st time, I think 4 people tickling you is a little much. One should be enough, and 2 for sure is enough. And think about having a time limit where the tickling ends. Like, nothing more than 30 minutes, and that INCLUDES breaks. In the end, however, it should be an amazing experience.
The is time WILL be as frightening as you think it is. No other way to say it or avoid it. Now to avoid real emotional trauma so that you may never approach tickling again, just be sure you trust the person you're with, and make sure that you outline when enough gets to be too much with her. Can you let us know her screen name, that way anyof us who have had experince with her can let you know how it went and pass along our "results" or feedback? Personally, I think for a 1st time, I think 4 people tickling you is a little much. One should be enough, and 2 for sure is enough. And think about having a time limit where the tickling ends. Like, nothing more than 30 minutes, and that INCLUDES breaks. In the end, however, it should be an amazing experience.
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Cool. You are surely at the very leading edge of this game. Somewhere out there, there has to be a gorgeous girl who feels the same way. GOD! I would love her more than life.
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Oh, and I would also warn that the vast majority of people who take an interest in you will be at the more sadistic end of the spectrum that exists here. You are treading some dodgy territory by the sound of it.
I went over to a friends to tell her about it. I don't really know the woman I'm to meet - and I must mave worded something wrong in my psychological fury. It runs a chance of being up to 4 people. But chances are it will be only 1 or two now.
I know the friend who will be coming to witness the event *very* well. Hell, chances are after the self disclosure tonight about this that I may end up marrying her. No, we aren't dating, but we've been friends since 1989. Odds are I will end up marrying her. She's kind, considerate, understanding, respects my religion (yes, guys I'm hyper religious so interrogate me about that by email if you want, not here in this forum), understands the consequences of said religion (such as no sex without a ring), can cook almost as well as I can most days, lets me cook on most days, and is cute as a button. Finally, as an added bonus, she loves to tickle. But... I didn't realize this until about 6 months ago. Call me an idiot.
So, she's the one coming with me for this. She'll be my safety net for this thing and of course wouldn't let anything get out of hand.
I know I've been touting that I want to be completely blown away. However.... this friend of mine tonight really started grinnig wide when she heard me make my comment about tickling not being a sexual thing for me. We talked endlessly about it for hours too. For instance, she asked if I got upset when a guy tickled me. Honestly, the only time I've gotten angry is when a total stranger (or co worker) takes a stab at my ribs or armpit. But all the guys I've known and that I've been friends with that have jabbed me in the ribs or gotten a handfull of stomach flesh have never made me mad in doing so. I've certainly called them all creative things for doing it, but I was never mad - I'd gripe but one of them used to do it ALL the time. I'd be underneath the car, hands up in it, and this guy would jab me in the ribs. I'd be underneath a desk, fixing a broken drawer, same thing. Sometimes he'd do it just walking by or if he came up behind me. Nothing sexual at all about it. In fact, kinda funny.
We concluded from this that the reason I enjoy tickling is primarily because of the intimacy I associate with it. Granted, going to see a stranger to be tickled is certainly not going to be intimate. But this is kinda like letting out 15 years of pent up tickleeness out. I gotta go get tickled. Nothing different than getting a massage. Just happens that I have to be tied up for this kind of massage.
Then... much to my consternation, she pounced on me to see how ticklishg I was. We were sitting on the couch and she just reached in with both hands going for ribs. I turned into a quivering mass of jelly on the far side of the couch, crawling into the couch backwards while keeping an eye on her. She came in AGAIN while I was reeling from it and went to town on some ribs and some of my stomach. I was balled up in the fetal position in seconds and panting. The entire tickling lasted about 60 seconds. I was COMPLETELY powerless against this girl. I had myself balled up tight and my arms plastered to my sides and what little real estate she had to work with was enough to keep me paralyzed.
I had this big ass grin on my face and she then proceeded to psyche-tickle me. Just reaching for my ribs but stopping before she ever got there. THIS had me crawling the walls in 5 minutes.
At this point, she looked at me and said, "Oh boy... you're screwed. You're REALLY screwed. 5 minutes and this girl will have you screaming from the top of your lungs."
Later, as I was telling her about how I was frightened but still going to do it, she looked at me with this big grin on her face. She had, "Oh, you poor, poor soul. You have not clue one about what you're getting into," written all over her face. Do you have any clue how bad that made my stomach knot up? Just that look she gave me. This, "I can't believe what my friend has gotten himself into," look blew me away.
