Are you open about your tickling fetish?

[nessonite1]

Welcome to you! Joining here has been a stepping stone of sorts for many people. 🙂

 

[MistressValerie1]

I voted no, because I take great care to keep this aspect of my life hidden, except online. As far as my subby hubby, we never really discussed tickling as a seperate fetish per se, so in a sense, I'm not even fully open about it with him. It's just something that I enjoy doing to him and that he enjoys receiving 🙂

 

[MistressValerie1]

Joining here has been a stepping stone of sorts for many people. 🙂

Indeed, in more ways than one 😉

 

[ticklersdream]

It is a big step but one that i was willing to make. Welcome to the family prettythings glad to have you aboard. We're like a family her so we look out for each other. Val you are a ledgend (at least to me) i thought you at least would have been open about it. Your hubby is a very lucky man i would trade place with him in a heart beat. I just gotta find the right woman and i should be alright though.

 

[Soletickler211]

"...this is my gift...my curse..."

-Peter Parker

 

[pabuluz1]

Am open about it... my friends laugh about it and says it makes me who i am... and my girlfriend has know for years... she has fun with me and we tickle each other alot.... and girls i know tease me and ask do i wanan tickle them all the time which drives me crazy

 

[Roshi]

Nope, I keep this to myself for the most.

 

[halfshirt]

tell 'em!

if you tell people what you like to do they'll help you do it. that's human nature. to all those who haven't told anyone i say: tell 'em! it'll be allright.

 

[-Kunoke-]

I wish I could tell people, but I don't really feel comfortable about chatting about it with people who don't understand. Thats why being on these types of forums helps me because I can actually have a conversation about it with someone who doesnt think it makes me a freak. I have told a couple people however. Im sure eventually word gets out amungst people though.

 

[onan]

my first post here ... but i have to say im 17 and i cant imagine telling anybody 😀 - so ill look for pages like this here and so i can have my fun 🙂 (as you can see in my name)
i thought i am the only one who gets a strong ***** 😀 in front of girls feet
but i never planned to tickle a girl (i think im to shy for that .. i think i wont tell it to future girlfriends - but i would like to say it ...) XD

lets have fun :happy:

 

[dar man]

Well........I like Ness. am suprised at the number of people who are open to people they know.....as for me.I`d have say no I am not..There are people who have probably figured it out and were they to ever ask I wouldn`t lie

 

[Alan19581]

I'm not open about it. I think my g/f has guessed cus she often runs here fingers gently up and down my sides when she's in the mood.

Before I was with my g/f, if a girl ever playfully prodded or tickled me I would usually say "I wouldn't do that if I were you, it will only turn me on!" One time, years ago, I told a girl that and her eye's lit up. I could tell she was in to the same thing and we did eventually get it on, but the relationship was brief. I'll post the full story about her in the story section.

 

[doom]

I´m open about my foot- and ticklefetish with my girlfriend!
She lets me kiss her feet and sometimes allows me to tie her up and tickle her feet!
What a lucky guy i am 🙂

Happy tickling
dom

 

[doom]

my first post here ... but i have to say im 17 and i cant imagine telling anybody 😀 - so ill look for pages like this here and so i can have my fun 🙂 (as you can see in my name)
i thought i am the only one who gets a strong ***** 😀 in front of girls feet
but i never planned to tickle a girl (i think im to shy for that .. i think i wont tell it to future girlfriends - but i would like to say it ...) XD

lets have fun :happy:

Belive me, it will change when you get older! You´ll loose that feeling of shame and fear....thats what happend to me! I´m pretty open about this footfetish and ticklingstuff and I put it in a funny way! So maby some people don´t realy understand it but they just say that i´m a little bit gracy and don´t laugh ABOUT me....they just laugh in a friendly way! When you are in school I can remember that it is a bit more difficult because of the whole groupsituation and you can gett an outsider pretty soon! So just wait untill you get older and maby after a longer relationship when you both get to know each other better, you may find the right ways to get your girl to know about your fetish. By the way, you should always be patient and don´t tell her EVERYTHING at once! Give her time to figure aut her self a little bit! It´s just like when you wnt to take a hot bath---> When you lay into the hot water quickly and at once you may find it too hot.....but when you wait and dive in slowly its nice and warm 😉
Hope I could help you in some ways!
Happy tickling
dom

 

[onan]

ok thx very much !

i dont want to hurt anybody with my feet/tickling fetish - its more the way a girl makes me hot but i dont want to hurt her or sth. its more fun to me ...

i think u now what i mean - thx !

thx @ dom !


