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Anybody from London UK?

Mercy/Mad

You'll be in no fit state to do ANYTHING once myself and my fellow Horseman of the tickocalypse finish with you!!

While the first gathering is only small scale, if it's like it is on the e mail, hell, it'll be a riot!!! From then on, the more the merrier!

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV
 
Is It A Bird? Is It A Plane....?

No, it's just Mercy getting tickled senseless!!!

Does this mean that you change into a superhreo outfit consisting f boots and tights?Hmmm...maybe your stocking feet will get a going over after all...!

Cheers, everybody
SuperSmashTV
 
Hello Again all

I just wanted to say thanks to all of you, I am really looking forward to meeting you all at the gathering just let me know when and where it is exactly. I am with SmashTV, I would love to get a hold of Ticklish Mercy's stockinged or nyloned feet and really torture her. I don't see how it will take 10 guys to hold her down, cause we are going to tie her up so we don't have to hold her down....LOL...your in for it Ticklish Mercy. No Mercy!!!!Only kidding I respect limits and the use of safewords if you like. But then again if you like no mercy tickling I can do that also.....Bye for now group.
 
Hello I just wanted to say I agree

RESPECT is the key to any Gathering I feel. You have to respect the ladies who are willing to endure the tickling and their limits and the use of safeword if they so desire. Actually everyone should be treated with respect no matter if its female or male. I really hope you all allow me to participate in one of your Gatherings. Everyone have a nice day!

TicklesFemales
 
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Folks, a man's fantasy and the reality of behavior in such an event are two VERY different things. I suspect that this is true for women, as they're equally well behaved.

The exceptions, here on this continent, are booted physically from the building. Hearty, able Englishmen can do such every bit as well as Americans, way I figure it.

I so enjoyed bein' there. I hope you get this going there. It's a great community you have there.

It's as TicklesFemales is sayin'. Respect is key. You'll do well. You're English. If Californians can do this well, y'all should be STELLAR. Lord knows your BDSM clubs there are such.

Oh, and there's the appearance of the first bits of strife within your community. I'm having to edit threads of hostilities. I've already mailed one of you. Moderators are reviewin' the other post to determine whether it's to be ignored, the user mailed, or the user removed. This IS a private forum. We're here t'play nice together. How you deal with one another, at a gathering, is your business. England IS big enough to have more than ONE gathering. If Del's aren't your cuppa, make your own. They're so easy, after all. You'll see when you start to organize the event, screen the members, get a space to host the event without outting everyone attending, arrange for food and drink, secure the scene, arrange for moderators of your own, there. etc., etc.

Peace,

dvnc
 
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I think once again this shows the wealth of knowledge that is really out there and available to us as a 'new' community. If we take heed of this advice from ones experienced in the very field we wish to explore then only good can come of it.

I think we should have a new thread where everyone can post ideas on rules and regulations if you will, regarding the gatherings. Almost like a melting pot. I am sure dvnc and others will be happy to put there own experiences into the pot in order to make the gatherings we have successful. It may also give those waiting on the fringes of our community the confidence to come out of the shadows and into the light.

But for now I would once again like to reiterate my thanks to del and others for putting the time and effort into making this happen and even though I may not be able to attend any subsequant gatherings for the moment I wish them all the best of luck and will enter the fray as and when possible.

Ice xx 😎
 
Actually, if any of you are interested in hosting, specifically, and the responsibilities for coordinating and assuring safety in such events, do contact me. So far, the only person here that has sought such knowledge, posting here in the UK section, is Del.

Are any of you interested in helping Del run an event? Do any of you wish to run your own. Mail me. There's a list already going elsewhere for such things, and I can look to pass you what's been distributed.

To start, though, you can prowl the West Coast Gatherings site for specifics there. Wrote a bit on this a while ago, and it's still true. http://members.aol.com/gatheringswc/

dvnc
 
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dvnc said:
Actually, if any of you are interested in hosting, specifically, and the responsibilities for coordinating and assuring safety in such events, do contact me. So far, the only person here that has sought such knowledge, posting here in the UK section, is Del.

dvnc

I was thinking it might be easier to fly some of the more experienced people over here to the UK to help out. For the cost of a air ticket or 2 we can have "hands on" support and guidance.
Plus if we get some of the big name moderators it will inspire everyone with confidence.
 
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I b'lieve that may qualify as a first for me - an association wit' me as a "big name".

Me, you'd have to PAY for, as I haven't the dime to fly out alone, much less wit' my wife (and I wouldn't be flyin' to the UK without my woman, 'cause that's just stupid for me).

