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Closing my tickling groups

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hiii everyone🙂
I am closing my tickling groups....I am forming one that is non-
sexual but it probably won't be of much interest to many of u🙂 That
is okay...I am not concerned with membership size but the content is
very important to me...I want to provide an atmosphere that is
suitable for all age groups since I have learned (disturbingly) that
many of my members are under or near underage....and many are
questionable but unprovable ....that is not okay with me...it is too
easy to access yahoo groups by simply altering ones age on a
profile...it is impossible to check it out and see who is really who
and the surest way for me to ensure that no minors are influenced by
inappropriate material is to not provide it...I cannot save the world
or change any other group on the net but I can surely do my
part..another reason but secondary to the above mentioned reason is
that despite my best efforts to establish that I am not looking to
meet anyone offline and that I have someone in my life that I am
deeply in love with and he is the only person who tickles me...I
still am besieged with emails and ims asking for such...I do not
blame the male ticklers entirely, I think that I (innocently) send a
message that it is okay for them to do that because I believe that my
personality send s a message that I am flirty...flirty is a
subjective word and so open to interpretation but I usually do not
have a problem explaining my intentions very clearly, I take some
responsibility though by continuing to make myself so visible in the
community....and though I have met many really nice people I consider
my friends I have never really considered myself a "part of the
tickling community" mostly because I don't like cliques and groups
much but also because I don't have time to be a part of who is who,
that stuff has never mattered much to me...I wanted to do these
groups initially because I love tickling and feet and so does my
boyfriend and I wanted a place to be able to share the enormous
amount of material he and I have as well as perhaps be a positive
influence or an ear to talk to for people who may not have
that..there is just no way for me to ensure that minors are not
seeing the material....I thank everyone who has joined and supported
me and been so kind and I wish u all well...try not and place so much
importance on whether or not u meet someone and take care of
yourselves first please...if u are in a good place for u the love
usually happens....okay, enough of the cheesy hallmark
references....if any of u are interested in my new group it will be a
compilation of tickling toons, anime, stories (stories will be mostly
written by me at this point, until I find suitable and willing
contributors🙂...I will post the new groups link on my homepage at
aol and on tmf....be well and god bless🙂
byeeeeee for good..
~ticklemmmeeeeeee


:cry1: :wavingguy :grouphug: :sadcry:
 
hii everyone..
A thoughtful member has just pointed out to me that I neglected to mention when the groups will close and in what order....here is that info in case u wish to download anything from them...feel free...only thing I ask is that before taking/using anything from my groups that belongs to someone else please ask THAT person for permission first...thanks...

.it will probably be about two weeks before they are  all gone entirely...the first to be deleted will be "The toe pad too" and "lock stock n tickle more", then it will be "tickle meee w poetry", "The toe pad", "tickle mee like mad", "tickle meeeeeeeee in socks " and then "lock stock n tickle" last.....
that will be the hardest for me to delete....that's my baby🙁 *sniffle*
byeee ...~smile~
~ticklemmmeeeeeee
🙂
 
This would be my first time posting in this part of the forum, but theres a first time for everything.

My name is Damien (irish_reign2002), the man who talked to you on several occasions having to do with my art and of course the "internet situation".

While what you have chosen to do may come as a blow to some, you are doing yourself, others, and the internet a favor. I know that you (I won't use your real name here unless you want me to) are a kind, generous, thoughtful person and see tickling and the like as something to be enjoyed and shared, not monopolized or used for some aim or gimmack. In order than everyone enjoys what you are trying to do, the nudity and adult content we spoke of, and that you spoke of here, would have to go.

I don't know what sparked your decision, but I'm glad you've taken this course. Many would be reluctant to make such a daring leap from what could be considered "hardcore" to a much more innocent "softcore". Not even softcore at that.

Its very big and bold of you, and I for one will support you and your efforts in your new campaign to create a more suitable tickling environment. 🙂


- Damien
 
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Oh, and one more thing. Don't worry what some people will think. You'll have new members and some old, so theres no need to worry about member loss. You'll be compensated. And besides, theres just as many people in to what you plan to do as there are that aren't, so don't even give it a second thought. Its just not worth trying to please one sort of people when you can go for the prize. Theres actually much more potential in what you plan to do than what you have been doing. So worry not, my friend.

Can I call you that by the way? LOL ^___^


- Damien
 
wonderful....it would have been nice to know that these groups even EXISTED....o well, probably didnt miss much anyway.
 
I beg to differ. Shes quite talented and has great potential for more, and I'm glad to know her if just for her personality and points of view. And the last bit about probably not missing much was a cheap shot that she didn't deserve. Correct me if I've interpreted that wrong.


