Bondage necessary or no?

[Pluma]

So there is such a thing as tickling induced orgasm!

I noticed that proximity in the sensory homunculus in an anatomy class some time ago and did some speculating. Never thought I’d hear a first hand experience of what I’ve considered so far tickling fiction material such as N2O and itching powder.
Bravo Halt for sharing.

 

[dvnc]

back from vacation

I'm impressed with the answers given. Seems fairly varied, which pleases me. Nice to know we're not boring and predisposed to one thing alone.

I do wonder if anyone has ever researched the tickling orgasm. Maybe it deserves another thread here. I've known a few, out of many, that experience such, and only one non-tk-oriented lady. All experienced such during bound tickling, but I never credited it as the cause. Perhaps it is, though. Good point, though, Haltickling.

Thanks again, all.

dvnc

 

[MikeM]

I've met many who didn't like bondage at all. Some could actually hold still and take it. It would turn into more of a tickling wrestling match some times and that's fun too. But bondage really adds something to it.

 

[Blackstar216]

I've talked to a lot of girls lately who aren't exactly what we'd refer to as ticklephiles. Most of them say that they do enjoy being tickled, except that it often hurts and that when people go overboard on them it hurts the ribs and they dig too deep.
After some thought, I realize that most of these young ladies who've said this admit that they are extremely ticklish and that when someone starts tickling them, they can't help but do all they can to try to escape (pulling away, wiggling and wriggling, etc.) Well, it occurs to me that when a tickler is trying to contain a ticklee who's desperately trying to get away, it cause the tickler to dig a bit deeper into the area they are trying to tickle, causing some obvious discomfort to the ticklee.
With bondage, the tickler can tickle as lightly or as heavy as needed, making sure that the only discomfort the ticklee feels is from the sensations driving them crazy, not from fingers bruising ribs or underarms.

 

[tcrewme]

Hmm interesting.

Interesting point Blackstar216.
I used to hear the same thing from girls, oh it hurts to be tickled, you dig too deep. I am generally a light/quickly stroking tickler, so anytime I tickled someone they usually don't want to stop due to pain being inflicted by me,just winded.
I think some people's turn-OFF to tickling comes from childhood as well, when, mom/dad/uncle whoever, tickled them silly but painfully silly so that pain is associated with tickling, not the playful side to tickling.

 

[dvnc]

gonna start a thread on the pain of pressure tickling

Like the subject says, the mention of such, here, reminds me of this tainted topic. It's worth mentioning on the TMF, repeatedly if necessary, to catch the 'lers up to the dangers of bein' rough.

Sore 'lees don't always return. While SOME dig it, most don't. Alas.

Thanks for all the additional input, folks!

 

[ticklemad]

I think it's a matter of individual preference but personally I don't need it as the lee. I'm so darn ticklish I'm like jelly as soon as (and sometimes before) someone touches me. I can be tickled for hours without the need for bondagebecause I don't actually want to get away and enjoy it. However ticklish it is and however much I'm giggling, laughing, screaming, begging etc I love it. Having said that I would love to explore that side of things, I've only ever had my hands tied once to stop me grabbing the arms of an intense upper body tickler and I must admit I found it more ticklish knowing I couldn't escape ieven if I wanted to. My partner can hold my arms up with one hand to get my armpits but of course he can only get one at a tme and I'm dying for a double strike that then slowly moves down to my ribs etc etc. Having that resistance I know would definintely intensify it for me even more. ON A SERIOUS NOTE - it is imperative that the ler respects the lee when in this sort of a situation. I had a very bad experience where my ticklishness was taken advantage of years agio by someone so carried away they didn;t know when to stop and I'd hate for anyone to find themselves in a similar situation. I

 

[dvnc]

Ah. That's where the BDSM community's practice of negotiations is so valuable. While it's not the surprise deal that some proscribe as best, it's the safety of knowin' you won't harm someone.

You get their safeword.
You get what is UNACCEPTABLE

You then play as any would, watchin' carefully. Thanks for contributin'!