Now, if you folks go crazy, find someone rich, and pay for my wife and I to fly over and help ya, I won't argue. It just seems extreme, expensive, and you'll do fine WITHOUT me. Wit' the crew you have there, already, you should have a fine event. Between commentary here and on the UK list (yes, I do attend to that list in my copious spare time) I figure you'll do wonderfully. No go pick a location, a date in which you can use it, and a local public place from which you can meet, and get together a group and host an event. Mail me for any questions. Mail the list for the Gatherings host, or have me do it for ya if you feel shy. I ain't shy. Never have been.

Just do it. Start with a social meeting, a munch of some sort in a pub on a weekend when everyone could attend, midday, like around late lunch. Coordinate wit' those that show for the gathering, checking to see who will help wit' details. You have ALL you need, already. Were I there, I'd be checking with the folks I wanted to meet for their appropriate day. Pick 4 or 5, suggest them in a mail to that list of people off the top of your head that you KNOW you wanna meet, and suggest a munch. All that needs is a date, time and location. SmashUK, BigJim, Mercy, Iceman, TicklesFemales (TF), TickleMad, Boba, JustMyFeet... Sounds like a good starting mob, yeah? Bet some of them can and will help. Iceman, BigJim and SmashUK have actively volunteered in one way or another already, in their enthusiasm to help.

Do. Just do it. Munch first. Arrange a gathering. Then have a munch AND a gathering. Munch in one spot, gathering directions from there. Simple, no? It's gonna happen in San Diego soon. It's happened in the states a number of times. You don't HAVE to start out at the play space. Helps folks show to socialize that AREN'T thinkin' they can show to a play space of any sort. Maybe they'll change their minds when they find that you're all safe as houses. Won't know 'til you MEET 'em. Gotta meet.

Dig? Good. Figured y'all would see what I was sayin'.

Munch. Coordinate Gathering. Hold second munch, with first official gathering. Brag here about how damned good that felt. More show. Americans go on holiday to coordinate wit' your events there. Becomes the UK answer to NEST. Good deal, yeah? Starts wit' a munch. Meet and gab. Forget about the strangers on the street, and focus on the ticklephiles in this forum, reading this post.

Who wants in? Mail me. I'd like to see a tally. Tell me if you want your reply kept private. Put "UK" in the subject somewhere, and tell me whether you're interested, whether you'd like to try to assist Del, and whether I can use your email address in a mailing to the group that mails me. If you don't want to be "seen" I'll blind-copy you so you get the mail from me, but no one sees your email address. Easy to do. I do it for mine ALL the time. Do tell me how far you'd travel on a Saturday afternoon (to London, to Bristol, etc.). I await your replies. My mail address for gatherings is (not surprisingly) [email protected] and the wc is for West Coast, 'cause I ran the West Coast Gatherings once, not long ago.

There, I'm helping. Now go pick a place for a munch. 😉

dvnc
 
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Relevant? Excellent, it was. Do remember that folks from England and Ireland DO vacation in Scotland. Everyone has t'have a holiday, and a holiday wit' friends is more fun. Havin' a gathering near a tour-able place means the holiday HAS t'be fun.

Heck, I dug seein' Philadelphia, but wouldn't have stepped to the founding location of my home nation without NEST bein' there. Wasn't reason enough on it's own.

Don't sweat my wishin' you kids had what the US has. I just know there's good folk there, and want 'em t'enjoy what we get to in the US.

Scotland unite! Have a freakin' munch, already. I know more of you exist, 'cause I know of a lady who tried starting things there already. She bailed before completing the task, though, and now lives in the US. All ya gotta do is meet for munchies, somewhere.

It'll happen, darlin'. Faith. You can help it along by callin' for a munch in your area. I can teach you how to do so, safely. Mail me at [email protected] and I'll give ya a bunch of useful info.

Peace,

dvnc
 
Oh I had such a giggle over these recent postings especially about my New Year's party. The sight of the guys all stepping back with a look of concern on their faces was absolutely PRICELESS. I laughed and laughed and I wasn't even on the table at that time! LOL

I can guarantee any lady here that if you play with Jonathan he will treat you with respect and will ensure you also have a wonderful time. I loved having him here in San Jose (California, USA) over New Years in 2001/2002. I had never met him before but had chatted online quite a bit and have several friends from the UK who know him personally. If he's a friend of theirs, he's a friend of mine. And now that I've met him he'll be a friend forever.

