Critterlord...Good point🙂I can certainly relate to what u wrote about being a "hardcore junkie" Oooh my...lol...I could write a book about it...lol...and I probably will at some point🙂...(soles bonding together eh?...cute🙂🙂
my final thoughts and probably last post about this🙂....
platonic tickling that occurs between a parent-child, sibling-sibling, friend-friend will always have it's place in the mainstream of this world....the more intimate tickling that occurs between consenting adults is what I feel shouldn't be displayed for all to see.....further, I have done so much in depth self analysis since this turnabout began for me and I continue with such ...I honestly feel that intimate tickling whether it be "soft strokes" and "sensual tickling" or "torturously tickled beyond intelligibility" are ALL sexual in nature and should only be exchanged and shared privately between loving, committed partners....like sex should only be expressed privately between loving, committed partners...who would even dream of talking to someone in person , online or in a chat room about the explicit details of the love they made with their partner the night before???...how ridiculously inappropriate to even consider...In retrospect, I feel that the act of sensual/hardcore tickling is SO intimate, as intimate and personal as sex...why do we separate a fetish,kink,etc. from other sacred parts of our lives and make them so public?...I know some reasons why,. I did it, remember?...~smile~....am I a hypocrite?...I don't believe so, I am a person who has had the benefit of seeing herself through anothers eyes and having the personal responsibility and self respect to change something I now knew to be inappropriate.....see, I think that when ur ignorant of something u can't really help what u do....however, the second u know what ur doing, that is the point that u must take personal responsibility and make changes ....if not, what purpose does self reflection and making mistakes even serve in this life?.....Perhaps that is why people like Damien cause a stir of "taking sides" because he makes us look at what we're doing and subtly asks us in his direct way to be accountable for it.....is that so wrong? I think it's awesome and I am grateful for people like him.....grateful for him because he was instrumental in bringing me to this point I am at today.....he thinks I give him too much credit but I have not given enough...my whole life I have been surrounded by people who , in their desire to be closer to me , gave me whatever I wanted, told me what they believed I wanted to hear, and let me do anything I wanted because they were afraid that going against me would cause me to leave or not be friends with them....little did they know, sadly, I have never been attracted to or wanted to be close friends with anyone would tell me anything or do anything just to be close to me.....I have always been more attracted to and drawn to friends that have the intestinal fortitude (cool phrase huh?...lol) to call me on what I do...it's a sign of caring and self respect......additionally, to preach a little bit, I just want people to think about what they are doing and ask themselves why.....why would a person be anymore willing to meet people he or she didn't know to engage in something as intimate as tickling as they would have sex with multiple people, meeting just to have sex ? No offense to anyone but that is what people in this community are doing....meeting people they do not even know past a screen name or a brief conversation and engaging in acts that by my, self-imposed moralistic standards were meant to be shared between two people in an intelligently and responsibily communicated and committed loving relationship....I am not intending to offend anyone nor will I be upset or angry with anyone who disagrees, I am not interested in pleasing anyone or taking sides in a fight...I am just thankful to have been shown by those who feel as I do that there is still a place for me in the very influential internet world of tickling...hopefully we can make a difference so that perhaps generations to come of young people wondering how tickling fits into their own lives will feel they do not have to ***** tickle or demean themselves in order to learn about and express themselves with their tickling interests....If this sounds personal , it is, I have a ten year old daughter who is extremely beautiful and loves being tickled...there is no way I will allow the internet or anyone else to negatively influence her...so I will set an example for her that she can emulate not be ashamed of or negatively influenced by.....this sounds harsh and judgmental I know but trust me, it isn't intended to be, simply how I feel...my opinion, we're all entitled to one🙂
But, unless someone directly asks me to, I will not be posting to this thread anymore..I simply made it because I intended to considerately let people know that I had decided to delete my groups and I did that and I have stated and responded how I feel and I don't see a need to say anymore, unless, like I said I am asked.....I am now setting my sights on new and exciting things in the G-rated world of tickling (this is SO much more exciting and fun to plan and create than the X-rated groups were).... I'm now looking forward to joining forces in any way I can with those that have similar interests....🙂......Now the time has come to set an example of doing, not saying....🙂
*People may never remember what u say, but they'll always remember how u make them feel🙂
~Ticklemmmeeeeeee
