Choking

[ViperGTS]

EDITED: Erotic Asphyxiation

Why is it that every girl I know right now likes to be choked? Not hurt but they all seem to enjoy having a hand put around their neck and gently squeezed, inducing heavier breathing. Also it's an awesome feeling of control for me.

Who on here enjoys a little strangulation?

 

[Redmage]

Eek. This is one area that I don't go for safety reasons. I do other forms of breath control, but the thing about strangulation is you don't know how close the trachea is to breaking until it breaks.

 

[Hollow Kitten]

bleh!

i'm not a fan just because of associative memories. and btw...hey dork!

 

[kered]

Don't know the nickname they use now but we use to call it The last Gasp. I recommend you don't do it for reasons cited above. It can be very dangerous. You just need about six pounds of pressure to do great damage....or worse.

 

[maniactickler]

Count me out.

 

[Helena]

I have heard of strangulation. I never associated it with pleasure. I don't feel turned on when I think about putting my hands around someone's throat.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

one of the reasons why some people enjoy asphyxiation is because the lack of oxygen intensifies orgasm. works for both guys and girls.

 

[unclebill]

As the father of two young adult daughters, I can honestly say if I found out a guy was choking her for pleasure I would return the favor. And I just love the colors blue and purple. Be careful who you do this to. There are a lot of dads who feel the same way.

 

[ViperGTS]

As the father of two young adult daughters, I can honestly say if I found out a guy was choking her for pleasure I would return the favor. And I just love the colors blue and purple. Be careful who you do this to. There are a lot of dads who feel the same way.

Well hang on a second, you're saying that like I'm doing it against her will or soemthing.

Like I said, it seems like every woman I know lately LIKES to be gently strangled. Hell, one even has a rape fantasy. Now, granted, I do enjoy the whole hands around the neck thing, but not to hurt her...it's more a power exchange kind of thing. Besides, it's not done with a lot of pressure...it's not even enough to make her cough or anything like that. Just putting your hand around my friend's neck makes her knees weak and she moans, lol

Who knows, billyboy, maybe your girls DO like to be choked a little bit. 😉

 

[Ayla ny]

I played with it while trying to figure out what fit.

It’s a control thing… or being controlled.

Tickling really fits (for me)… but this (and spanking) almost did. Just be careful. It only takes a little bit to be a turn-on… and a little bit ‘too much’ to be bad.

 

[Ayla ny]

Unclebill is just a loving Dad (something the world needs more of). I have a son going off to college this year and if his sexuality comes up I tend to stick my fingers in my ears and break into a rousing round of “lalalalalala”! Sometimes literally.

Safe, happy and healthy. Yup… that’s all I want to know.

 

[Frowg]

weerd

I once hooked up with a girl that wanted me to punch her square in the face, I was like
"I can't do that, sorry"

 

[unclebill]

Well hang on a second, you're saying that like I'm doing it against her will or soemthing.

Like I said, it seems like every woman I know lately LIKES to be gently strangled. Hell, one even has a rape fantasy. Now, granted, I do enjoy the whole hands around the neck thing, but not to hurt her...it's more a power exchange kind of thing. Besides, it's not done with a lot of pressure...it's not even enough to make her cough or anything like that. Just putting your hand around my friend's neck makes her knees weak and she moans, lol

Who knows, billyboy, maybe your girls DO like to be choked a little bit. 😉

My daughters have more class than to date a guy like that, Viperboy. 😉

 

[Italian_Touch]

cool

I haven't met anybody with this particular fetish but breath control seems to be relatively popular.
You are right: it's just power exchange and control play.
And if you are into that, even if a little bit, good for you!

Just play safe, it's edge play!

 

[lk70]

Oh I'm going to sound bitchy, but guess what? I AM!

All Viper did was ask who on here likes something. He might as well have asked who likes M/M action. These questions always turn into a massive amount of judgment and name calling.

Will we EVER be able to agree that everything is ok between consenting adults?

 

[cloudgazer2k]

My daughters have more class than to date a guy like that, Viperboy. 😉

to be fair, bill, it ain't always the guys that initiate such. my girl introduced me to it. i was reluctant at first, as i didn't want to harm her, but we established ways to avoid irreparable harm.

just cuz guys tend to be scum of the earth, you can't always assume that we are also always sexual deviants. i've met women who, by and far, were into stuff i didn't even know existed, and were 100 times more...shall we say...bizarre than just simple tie-and-gag fantasies.

some people are into weird things, some people are totally vanilla. who is to say there isn't a forum about breath play that doesn't have a similar discussion about "those tickling weirdos"? safe, sane and consensual play...nothing wrong about it.

