Thank you Stocks!
I dont visit here too often (pretty busy honestly, interactions have been less and less the busier I get and i hate that, i like talking to you guys, since im from the community also)
I’ll say this: you’ll ALWAYS hear dirt on anyone if you dig enough, its whether its consistent or not. I can honestly say I only know TWO studios who in reality, are session guys posing as producers. Can i prove it with mathematical certainty? Of course not. But then I cant prove I wont drop of a heart attack 5 minutes from now.
That said, the girls all talk, and I do hear one name in particular that comes up who is quite bad about passing girls calling ‘red’, to the point that he is said to have jumped ON a girl and kept going. Traumatized her to the point she canceled shoots with anyone shes never worked with - including me. I wasn’t mad at her, she had a crap experience, i get it. Was i disappointed? A million percent I was. But again, I wasnt upset with her, I was and still am, never going to associate with that ‘producer’ again.
There’s been talk of a couple more but I hadnt heard enough to verify it yet. The other who I heard many stories on is kinda out of it now, and honestly I cant say im surprised. He likes to use hitachi wands and doesnt know what ‘red’ means either.
Anyway! To bring it back to positivity, I can happily say the girls I work with, and there have been many - have only been upset/violated by two of them that I can tell, and possibly a third.
For me? I just try to stay cool with everyone. Can you make everyone happy all the time? Unfortunately no. I’ve had a couple falling outs but of the roughly sixty girls I’ve worked with, I’d say the 2 or 3 where it went poorly wasn’t due to the shoot. It’s a long story and I’m not going to toss dirt here lol
Safe sane and consensual gang! Play hard but always play in the boundaries of the sandbox you’re given 🙂