There's been a LOT of activity on the eastern seaboard. Means that you gotta search a bit to see stuff, as it falls away unless diligent folk add to it, mentioning their interest.
Spenser has been hosting out there for some time, and has affliations in that region with other kinks. Means more parties in VA.
MrTicklee has been talking about this for four years:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=63016
Assisting him in getting a munch together would be helpful to you. There's 'lees out that way. I know one in his thread. She's wicked cool, too.
Too, NEST ain't so far for a May trip.
Point is simple, though, gents - there's not only a plethora of events out there, but there ARE women that are known to be cool out there. If I know this, and I'm on the West Coast, you should know this.
Now you do. Attend events. I expect to see you at NEST.
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