- Damien
 
emperor, the part about not missing much has NOTHING to do with her personally. i was merely saying that the stuff she had posted on her groups (pics or clips) are probably things that are on many many other groups...thats all....
 
And I gathered thats one of the possible ways you ment it. Very well then.

And I wasn't suggested it did have anything to do with her. Obviously if it did, more people would have been involved. Her personality is that infectious. At least for me. Even if I had seen the material elsewhere, I still would have joined for the sake of talking to her.

The one thing that did hinder the effectiveness of her groups is that she didn't allow posting. I talked to her about that, but she didn't see a need to change it.


- Damien
 
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Celtic_Emperor...(Damien)...Thank u so much for the kind words🙂...This may blow u away a tad but I must tell u that it was you that inspired me to "clean up my act" so to speak🙂 ....Mind you, I rarely, if ever do what I am told...(just ask my boyfriend...lol)...but I am no fool either...I always listen to people wiser than myself and when u respectfully and considerately declined my request to display more of ur art on my groups I thought about that...long and hard...and I realized that I didn't want to defend my groups... because, well , sometimes u can't see urself and what ur doing objectionably until someone whose opinion u trust with the character to back it up, shows you yourself in a way you may not have otherwise seen....and I am not saying there is anything wrong with hardcore tickling...I still have my own wicked passions and desires🙂 , I just do not have a need to display them for all the world...or even a small corner of it known as the internet , ...and yes, please do call me friend because I consider myself yours...I respect u so much as a group owner, an artist and a person...I talk to and am kind to everyone but get close to very few...it's sad but true that many people have intentions only for their own good most times and for no one elses...I don't blame them, it is the way the world has become... materialistically void of substance in the pursuit of happiness in "things" rather than from within ourselves and how we treat one another....wow, I digress big time...lol...anyway, I am so glad that we met...albeit in the way that it happened, I am better for having met you...be well🙂...(oh yeah....now will u put ur pics on my new G-rated groups??...lol..(hey, can't blame a girl for trying...I had to go for it🙂...just being silly🙂...byeeee~ticklemmmeeeeeee :happyfloa :bouncybou
 
I don't know what to say....It did more than blow me away...

Thats quite possibly the biggest compliment of my life. I literally don't know how to respond, I'm awestruck. To think I've helped someone change for the better...I can't measure how great that feeling is..

I can say one thing though, you give me far too much credit and praise. It wasn't my intent to change you, and I myself have no objection to hardcore tickling so long as its within its boundaries on the internet at large (including nudity or sexuality). As the saying goes, "theres a time and theres a place for everything."

I also want you to know I'm not disgusted by anything you've done. You've done absolutely nothing wrong. You didn't even collect most of your content (which is how we met in the first place. An accident I'm glad happened.) In my opinion, the "adult" content wasn't you. I personally think you and your work would excell in a more "general audiance" (as you put it) tickling site/group-like setting.

You just seem so full of goodness, and dare I say purity of heart and feelings, that being associated with vulgar nudity and sexually-charged pictures or themes wasn't doing you any good.


And yes, the world is an ever increasing cesspool of corruption. Sadly, although not surprizing, even the tickling community has slowly been transformed before our very eyes. Its more about selling a product and using sex as a gimmack. Theres a coldness here. A void, as you put it. Thats why, when I first talked to you, it made a world of difference in being here, for me. You and I, and many others that are finally saying something have it in us to want to make the best of this impulse/fetish/kink/whatever you want to call it, rather than patent it, sell it, monopolize it, and pervert it. And I'm not just talking about made-to-sell fetish movies. Again, thats my opinion, some would thank me for saying it, and some probably grind their teeth at me.

I just think so much more can be done and worked on to help bring this community out of the rut and smut its allowed itself to fall into.

Having said that, I'm so glad your my friend, I'm so glad to have helped you on any and all levels, and yes you most certainly CAN feature any of my pictures that you want! Contact me later about whats going on, and how we're going to arrange it.

I've also offered you a proposal via PM. And I hope you take it. So much can be done when the like-minded band together. I don't give a damn how corney that sounds, its the truth, and I'm proud of that.