PS: pls dont kick me because ive said im 17 :cyclopes: - im in my 18th year 😀

 

[toetallytman1]

I have only told 3 girls I have dated, but for the most part, I am very closet about my foot/tickle fetish... untill I was found out...

I have 2 younger brothers, and I found out this past year through my girlfriend that they have know about my foot fetish for years. Aparently they snooped around in my computer one day when I was still in highschool and found some foot related stuff. One of them made a remark to her about it this year and she told me. No one has ever confronted me with it, but I know they know. I felt so dumb and invaded when I found out, thinking all these years I was hiding something that only I knew. Years of flashbacks came to mind where I thought I was being cleaver and "getting away" with a foot rub or tickle here and there, all the while my Brothers, looking on, knew what I was up to.

Turns out, because of my brother's big mouths, most everyone I know seems to know about my foot fetish (even my parents), yet I still haven't been able to talk about it openly, nor has any of them talked to me about it face to face. I never wanted people to know unless it was my girlfriend. It was a very private thing to me. I truly hate the invasion that took place and have really been mad about it ever since I found out about it. But I digress...

My girlfriend is the only one that truly knows I love to tickle as well. She lets me toment her with relentless tickling and it really turns her on. She has discovered through being with me that she has a foot fetish herself and we spend time indulging each other often (she says my feet are the hotness, go figure lol). SO I guess things are not all bad. I just wish I could figure out how to deal with this anger I have toward my Brother's and their deception.

 

[doom]

Hmmm let´s say it that way: Shit happens 😉
Thats the reason why i ALWAYS clear all my internet activities after having been online and save my files on cd or hide them savely on my harddrive! It´s not very nice of your brothers to tell everyone about it! Thats not right!!!! I can understand that you´re feeling bad and angry now, but don´t take it too seriously! If I were you I´d tell something obout them.....even if it´s not true 🙂
By the way, your story reminds me of something that happend to me when I was younger! My brother got a PC with internetconnection! I hevent been to Internet too often at this time and when he left the house I surfed to some footsites! The bad thing was that I didn´t know how to clear the list of visited pages in the explorer.....so he found out what I am into! All he said one day was that there is a way to delete that stuff....he said that when we had dinner....but he didnt´t say ANYTHING about the content i had watched. We haven´t talked about this stuff anymore 😀 That happend about 6 years ago now. He´s never told anybody...

 

[Fox2000]

I suppose that I've never really told anybody at all about it, except for one of my cousins, who didn't give it much thought.
I live in a very conservative area, and go to a fairly conservative school. Around here, people simply don't talk about such things in public. People are always talking behind other's backs, saying "Have you heard about so-and-so down the street?", "You'll never believe what they did...", etc. I suppose I'm a bit self-conscious in the sense that I don't want to be one of the people being talked about. Then again, maybe I'm just paranoid. 😉
Hopefully that will change in the future, but for now, sadly, I'm not open about it.

 

[toetallytman1]

Hmmm let´s say it that way: Shit happens 😉
Thats the reason why i ALWAYS clear all my internet activities after having been online and save my files on cd or hide them savely on my harddrive! It´s not very nice of your brothers to tell everyone about it! Thats not right!!!! I can understand that you´re feeling bad and angry now, but don´t take it too seriously! If I were you I´d tell something obout them.....even if it´s not true 🙂
By the way, your story reminds me of something that happend to me when I was younger! My brother got a PC with internetconnection! I hevent been to Internet too often at this time and when he left the house I surfed to some footsites! The bad thing was that I didn´t know how to clear the list of visited pages in the explorer.....so he found out what I am into! All he said one day was that there is a way to delete that stuff....he said that when we had dinner....but he didnt´t say ANYTHING about the content i had watched. We haven´t talked about this stuff anymore 😀 That happend about 6 years ago now. He´s never told anybody...

I always do delete stuff. To this day I don't know what I did that left a trail. Keep in mind that I am now 27 and that was about ten years ago, so I was still just learnning about how to use the internet. I am now well versed in using encription software for files and covering all traces of online activity.

As far as talking about THEM, well, two wrongs don't make a right and I refuse to stoop to their level on this. Just wish I could go back and undo what happened... oh well.

 

[knismo1]

Belive me, it will change when you get older! You´ll loose that feeling of shame and fear....thats what happend to me!

I can agree fully with this -- as soon as I got out of my marriage, I thought, "You know what? I'm old enough that I don't have to care anymore what people think!" You get past 35, and things look a whole lot different, that's for sure.

