Can you just quit your fetish?

[Budweiserbob!]

I don't think I could have answered Jevil's response better than Bashiku just did. 😛

 

[BigNorm]

Nobody is born with bottle of wine in their hand, but people are born with fetishes...

*looks at never ending bottle of wine still stuck in hand*

*mutters* shows how much you know...

 

[NachtKreatur]

I honestly don't think I could because as it has been said it's something psychological. But then again, why would I want to even try quitting? :super_hap

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

You can't quit being who are.If you were born acting a certain way or born with something chances are it is a part of what makes you,YOU;so chances are it is going to be with you and a part of you forever.If it is something you acquired later in life it is a habit or addiction and can be changed;however the longer the addiction lasts the harder it is to quit doing it.

 

[Bashiku]

You can't quit being who are.If you were born acting a certain way or born with something chances are it is a part of what makes you,YOU;so chances are it is going to be with you and a part of you forever.If it is something you acquired later in life it is a habit or addiction and can be changed;however the longer the addiction lasts the harder it is to quit doing it.

True, but addictions can be cured even after a long period. My father smoked for around 30 or so years. He decided one day to quit and he did it... now he hasn't smoked for three years straight 😀

 

[brotherted]

To me there's a third option.

It doesn't have to be presented to someone as overly fetishistic, in a way that could scare someone about you.

Nor do you have to forget about our little hobby completely.

There's a third choice where you do it a little bit, in proportion where it seems like one of lots of things you like -- the way you also like giving massages, or a little light bondage, or taking intimate showers together, or skinny dipping.

After all, haven't most people tickled their girlfriends at *some* point? i.e. ever? I would think so. Put it this way, there are a lot more people who have done a little tickling because they think it's just fun, than there are people who consider it their fetish. I'd prefer to be thought of in the first group -- certainly unless I've dated someone for a really long time.

Still, I've had some girlfriends who've come to figure out my deal. I just don't see a reason to it obvious -- when you can still do it at lower volume, and not invite marginalizing yourself or getting labeled as freakish among your social circle.

Thoughts?

 

[Duke Diablo]

But then again, why would I want to even try quitting? :super_hap

Seconded!!! By the way, I love your avatar😀

Also, brotherted, I would have to disagree. In my social group... no, everywhere I go, I am myself, and proud of it. The people generally like my kinky streak (tickling isn't my only fetish, and I enjoy 'normal' sex as well...), and some girls and guys even ask me to teach them how to be perverted and crazy. Would I change anything about myself? Only one thing... not to be attracted to asian girls so much... but, oh, well, what can one do?

 

[TRU1]

I really don't worry about others opinions on matters like these. I feel this type of stuff is natural for us, so why fight nature? Anybody who fights nature is always going to lose.

BTW, Every single person in my family knows about my fetish, and it was very embarassing when they found out. None the less, they don't mention it at all, they are very cool about it.

BTW..I went to the bank today and the banker I was talking to was smoking hot. She was a brunette, great shape, I just wanted to take her heels off and tickle those stocking covered feet. God she was hot.

 

[Iridis_vi1]

I can't see why you'd want to quit the fetish if you ask me, its just a matter of not letting it take control of you. There has to be some form of moderation to it.

 

[NachtKreatur]

Seconded!!! By the way, I love your avatar😀

Also, brotherted, I would have to disagree. In my social group... no, everywhere I go, I am myself, and proud of it. The people generally like my kinky streak (tickling isn't my only fetish, and I enjoy 'normal' sex as well...), and some girls and guys even ask me to teach them how to be perverted and crazy. Would I change anything about myself? Only one thing... not to be attracted to asian girls so much... but, oh, well, what can one do?

Why thank you :happy:

I have to agree with you, Diablo. I prefer to be myself. It makes me unique in a way. Plus most of the people I hang around don't seem to mind my tickling habits too much. So, I just go on with life as normal.

 

[Duke Diablo]

Why thank you :happy:

I have to agree with you, Diablo. I prefer to be myself. It makes me unique in a way. Plus most of the people I hang around don't seem to mind my tickling habits too much. So, I just go on with life as normal.

The people you hang around are probably as open minded as mine, then🙂 With the people I hang out with... and most of the new people I meet, the reaction to my kinky behavior is very positive, going so far as to say they love it. I even got a pen for my bday... a special pen that looks like a feather.

 

[alf1]

With time you can actually work over your tickling fetish ... i mean it depends, but for me actually i managed not being a freak with my girlfriends, tickling them only 23 hours a day instead of 24 😉

what i mean is that you can mix tickling with "normal life", but keep your fetish as a secret, it's better ! tickle as foreplay, or doing foot massage and stuff is okay and less noticeable, besides i've never dated a girl who actually was into tickling stuff 🙂

 

[ticklebug101]

i tell ya what, i love tickling and feet, and most of all, i love TT, it's like a big family here, and i'd never quit. if you don't hear from me for a long time, i either can't get online or i'm dead. Not going to tell my family about my fetishes, but i'll only tell my friends if i feel i need to. if not, they don't need to know, and if they find out, there's nothing they can do to make me stop. and in no way am i going to be ashamed about my fetishes. i'm proud of them. i wanna go to the woman i love and proudly say "i wanna tickle the soles of your feet" even if instictly i get all shy and bashful when tickling or feet is mention casually in conversation.

It's a good thing he's found a girl that dosent mind about his fetishes dontcha think? Normie, I would never want you to give up who you are
sorry the reply is a little late (or 6 months lol)
I love you always, bug xx.

 

[BigNorm]

It's a good thing he's found a girl that dosent mind about his fetishes dontcha think? Normie, I would never want you to give up who you are
sorry the reply is a little late (or 6 months lol)
I love you always, bug xx.

doesn't mind? heck you love it as much as i do!

ladies and gents, my dreamgirl!

 

[NMKamikaze1]

It would take Divine Intervention to make me stop loving tickling and women's feet.

 

[blackviper22]

Personally I like feet and tickling to much to give it up

 

[TyrantRaveAB]

i dunno about giving it up per se. but i can certainly lean on other things or other fetishs that yeild the same result as feet/tickling. but i dunno how long i could keep something like that up! lol

 

[kopfhorer1]

Give up my fetish? Is that even possible? (Or desirable? 😀)

 

[Mr Nonchalant]

I definitely couldn't give up on my fetish. Even if I could, I wouldn't!

 

[melanie2]

I have given it up for the most part..i never really practiced it to begin with..so ya i can just quit my fetish..

 

[idiot756]

I think it would be quite impossible to "unlike" something, unless you're on Facebook. I mean, you are who you are, you know?

 

[melanie2]

I think it would be quite impossible to "unlike" something, unless you're on Facebook. I mean, you are who you are, you know?

it doesn't mean to quit liking..i think it's about could you give it up? it's like sex..sure i like it..but i gave it up long ago...:stickout

 

[idiot756]

Ah. I see then. Well, I've got a long time before I have to worry about that. :lol

 

[LittleFeather1]

Personally, I would never give up my fetish, and while I wouldn't tell a date right off the bat about it, I can't imagine myself being with someone who was so closed minded as to leave me over it. I feel that it is something I would tell a person I was romantically interested in due time, and if they cared about me, then they would see me as the person I am and love that person, regardless of the fetish.

 

[Bator]

I,ve never indulged my fetish. That doesn,t mean that I wouldn,t love to but my current situation makes it impossible. I envy all of you.