And be as silly as you want! Don't change a thing about you! 🙂


- Damien
 
Damien...The fact that u feel so good by making a positive impact on someone else speaks voumes of ur character....you can only make positive influences on others when u provide a model for them to possibly emulate rather than try and tell them what to do....u provide such an influence by the way u run ur group and interact with people...I'm glad ur pleased with my disclosure to u but I assure u I meant every word...I rarely compliment, I simply say what I think and feel...I mean everything I say and usually try to say what I mean...linguistically and communicatively challenged as I am at times...then add the grammatical incorrectness with which I type it and ack!!!...shut up margie....okay...and then I talk to myself as well....🙂...~ticklemmmeeeeeee :imouttahe :upsidedow
 
Ticklemmmeeeeeee said:
hiii everyone🙂
I am closing my tickling groups....I am forming one that is non-
sexual but it probably won't be of much interest to many of u🙂

Goody bye for good? I just joined your groups about two weeks ago and have been loving them, now it's over? You WILL be restorting this new group you spoke of, right? I'll be there.

Why are guys still e-mailing you, etc? Because there are lonely guys out there who are desperate to connect with someone who is into this freaky, wierd-by-normal-standards- fetish that they didn't ask to be saddled with. Believe me, I know too well all about this. These are lonely people, not evil people. People who do not have someone to be deeply in love with, or in love with them and who don't feel like they are a part of any community, as you put it.


Food for though - while certainly porn, or porn-like tickling material should be kept away from minors, it might be nice for a place where people of all ages, even young ones, could explore this interest with acceptable & "safe" images and stories. My interest in tickling didn't just click on at my 18th birthday, for example, and I think things would be different for many out there as they get older if they felt less wierd and odd in their teen years for having an unusual interest, knowing that they weren't alone and there was a place for them in this world.
 
Ticklemmmeeeeeee said:
I am not saying there is anything wrong with hardcore tickling...I still have my own wicked passions and desires🙂 , I just do not have a need to display them for all the world...or even a small corner of it known as the internet

Well put.

There are others here, too, who share your taste for the innocent side of tickling. There's Damien, of course, who I think only decided that tickling is something he cares about when he discovered there WAS a small community into its cute side. There's me (if you feel my stories would be a positive part of your new group, feel free to repost them). There's also Critterlord, an excellent author and newly emerging artist, Meachr, an excellent artist who focuses on tickle plants, HisDivineShadow too, and some others still.

I look forward to your NEW group. It's always nice to discover another fan of G-rated tickling. 🙂

UNO
 
oddjob...
I agree with u as far as the "intent" of the men who still email me and other women who do not want them to...as I stated previously, I do not feel that it is done out of malice or evil intent atall....I think everyone is basically good and looking for love underneath it all....and it saddens me that there are so many unhappy, unfulfilled people in our world...but I am no savior , though I would like to cure the world of all it's ills if I possessed the time and power....there is only one who has such power, and it isn't anyone as meek and small and insignificant as me....I will share something with u and through this post hopefully to the men of which u speak...(it's all related, bear with me...~smile~.....I had an interesting conversation via email tonight with a good online friend of mine who is upset with me for something I said....(I won't mention his name so he doesn't hurt me....just kidding🙂....lol...
he is still upset about not being able to meet during a time , months ago when my boyfriend and I were apart....and he expressed disappointment again for not being able to do so....so
I told him again how sorry I am and that I hope all of his dreams and fantasies are fulfilled for him.....he became angry with me and doubted my sincerity based on the fact that I still refused to meet him....I will tell u and the men who email women undesirous of being pressured into meeting , the same thing I told him..."I wish happiness and fulfillment for everyone...but I cannot please the world...I wish there to be no more starvation but I haven't food to feed all the hungry people ...I wish for no one to be lonely, but I cannot provide everyone with the love they need to not be so.... because I cannot be the one to fulfill your fantasies does that negate my sincerity?...I should hope not...." the moral...harsh as it may sound...everyone has pain and disappointment, it is thru pain and confrontation that true change can occur, actually, life gets easier when u realize how difficult it is...take personal responsibility for ur own happiness and if the bulk of ur happiness depends upon getting someone to tickle, then u may have to look a bit deeper to find what u really are looking for....just trust that when someone says no, even nicely, she means no...the only person I say no and mean yes to is my boyfriend🙂:::I sense incoming...I will be ducking now::::::: yes, I know I am weird🙂...lol....
~ticklemmmeeeeeee
🙂:imouttahe :upsidedow :bunny:
 
UNO...
Thanks so much for the G-rated support !!!....And the offer as well, though I regret to say that I have not been fortunate enough to have read any of ur stories as of yet...(and where might one find them?🙂🙂....as for critterlord , HisDivineShadow and meachr...I have not had the pleasure of talking to them (yet) or seeing their work...give me time, I'm working on it🙂 Damien, obviously, I have had the pleasure of talking to and admiring his work🙂...Thank u again and I am sooo excited about starting on a new (ad)venture of G-ratedness...okay, just how cheesey was that?...lol...and now that I am sure the general population of tmf'ers are collaboratively and genuinly sick of my postings and mad ramblings for one night I am going to sleep...nite all🙂
~ticklemmmeeeeeee (margie)
:zzzzz:
 
My stories are on my Yahoo group, a link to which is at the bottom of all my posts. 🙂

Critterlord's and Meachr's groups are listed in my links section. 🙂

So, a toast to G-ratedness. 😀
 
Wait..

