Communication - it works!

[piyr]

Obviously I'm into tickling. My wife unfortunately is not. This has led to problems in our marriage that started to boil over. I realized that we were both doing a piss poor job of communicating and not just in the bedroom. 6 months ago we started working on it.

Saturday night we were laying in bed and my wife attacked me. It was a great experience mainly because she was having a good time. I'm very positive and realistic on the progress we've made so far and where it may go from here. I'd love to get her one day but realize that she's not there yet and may never be.

Communicating better has made a world of difference. We've gone from getting angry over just talking about it to sharing a great experience in just 6 months. The main reason for the change is that we've both undergone positive changes in attitude toward each other and a better respect for each other's feelings.

I don't want to bore everyone with a long drawn out post so feel free to pm me if you want to know more.

 

[fecil]

Good for you. Hope things keep improving, but at least you're working on it positively.

 

[Restraints]

Give her time, and compliment her many (other) attributes. I've eventually brought 'round every woman with whom I've been in a relationship (except my first wife, a lost cause). I wish you both the very best.

 

[AlexEmpire]

It's always unfortunate when two people in love have kinks that don't match up. Compromise and communication on both sides can make a world of difference. I'm glad you're having a more positive experience!