DVNC has been to the UK for a gathering before. I hope I can make it there someday soon as well. Hey Dave... maybe we can meet there at the same time! Boy oh Boy... DVNC and QB in the UK would be A OK! LOL

BTW.. for those of you who don't know me... QB stands for Queen Bitch (affectionate name given to me from my crew who work with me at motorycle races. A rider tried to run me down and I stood my ground and then scolded him like he's never been scolded before. I got a formal apology and a bouquet of flowers the next day delivered to the control tower prior to racing. He was a professional rider who knew I could throw him out of Laguna Seca Raceway without any problem.) I still carry that nickname proudly and it's pretty off character for me because I'm usually pretty nice... really I am. LOL

So... Thanks for the giggles everyone. Enjoy yourselves and when I get the chance I'll let you know when I can get over there to visit. I'm hoping to link it to a business trip to Amsterdam later this year.

Hugs and Tickles,
Jan
 
QUEEN BITCH IS COMING TO LONDON !

QBWeaver said:
Oh I had such a giggle over these recent postings especially about my New Year's party. The sight of the guys all stepping back with a look of concern on their faces was absolutely PRICELESS. I laughed and laughed and I wasn't even on the table at that time! LOL

So... Thanks for the giggles everyone. Enjoy yourselves and when I get the chance I'll let you know when I can get over there to visit. I'm hoping to link it to a business trip to Amsterdam later this year.

Hugs and Tickles,
Jan


"QB stands for Queen Bitch (affectionate name given to me from my crew who work with me at motorycle races."

QUEEN BITCH !
Ha! I love it. 😀

Well, it's nice to see some of the BIG NAMES starting to get interested in helping UK get rolling. From the first time I started posting I knew we needed BIG NAMES to get things moving that's just the law of nature.
I had to stir up trouble, make noise, test the waters, be random.

I'd love to run a marketing campaign one day like this;

QUEEN BITCH IS COMING TO LONDON !

That rocks 🙂
 
DVNC & QB Weaver - The Gurus on tour !

Ticklish Mercy said:
A lot of us have already met each other and are all in frequent contact by phone and text.

How many people are you talking about?

_________________________________________________________
DVNC & QB Weaver - The Gurus on tour !

I hope you both can make it. I can bet nothing is going to kick off in the UK if the Gurus from the US don't come on tour.
If I'm wrong it would have happened already 🙄
The UK are generally way too reserved and passionless 🙂


Even if you all had a great meet without the Gurus that I couldn't attend I would be very impressed, it would be a good sign that things are happening 🙂
 
Ticklish Mercy said:
About eight of us in total at the moment 🙂 Its a start 🙂

Good stuff. A telephone/text community of 8 is a good start. I hope you all transpose successfully into the real world. Your challenge are logistics.
Nice one 😎

I'm working from the opposite end. I'm trying to bring the real world into the community. My challenge is ideological.

It's all great fun isn't it :evilha:


Bring on the Big Name Gurus from the US !
 
How you get 8?

Sorry Mercy - just doing some adding up here amongst us - regular contact certainlyhasn;t been going on between at least 4 of us now for several weeks, since your meet with someone from here - in fact things have fallen apart. On last count and talking to people, you have met 1 person that you revealed to certain members and someone else has met 4 - that makes 3 short.

I also find it hard to believe that you are now here posting with the very people that in IM chat you have been so anti.

These last few weeks have changed you - I dont know what has happened, but from certain peopls persepcives it aint for the better and alot of people have been upset by your behaviour.

IF this is the group you want to mix with from now on then I wish you all luck in whatever you get off the ground
 
Mercy - I will email regarding this, to keep it away from the board, but there is one point that is relevant to be shared here.

The fact that you are participating in threads here involving rules and safety for any meets. The fact that for weeks leading up to your meeting with someone here you were quite honestly hysterical at times, and to an extent only naturally worried about the first meet.
Hence 2 of us supported you through that period and suggested rules for you and that you have a codeword to contact us by to let us know you were o.k (you agreed on hourly contact) and also one if you were in any danger. You also were going to let us know where you were should that occur.

I dont deny that the man you met text me to ask if I could call and I did, but the point is that after all that there was nothing. Neither of us heard from you and had no idea if you were safe or not.

And here you are suggesting rules to others for a UK meet when you are unable to keep your own.
 
Aw, now this is sad. Do you people REALLY have to bring your personal fights here?

Ticklemad, if she screwed up on a safety call, that's your issue with her. I don't dig it anymore than anyone else would, but it's a PERSONAL issue, and this is not a PERSONAL ISSUE section. We don't have one of those for a reason.

There's clearly people talking to one another OFF this forum, and OFF the UK yahoo list. Anyone wanting to get a headful of host info, to start hosting, is welcome to contact me, and I'll see that the person moderating the hosts mailing list knows you wish to be added.