You're taking positive action to at least do your share to prevent minors from accessing adult related material?

Don't say that TOO loud around here, you may be burnt as a witch.


Tron
 
Who and what army Tron? Nothing can or will stop us, even if you meant that in jest.

- Damien
 
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And I thank you whole-heartedly. This simply can't be ignored any longer. The situation is dire. Only ones concerned with the welfare of the general tickling community can truely see how horrible things have gotten. People on the more extreme, completely fetishist side probably wouldn't care, as their needs are being met.

The good thing about what we will create is that you don't really need to have a fetish to belong. Its about life experiences that just so happen to have some kind of tickling influence. You don't even necessarly have to be partaking of this. I don't, as the fetish isn't that strong that I'd want to do it in the real world as some part of a routine, and yet I and others produce work for ourselves and everyone on a regular basis. Tickling is universal in a sense. Its not limited to an impulse, desire, or otherwise. If more people can re-realize that by nature tickling is quite possibly one of the friendliest, and most innocently fun of all human interactions, then surely the community can be healed of this sickness that plagues it. It is my opinion that most of the activity, as pursued online, has turned pornographic, and thats a shame and thats the problem. Many people, who were otherwise neutral in the beginning and discovering for themselves what tickling meant to them, have been molded by the negative media. In some cases, their opinions are so cemmented that speaking of cute, innocent, pure tickling is a crime. Obviously the temptation of adult-themed tickling media is powerful, but never has it or will it ever, be more powerful than tickling in its purist form. Its also my opinion that this community has lost its identity and its integrity and is borderling all the time. Hopefully this effort on my part and of the others will spark a reinterest in fun tickling, back when it used to be a cute tease instead of a sexual tool born of videos encouraging such behavior and identifying that as what tickling is.


- Damien
 
Well, unless people involved respond, this conversation is over for me. Things don't get done by just talking.


- Damien
 
Damien...
I so agree with everything you said...it feels so good to have made a decision to "use my powers for good and not evil"...and as melo-dramatic and exaggerated as that may sound...it isn't....what you say about tickling being natural and fun is so true....if it weren't natural and innocent in it's inception why then would so many people tickle children as a sign of play and affection?.....why would it be such a part of lovers play for lovers who have never even learned of, much less partaken in the world of fetishes online or anywhere else?....How could I have experienced the intense platonic tickling with my dad as a child and still have grown into a responsibile well-adjusted adult....?...(well, some may argue the well-adjusted part...okay some may argue the adult part as well....lol...)...The cute tease part is true as well..I know that when my boyfriend and I are together we do more "tickle play" than anything...it's a sign of affection and it's cute , loving ,flirty fun between u and the person u love.....and as I stated in a previous post, I am not bashing hardcore tickling...my bf and I do our share of other things as well...but perhaps those things should be kept as private as anything else that occurs between a man and a woman in their intimate encounters?...Just a thought.....Damien, in a former post u said u were not ashamed of me for anything I have done and I appreciate that so much ...but I am ashamed that I became a part of something I didn't belong in.....ashamed because if u're not part of the solution, u're a part of the problem....and I didn't belong doing what I was doing...that is evidenced to me by the fact that I am excited about ending the groups I started and eager to begin creating and building upon my better interests that inspire my true creativity and passion....I have been so excited about my new journey of G-rated tickling...my creativity is soaring....I think that is a true sign of passion at it's best...when it flows so freely u can hardly get it all recorded....thanks to people like Damien that care more about the world we live in than what others think for pointing that out to me...I will forever be grateful because now I will be doing something I am good at and can feel good about....and thanks to neutron and UNO for ur support ....(why do I feel as though I am accepting an award?...lol...).....UNO....I will check out the group and the links when I get time...something I am always struggling with...perhaps my meager contribution to the tickling world will never make a real difference but thankfully with support from others such as yourselves, as I am seeing here we can make a dent...~ticklemmmeeeeeee
:bouncybou :wavingguy
 