I'm not "wide flaming open," but lots of my female friends know (and I have more women friends than men friends) and find it charming. If someone makes a big point of asking, "Do you have a foot fetish," you can ask them back, "How many people do you know have a boob fetish or an ass fetish? Someone's gotta pick up the slack?" That pretty much covers the subject and deflects the issue.

When I was younger the very mention of tickling or a foot fetish would make me run from a room in embarassment. It's taken a long time since then, but now I know women who will come to me at parties, kick their shoes off and put their feet in my lap, because they know what (will probably) happen. 😉

On the flip side, I had one female friend that I pretty much ditched, because every time she'd introduce me to friends of hers, she would always say, right at about the second sentence into the introduction, "...and he's got a FOOT FETISH!" Nobody likes to be defined by that at introduction; we are more than the sum of one our quirks, needs and desires. After she did that two or three times, I decided I can enjoy my time with more tactful acquaintances....

k

 

[lord_casanova1]

I'm very open to it because it's a way to discover anybody. I love to make them under presure and look them reaction... Someday it's pretty funny!

 

[-Kunoke-]

After reading your guy's posts and thinking it over strongly, I figured, ah, to hell with it, and let it go. I told a few of my female friends, and soon found that they, as the women knismo mentioned, would kick off their shoes and plop their feet into my lap 😀 I'm a happy camper who now enjoys tickling experiences I never would have had the chance to do. I encourage people to not keep it bottled up, the guilt and embaressment just keeps building and building. Not only do most people not mind, most girls find it sexy and cool 😀

 

[ktickler]

It is very hard to take that first step and share something so intimate. However, when you do it, you feel like you are taking a new road in your life with completely different expectations.

I can't really say when it is a good time in your life to share something like this. All I can say is that people around you know a lot more about your fetish and obsessions than you think. It is part of you. It is something that defines you. Sooner or later they will realize: "oh, he likes feet" or "he likes to tickle". They will probably not associate it with a fetish per se, but they will know it is something that you do and that you like.

My family has always known that I liked feet and that I liked to tickle them. I would always try to do it to my cousins and aunts and sister and mom. I have memories since I was 2 years old. So, this has been something that I can categorically say is a part of my personality. They have never seen it as something strange nor have they asked me about it. They just know it is me...

Over the years, I found that other people also had the same "interest". Later, I found Internet sites and forums like this one. It has been a long road of discovery and every day I redefine my view regarding feet and ticling based on my everyday experiences.

I have met people like 'knismo' mentions that would introduce you to other people saying "and he likes feet" or "and he has a foot fetish". I never felt right, but over time I felt more confident and I would respond something like "yeah, some people like boobs, some other people like butts, I like feet". Some people really get curious and want to know more about it. I try to anwser their questions as honestly as I can without going too deep into details. I mean, it would be the same if somebody came to you and said "I have a bubble gum fetish". Wouldn't you be curious?

I understand 'toetallytman' feelings regarding being "found out". I don't think it really matters at this point how they found out. The truth is that you have two choices: be mad at them for the rest of your life, or move on and wait for that day if the conversation ever arises. I would concentrate my energies into learning about your interest in feet and tickling, into exploring this fetish/obsession/deviance, sharing experiences, learning to be comfortable with it. Once day, you will be confronted to answer the question "do you like feet/tickling?". Will you be trully ready to answer it?

 

[Merciless11]

Only through my actions otherwise unless asked or the subject is brought up somehow, I don't volunteer the information out of the blue. My actions however pretty much tell it all.

M1

 

[TheBoyk1]

I voted no, and have always been very secretive about it. I've been finding tickling and feet-related videos, pics etc on the net for years but this is the first time I've ever posted anything about it. I knew I wasn't alone but to read all this talk is a very refreshing feeling! I'm not alone! Hehe.

I have told two people in my life, one was a girl when I was drunk who probably forgot about it the next day, and the other is my best friend (also when I was drunk) and he never forgot. He pokes fun at me about it but would never tell anyone.
A lot of girls I know are going out with my friends. In my group, for me personally, it's a group of guys and we meet our girls usually via a male friend who is going out with the girl. I tickle them and some of them enjoy the fact that I'm very ticklish (I over-react a bit to keep them coming back!), but I think if they knew it really turned me on sexually, they may stop doing it because really, them tickling me is almost the equivelent of them coming up to me and placing their hand on my you-know-what...at least, that's how I look at it.

So, I keep it a secret. It is rather embarrassing for me for some of the same reasons people listed here, how people would react to it etc. I don't think it would go over too well in my group since we like to tease eachother a lot (in good fun, but still, lots of teasing goes on and making fun of, etc) and it's not really something I can laugh off.

Great to read everybody's stories!