Ticklemad, do also know that I MET more than you've counted there, and only met one who is on this current forum. There's more than you're counting. More that have STATED a willingness to attend. Someone soon will organize a simple munch to see who's bold enough to stand and be met. From there it will progress.

In the mean time, know that pickin' fights on this forum echos into events. Play nice here, 'cause what you do here follows you to gatherings.

dvnc
 
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First, it only takes 2 to make a party. Our gatherings in the San Francisco/San Jose/Sacramento areas of California range from about 6 up to about 22. I believe the average is about 11. So 4 or 8.. it's still a party.

The concerns voiced about meeting people is a valid one. I had posted about someone out here in the US who was recently hurt by someone she met for tickling. She did not inform anyone that they were meeting and where. The result was that she was physically hurt (not raped) and she's left with the emotional scars now that the bruising has disappeared.

I remember that when I first found you all that I couldn't WAIT to meet guys to play with and I did not know about playing safe. I was very fortunate that I met some wonderful gentlemen and I had a great time.

However I always play safe now. I make sure that I have a buddy standing by who will call my cell phone or the location where I am at. I have a "code word" I've shared with my buddy that I can easily slip into a conversation that alerts them that I don't feel safe or I am in danger and proper steps are taken to get me out of that situation if I cannot get out of it myself.

This is something that everyone who plays, both women AND men, need to follow. It's all about YOUR safety especially if bondage is involved. I would hate to hear that anyone was harmed during a scene in any community, not just ours.

So do set down some guidelines and do follow them strictly. They are there for YOUR safety. If you don't follow them it only leads your buddies to be concerned.

When newer folks get into this "sport" called tickling... the excitement about realizing a life long dream can easily overwhelm someone and they get caught up in the fun. For that reason I always ask my buddies to call me instead of me calling them. It takes awhile to do the bondage and get the scene moving along so it might not be as easy for the "lee" to make a call. And that way, if the "lee" doesn't answer then steps need to be taken immediately to get to the location and check on them or to call the authorities. The "lee" can also set up a codeword that tells the buddies that everything is just fine and you don't need to check on me anymore. That will help also.

So it's a two fold issue. It's the responsibility of the "lee" to set down some rules and guidelines and stick to them as well as the "ler" and the buddies to help ensure everyone is safe and having fun. We HAVE to do this together so we can all have a safe time and therefore a fun time.

I've gone on for far too long here so I'll sign off. I do hope I can get over there sometime soon. Only time will tell at this point but I'll keep you all informed.

Hugs and Tickles,
Jan
 
dvnc said:
Aw, now this is sad. Do you people REALLY have to bring your personal fights here?

Ticklemad, if she screwed up on a safety call, that's your issue with her. I don't dig it anymore than anyone else would, but it's a PERSONAL issue, and this is not a PERSONAL ISSUE section. We don't have one of those for a reason.

There's clearly people talking to one another OFF this forum, and OFF the UK yahoo list. Anyone wanting to get a headful of host info, to start hosting, is welcome to contact me, and I'll see that the person moderating the hosts mailing list knows you wish to be added.

Ticklemad, do also know that I MET more than you've counted there, and have only met one on this current forum. There's more than you're counting. More that have STATED a willingness to attend. Someone soon will organize a simple munch to see who's bold enough to stand and be met. From there it will progress.

In the mean time, know that pickin' fights on this forum echos into events. Play nice here, 'cause what you do here follows you to gatherings.

dvnc

Hi Dave. This isn't a train of emotions that's confined to the TMF. I've also been accused of several weird and wonderful things, including "using people" by TM.(Not a bad effort when you consider I've only met two, and neither have complained to me thus far!) I have to say, that although I don't spend half as much time as I used to online, I still have an ear to the ground with a lot of UK members. Most of them know Mercy quite well, and if she'd been pissing them off, then I'm certain I would have heard about it. Until very convincing evidence proves me wrong, then I'll just assume that these comments were the figment of TM's imagination, and more driven by her personal feelings towards Mercy, than anything else.

Ticklemad, if Mercy didn't call anyone more than a couple of times, then it might just have meant that she didn't feel the need. Certainly she was cheerful enough on those two occasions and didn't feel in any way threatened. IF there is anyone who's p***ing anyone off in the UK, then it's you. You are the only one out of the 12 or so who are in the "inner circle" who I've ever known to generate bad feeling. ( With the exception of me, of course.:jester: )
We all got together to create a space in cyberdom that was as free of bad feeling and as full of tickling as possible. For God's sake, let's try and make sure we achieve that, shall we?
 
