Know what scares the crap outta me? The idiots in fetish film communities who decide its best to use "paid models" (who couldn't understand headspace in a million years) in scenes instead of real people..
...and yet pair them up with fat, ugly, old, bald, disinterested and dispassionate male doms with flabby, hairy arms and flabbier, hairier bellies.. who couldn't create a decent scene to save their life nor have a girl with such looks even if they had Hefner's bank account... yet... mysteriously... the films usually always ending with the stereotypical BJ.