 

[unclebill]

Oh I'm going to sound bitchy, but guess what? I AM!

All Viper did was ask who on here likes something. He might as well have asked who likes M/M action. These questions always turn into a massive amount of judgment and name calling.

Will we EVER be able to agree that everything is ok between consenting adults?

Choking is assault. If a woman were to stop breathing because of it, you would go to jail for manslaughter. When a thread is put on an open forum, I have every right in the world to disagree with it. And sorry if I am being "bitchy." But I have dated too many women who have been physically abused, and in my opinion this type of behaviour crosses the line.

 

[ViperGTS]

I played with it while trying to figure out what fit.

It’s a control thing… or being controlled.

Tickling really fits (for me)… but this (and spanking) almost did. Just be careful. It only takes a little bit to be a turn-on… and a little bit ‘too much’ to be bad.

Thank you for putting it that way, that's what I am trying to say.

My daughters have more class than to date a guy like that, Viperboy. 😉

Passive-aggressive much? Jesus.

Choking is assault. If a woman were to stop breathing because of it, you would go to jail for manslaughter. When a thread is put on an open forum, I have every right in the world to disagree with it. And sorry if I am being "bitchy." But I have dated too many women who have been physically abused, and in my opinion this type of behaviour crosses the line.

Ok, you're thinking about abuse, the rest of us are thinking about making the woman's orgasm more intense if she's into choking.

How many times does it need to be said that we're not talking about actually hurting anyone here? If you don't like it, you don't like it, but saying (in a roundabout way) that I have no class and that it's wrong no matter what the context is overly judgmental.

One more thing...

Choking is assault.

Erotic Asphyxiation is hot.

 

[TicklishGrl4Lfe]

Wow.....sounds like something I would like Viper! 😉 This is very interesting!

 

[unclebill]

Why is it that every girl I know right now likes to be choked? Not hurt but they all seem to enjoy having a hand put around their neck and gently squeezed, inducing heavier breathing. Also it's an awesome feeling of control for me.

Who on here enjoys a little strangulation?

If thats your way of controlling someone, then more power to you. Happy orgasm.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

If thats your way of controlling someone, then more power to you. Happy orgasm.

is it that difficult for you to consider that, just maybe, his girlfriend made the suggestion, and he went along with it?

some people are happy with orgasms done the ol' fashioned way. and there are some who want the kind that can detonate every nerve ending in their body as they experience an incredible pleasure.

if a girl suggests it, lays down the rules, and trusts somebody enough...well, it really isn't always about control. it's about her getting all the pleasure she can take, and i am always down for making my girl have the best sex she can imagine.

 

[chicago]

Autoerotic Asphyxiation is hot.

Autoerotic asphyxiation would be what it's called if the girl was choking herself while flicking the bean. Hence "auto"

Now, I think some people are taking the word "choking" at face value. So let's continue to call it asphyxiophilia, or breath control play at least.

If a guy chokes a bitch because she spoke to another male, that's one thing. If two consenting adults engage in asphyxiophilia, what's the problem?

 

[ViperGTS]

Autoerotic asphyxiation would be what it's called if the girl was choking herself while flicking the bean. Hence "auto"

Now, I think some people are taking the word "choking" at face value. So let's continue to call it asphyxiophilia, or breath control play at least.

If a guy chokes a bitch because she spoke to another male, that's one thing. If two consenting adults engage in asphyxiophilia, what's the problem?

ahhh thanks. i missed that.

 

[steph]

Wow...

Obviously a landmine here, I'll try to tread carefully.
Without passing judgement, I'll try to bring it from a medical perspective...This kind of behavior is risky at best and deadly at worst. I've dealt with my share of asphyxiated patients throughout the years (both at their own hands and at the hands of others.)

Consensual or not, the list of things that can POTENTIALLY go wrong here, well, I don't have that kind of time, so I'll just throw a couple things out from experience. Your "chokee" may have pre-existing conditions that you may not be aware of. SHE might not even be aware of them, until in a situation like this. Heart condition, claustrophobia, asthma attacks just to name a few. And, a lot of people during play of any kind might involuntarily jerk big time, simply as reflex~it doesn't take much pressure to injure this area, even if you're trying to act gently.

Maybe I'm just getting old but somehow this isn't the kind of thing a wise person wants on their resume...to be a punchline at some random party..."Oh, you DO know who I'm talking about! Remember that guy, the one who killed that girl during sex?" "Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, yeah, THAT guy..."

I'm just saying be careful, this is very dangerous territory...
XOXO

 

[ViperGTS]

Understood, but again, we're not talking about even restricting breathing a whole lot at all. A very gentle squeeze is all it takes to get some people going, that's what I mean.