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BigJim said:


Ticklemad, if Mercy didn't call anyone more than a couple of times, then it might just have meant that she didn't feel the need. Certainly she was cheerful enough on those two occasions and didn't feel in any way threatened. IF there is anyone who's p***ing anyone off in the UK, then it's you. You are the only one out of the 12 or so who are in the "inner circle" who I've ever known to generate bad feeling. ( With the exception of me, of course.:jester: )
We all got together to create a space in cyberdom that was as free of bad feeling and as full of tickling as possible. For God's sake, let's try and make sure we achieve that, shall we?


WELL SAID BIG JIM !

I do not have any time or desire to meet miserable people.
I'm having fun.
 
People, Please

Now, having talked to most of the UK members before now, be it through the TMF, the uk board or e mail in general, I know that you're a decent enough bunch to spend time with. Can't really comment about Del, as I've only talked to him fleetingly, but myself and Jim seem to share a mutual love of British comedy from the 80's and 90's, which is a good ground to start off any relationship!!!

However, I feel I must defend Ticklemad here; I'm not saying she's right and you're wrong, but, talking personally, I can't say that she's been generating bad feeling around the group, at least the group as a whole. I've not felt it anyway. Okay, maybe the boards aren't the best place to start talking about personal feelings, but maybe she wanted to get it off of her chest, and felt that this was the best way to do so.

In fairness, there's probably a bucketload of stuff that I know nothing about, hence I'm not going to get into any argument about events. All I will say is that I'm 100% positive that TickleMad didn't mean to cause any resentment or grudges, she was merely stating her opinion. Del, I also think you're unfair to call Ticklemad miserable. One post doesn't make her a miserable person, does it? Maybe she was having a bad day,you know? You may or may not have noticed, Derek, that someone wrote something non - too complimentary about you on this very forum. No idea what it said, but it must have been quite severe to have it scrapped.

At the end of the day, people, and this is to all of us, we're all in this together. I for one intend to stick around as long as possible, and I'd rather do that in the company of those that I began this with than total strangers (apologies to any future members!). I'm sure Ticklemad wouldn't have said these things just to obtain a reaction from us all; she must have felt quite strong about it to say it in the first place. I'm not here to take sides, and I don't want to come across as preachy, I'm merely trying to maintain some harmony amongst us all.

Can't we put this behind us and move on...?

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV
 
Ticklemad's grief givin' here wasn't a matter of scale, brother, but since it's ended, it's a de facto agreement wit' ya, man.

No one wants grief and stays around here. Us civility-minded moderators spoil such things. I'm sure the lady's not doin' such EVERYWHERE. Just dealin' wit' what's here, myself. Others bring in that list, and there WAS a bit on there (what? Of course I'm readin' it...).

It's big of ya t'defend her without knowin' her position. I encourage ya t'approach her in email. Then approach BigJim, then Del, then Mercy, and see what the pictures show. Many images often show a clearer picture as a whole, even when they don't agree.

Your scene, there, will continue, and grow. There's several of you organizin' to host events. Means that you all will get to meet, IRL, and socialize. Play, even, for those interested in such stuff publically (and not everyone IS interested in public play).

No worries, sir!

My $0.02,

dvnc
 
Let people be

I think we should try and understand the differences among us and enjoy the similarites.

I do:

Public tickle play
Private tickle play
Fun tickle play
Sexy tickle play

If somebody is not into 75% of what I am into I do not have a problem with that. I can have fun and be social on any level.
Coming out and admiting you have a tickle fetish is quite a bold step for some people. To come to a tickle forum and have people have a go at you for your particular taste in tickling is madness.
It's like going to a restaurant for a meal with a new group of people who have never had that food before and having some idiot complain about what is on everybody elses plate and then try and dictate who should be eating what.
So I would not be surprised if somebody had something bad to say about me after I flung everything on my plate in their face so to speak.
I must say that it is not normally like me as I would usually diplomatically tell them to eat what is on their plate and leave me alone.


Anyway it's all good fun 🙂
I differ from most people here in that I very much prefer to be tickling than talking about or argueing about tickling.
My advice is try tickling it really is very nice in real life if done properly with patience 😀
 
dvnc said:


It's big of ya t'defend her without knowin' her position. I encourage ya t'approach her in email. Then approach BigJim, then Del, then Mercy, and see what the pictures show. Many images often show a clearer picture as a whole, even when they don't agree.



D, you are a paragon of diplomacy and a worthy dude to have in any conversation. 😉 I could'nt have put my feelings any clearer or more unlikelilly to be censored.

(No, "unlikelilly" is not a real word!)
 
ROFL! "Unlikelilly" makes my head hurt! Hee hee!

Happy t'be helpful!

dvnc
 
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