I pretty much agree with Damien. When I first realized there was material out there I was excited, yet equally appalled that the only venue for it was through pornography. I hated having to go into those seedy adult bookstores looking for some tickling material. If I had my way, most of my tickling pictures and clips would be G-rated. Well...maybe PG. 🙂
 
@ ticklemmmeeeeeee-

Yes, absolutely correct. You even managed to explain it in more depth than I did at first. Tickling is fun, and to be had by all if they want to. When I hear of people wanting to tie people up against their will and tickle them whether they like it or not is sick and appauling. Its almost like rape, in my opinion, and people that have fantasies like that ought to keep them to themselves. The community would be much better off if people kept their more twisted fantasies to themselves and just partook of tickling as a stand alone activity and not combine it with other activities designed to develop sexual arousal and the like. As you said, you have some more heavy desires, and like I said, I have no problem with you or anyone having them. You also said that you keep these things between you and your boyfriend. And that is EXACTLY what everyone else should be doing too, with their respective partner- keeping it to themselves. Its not a good thing to share your experiences with others so much to a degree that they become curious themselves as they may end up doing as you do. Thats indirectly or directly influencing them in a negative way. Just keep your mature activities with tickling in the bedroom and don't let it leave there or be done to other people which makes it so casual and cheap. Thats another problem with this community, its so openly accepted thus making the problem worse and egging on video producers (I don't buy videos by the way) to create more material in this manner.

Now, some people may say I'm being a hypocrite, in that I'm here influencing others to take a step back and then a step forward in the right direction. That I'm trying to help anyone who will listen, and that I'm trying to restore tickling to its former glory. If that is what I'm accused of, then I'm guilty as charged.


@ drew70- Thank you for that. The more people can accept to agree or already do, is progress.

Exactly. Part of my anger or resentment toward this community is that it pursues pretty much only risque media, and doesn't even provide the basics and fundamentals of what tickling really is. Tickling isn't a tool, its an activity to be shared with others. Not broken up like the Bible and changed around to suit the personal needs of a new era (the protestant movement) (Sorry if a religious reference offended anyone, but I feel strongly about this, and this was a good example in my opinion.) Tickling has been so fragmented, broken down, and divided into so many sub-groups, that all or most of which are sexual or pornographic in some nature.

Just like the Bible is good medicine for the soul (whichever book that may be for your respective religion), tickling is a source of indefinite fun and excitement. As ticklemmmeeeeeee pointed out, and I was going to say before she said it, children tickle eachother, parents tickle their children, sometimes children tickle their parents, people tickle friends, and people tickle their wifes and husbands, or life partners. Its such a wonderful and broad thing. Too excellent and wonderful to be passed up in favor of lusty manipulation, to be marketed, sold, encouraged, and thus cheapened.

Finally, yes, you shouldn't have to go to an adult section to find what you want. It should be easily accessable and not in the adult section, for ANYONE who wants to learn about it. Why? Because by nature, tickling is an innocent and pure thing as I've said. The reason its in adult sections is because of the way this community has become. Its a reflection for us to actually see how bad its gotten, and hopefully a strong enough, foul image, that we want to do something about it. So everytime you have to be embarassed or ashamed, or even feel dirty when looking for such material, you have the twisted ideals of a growing majority to thank for that. It is they that have corrupted this very good thing, and it is they who keep it this way, and it is they that produce such videos, and it is they that give this community a bad name. Not us, they.

I agree with the pictures part too. Although, don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude or anything. I myself might go a bit farther into the NC-17 rating. To be perfectly honest, theres nothing wrong with R rating tickling either. But theres a difference. A DIFFERENCE. A difference between TICKLING in this way in a closed environment, by yourself with people you should be really close with (Husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, etc.) and EXPLOITING this desire in an attempt to appeal to other such people so as to create an environment where such activity is openly talked about it, engaged in, and produced by video companies. The community itself fosters the video producers, as I don't believe they would even create what they do without a certain ammount of people telling them what they want, or them having been influenced themselves.

In simple terms- The act itself is fine, when its in the proper place, at the proper time, with the proper people, with full-around consent, than to create a genre for it all its own in order to brew a following which eventually evolves into what we have here.

Again, some people may clearly point at me and say "you hypocrite!". But I am not a hypocrite, since the tickling I so defend, has been around much, much, much longer than yours has, and it was the beginning of anything for you. The natural, innocent, pure nature of tickling predates any tickling born of sexual fetishes or desires. Long before man became perverted and felt the need to explore what would only lead them into a cesspool of filth and wantoness, and degenerateness. I don't have to defend myself further, as I have the truth as my shield and my sword.

Have at thee! 😀


- Damien
 
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