Again, later, I saw her grinnig at me and I said, "You really can't wait to see this, can you?"
Now I'm at home... my stomach and ribs are still reeling from the litte work over she gave me. And again, my mind is being allowed to wander. I'm absolutely going to lose it. I'm soooo screwed.
"Sit back, try to relax, and enjoy yourself."
-C.C., LSU 1993
I know the friend who will be coming to witness the event *very* well. Hell, chances are after the self disclosure tonight about this that I may end up marrying her. No, we aren't dating, but we've been friends since 1989. Odds are I will end up marrying her. She's kind, considerate, understanding, respects my religion (yes, guys I'm hyper religious so interrogate me about that by email if you want, not here in this forum), understands the consequences of said religion (such as no sex without a ring), can cook almost as well as I can most days, lets me cook on most days, and is cute as a button. Finally, as an added bonus, she loves to tickle. But... I didn't realize this until about 6 months ago. Call me an idiot.
So, she's the one coming with me for this. She'll be my safety net for this thing and of course wouldn't let anything get out of hand.
I know I've been touting that I want to be completely blown away. However.... this friend of mine tonight really started grinnig wide when she heard me make my comment about tickling not being a sexual thing for me. We talked endlessly about it for hours too. For instance, she asked if I got upset when a guy tickled me. Honestly, the only time I've gotten angry is when a total stranger (or co worker) takes a stab at my ribs or armpit. But all the guys I've known and that I've been friends with that have jabbed me in the ribs or gotten a handfull of stomach flesh have never made me mad in doing so. I've certainly called them all creative things for doing it, but I was never mad - I'd gripe but one of them used to do it ALL the time. I'd be underneath the car, hands up in it, and this guy would jab me in the ribs. I'd be underneath a desk, fixing a broken drawer, same thing. Sometimes he'd do it just walking by or if he came up behind me. Nothing sexual at all about it. In fact, kinda funny.
We concluded from this that the reason I enjoy tickling is primarily because of the intimacy I associate with it. Granted, going to see a stranger to be tickled is certainly not going to be intimate. But this is kinda like letting out 15 years of pent up tickleeness out. I gotta go get tickled. Nothing different than getting a massage. Just happens that I have to be tied up for this kind of massage.
Then... much to my consternation, she pounced on me to see how ticklishg I was. We were sitting on the couch and she just reached in with both hands going for ribs. I turned into a quivering mass of jelly on the far side of the couch, crawling into the couch backwards while keeping an eye on her. She came in AGAIN while I was reeling from it and went to town on some ribs and some of my stomach. I was balled up in the fetal position in seconds and panting. The entire tickling lasted about 60 seconds. I was COMPLETELY powerless against this girl. I had myself balled up tight and my arms plastered to my sides and what little real estate she had to work with was enough to keep me paralyzed.
I had this big ass grin on my face and she then proceeded to psyche-tickle me. Just reaching for my ribs but stopping before she ever got there. THIS had me crawling the walls in 5 minutes.
At this point, she looked at me and said, "Oh boy... you're screwed. You're REALLY screwed. 5 minutes and this girl will have you screaming from the top of your lungs."
Later, as I was telling her about how I was frightened but still going to do it, she looked at me with this big grin on her face. She had, "Oh, you poor, poor soul. You have not clue one about what you're getting into," written all over her face. Do you have any clue how bad that made my stomach knot up? Just that look she gave me. This, "I can't believe what my friend has gotten himself into," look blew me away.
Again, later, I saw her grinnig at me and I said, "You really can't wait to see this, can you?"
Now I'm at home... my stomach and ribs are still reeling from the litte work over she gave me. And again, my mind is being allowed to wander. I'm absolutely going to lose it. I'm soooo screwed.
"Sit back, try to relax, and enjoy yourself."
-C.C., LSU 1993
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TickleLee said:
Hey, Idiot,
Actually, bringing this woman along is a very good idea.... in case things get out of hand she can step in. Very smart and protective of you.
Also, "coming out" to her will remove a great weight off of you if you do start getting serious with her. Once you are really intimate with someone and you have a big secret to drop, it gets difficult.
On the other hand, if she likes tickling you so much, and your'e ALREADY tied down and being tickled, she just might join in. Poor, poor you.
And you simply must tell us all what happens during your session!
Anyway, she sounds like a keeper. Marry her! I wish I married my tickle-frined before some other guy got to first.
