NJLaughs
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First let me say that I am 100% serious with this idea. I am not making fun of the ladies-only gathering--I support it. I am not making fun of the "monster" thread that Viper innocently started. It's just something that came to my mind reading the "Lady Lers" thread.
Since we have General gatherings, Couples-Only gatherings and now a Ladies-Only gathering, what about the idea of having a primarily F/M gathering? In other words, one where those ladies who describe themselves as 90-100% ler getting together with men who describe themselves as 90-100% lee? I think the dynamics of such a meeting would be considerably different from the general gatherings.
I might also suggest that it could include any ladies who are less than 90% ler, but who agree, for that gathering, to take on the ler role primarily. The same for men lees. For example, I am basically 50/50 myself, but since I have NEVER been seriously tickled, I am really wanting to experience that, so I am presently leaning toward the lee side and could easily take that role for a gathering.
However, I am not in a position to organize such a thing, due to my personal situation, and not even sure I could attend such a gathering for the same reason. I just wanted to throw this out there for thoughts and input. And PLEASE let's not start the same insanity prompted by FFOT!
Since we have General gatherings, Couples-Only gatherings and now a Ladies-Only gathering, what about the idea of having a primarily F/M gathering? In other words, one where those ladies who describe themselves as 90-100% ler getting together with men who describe themselves as 90-100% lee? I think the dynamics of such a meeting would be considerably different from the general gatherings.

I might also suggest that it could include any ladies who are less than 90% ler, but who agree, for that gathering, to take on the ler role primarily. The same for men lees. For example, I am basically 50/50 myself, but since I have NEVER been seriously tickled, I am really wanting to experience that, so I am presently leaning toward the lee side and could easily take that role for a gathering.
However, I am not in a position to organize such a thing, due to my personal situation, and not even sure I could attend such a gathering for the same reason. I just wanted to throw this out there for thoughts and input. And PLEASE let's not start the same insanity prompted by FFOT!
