Did your parents ever find you out?

[Goodieluver]

I think my mum mighta found out, when i got to my computer, i guess she searched the entire computer for jpg's and one was highlighted, it was an art drawing from T&J tickling site many many moons ago

That horrific sight that she might know prompted me to put all my images on floppy disk

 

[Amnesiac]

Hell No!

My parents don't even know if I'm gay or straight, so close-lipped am I about ANYTHING related to my sexuality or personal interests. I've never brought girls home, never dated, never expressed any interest in social activities so they've never had a reason to suspect. Even so, this doesn't stop my dad from giving unsolicited advice about the kind of trouble you can get into with girls. A few years ago, I got a single mother at work a pink Easter bunny doll for her daughter because I was off and she was still working and she paid for it; I left it in the car until the next day and when my dad asked what it was for, I told him--because it wasn't anything--and he then grilled me if I was stupid enough to get involved with a single mother. I'm a 23 year-old shut-in and he's asking me if I'm getting involved with someone. Paranoia runs in the family it seems.

A big reason is that I went through an 11 year tickling hiatus starting at 10 where I didn't even think about tickling. Don't know why or how, but apparently this blackout kept me out of trouble. I didn't get back into it until I had a brief stint of living on my own, and by then I had a solid decade of practice hiding porn so I was pretty good at it. I developed keen senses about my parents whereabouts in the house: I could tell by floor creaks whose feet they were, I could tell by breathing if my dad was really asleep, and I also learned how to walk and move without making noise. I also figured out that I could hide my porn and ticklnig material amongst my crap in plain sight, they didn't even bother to look because the mess was too much.

My mom was the keen one, and now that she's gone, I've relaxed a whole lot about what I can leave out, and since he couldn't turn a computer on if I showed him, I don't have to worry about my internet follies from getting back to him.

But I still don't take chances. My sexuality is MINE and I'll not let him start thinking about it so he can comment on it.

 

[McNoodle]

My mother may have known as I used to write short stories about it and leave them in the pigsty I called a room. Of course eventually she would give up waiting for me to clean it and do it for me and sometimes the stories would be left on my desk or in the top drawer. She never did bring it up however.
I would be more worried if she found out now because she may feel free to start bringing up any kinky things my dad and her may have done and then I'll be scarred for life. 😱

 

[embomb]

about time someone brought this up

first off, thank you for creating this thread, this has been hilarious. I have a story of my own... It was back in 2000 when funnybone storybox was up and running, I told my mom I was reading a letter from a friend and she looked over my shoulder....she never said anything to my dad

fast forward 2003: my dad found it on the computer logs and called me into the basement.
Him: What's this tickling media forum?
Me: uh...
Him: I don't mind you doing this on your own time, not on the family computer
Me: Cool dad.....

2 months later after finding it again
Him: Didn't we have this conversation before?
ME: It was all pop-ups!

Thank you and goodnight

Embomb

 

[Pedro]

some of those stories are very embarassing!! haha. my brother has definately seen some of the stuff i downloaded having downloaded some things onto my computer and them going into the same folder some of my clips were.. he never said anything though..

 

[scorpionldr]

my dad has and tried to oust me in front of the family, no luck yet. my sister knew and tried to blackmail me; i told her to go ahead, if her family can't even believe my father about it yet there's no way in hell she'll get any credit anwhere else about it.

I'm planning on investing in a very nice external hard drive that can hold any and all video/picture files i have so that i can take my computer where i want and not be a control freak about it..........so yea, let's just say i'm very paranoid about it all

 

[Kalamos]

my dad has and tried to oust me in front of the family, no luck yet. my sister knew and tried to blackmail me.

"Nice" relatives you've got...

 

[Cavum]

As allready known Im pretty open about my life when it comes to what I like. Moust people I know allready know Im into BDSM etc, but not everyone know what kind of stuff Im into when it comes to that....

That was untill May this year.
Me and my girlfriend was asked by a big and known public youth magasine to do a interview about our BDSM life. We really wanted to do it, cause we both want to "normalise" BDSM (it's 2007 for f** sake). It ended up with a big five paged interview with many pictures where we explain about everything of our BDSM life...including my love for tickling and feet. Several people in my family saw this, but they didn't get upset about it. They acculy got proud cause I dared to be who I am. I was REALLY nervous of course, but it was great....

The first pic is from the commercal of the magasine showing the first two
pages of the interview.

Second pic is a picture of my ring they used in the magasine. It's kind of my symbol for having a foot fetish 😛

 

[meangry]

They have...and while I was embarrassed as all holy fuck when they found out (they cleaned out my room when I was in Chicago, finding stacks upon stacks of print outs of images, stories, and that that I had put under the boards of my bed because SURELY they wouldn't look there). When I came home to them, I literally did not talk to them for days I was so embarrassed.

I came home finding my stuff in milk crates, and scorched earthed that stuff.

Sad...really.

Now...I do not care. I have my own laptop, which I use for this purpose. I've used a credit card they get the bill for (sent to their address) that I use to buy gas to purchase MTJ e-comics, always paying them the money when they do up the bill.

The comment was brought up a few weeks ago, from my mother about my weird sexual tastes (which I flatly stated was between consenting adults, and that she frankly had no fucking business telling me about), then my brother made a snide comment about it. I treated them both like shit for it. It's a private matter. I do not air their laundry at the dinner table.

Seriously...I am to the point where I could give a shit less. They can know, but it isn't on their dime, and if someone was to get in trouble for it...I would take it.

I still have a Nike bag of stuff at home, loaded with more prints and stories and the like. I told them both, in earnest, that in my going away to school does not give them the right to search through my belongings. They have ALWAYS had a problem with this. Personally...I know my old man has a foot fetish. He's been coy about it. It's probably genetic, as is tickling.

So...eh...I could care less. They know. I'm 23. If they have a problem, they can ask my girlfriends in the past how it was for them.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

almost a week before i moved out of my parents' house, my dad decided he'd snoop. found my makeshift bindings, smith and wesson handcuffs, and three Paradise Visions videos. i knew he had been in my room because, thanks to my somewhat-photographic memory, a few odds and ends had been moved. i prepared for the inevitable.

a few days before i left, my dad brought it up in an accusatory kind of way. something like "You ever bring that shit into my house again, boy..." and left it as an empty threat. he also called it "sick", which i found rather funny as he had 1 gang-bang and 2 big tit pornos "hidden" in a small table in the living room. and, knowing my father, he was probably into stuff worse than i was.

awhile back my parents actually brought it up in front of my fiancee and mother-in-law. my mother-in-law, who knew about my kinks well before my folks did, shrugged it off and said "they enjoy it, no one gets hurt, I don't see a problem with it.". THAT was cool.

these days, i don't mind who knows about my BDSM lifestyle, as i'm fairly open about it. the tickling and foot fetish part, however, i try to keep a lid on.

 

[Em Es]

One or both of our parents were probably into this, too

I was an adult but still living with my parents when I first bought tickling magazines and videos but to my knowledge they never knew. Had my mother come across anything, it should not have surprised her because, assuming my tickling interest is genetic, I got it from her side of the family!

 

[Iwon'tgrowup]

I figure the babysitter told after having her feet tickled a few times. I got a stern warning one night to "behave myself" . . . but that was it, because Dad knew he had created the behavior by both modeling and encouraging it with relatives. One cousin threatened to "tell my parents" after I'd tickled her breathless (feet); but, by then, I didn't even care. Later, I knew they heard me tickling girlfriends in my room, but they didn't care anymore, either.

Since leaving home, though (a loooong time ago), I've kept it quiet (except with those to whom it mattered . . . the 'lees . . .).

 

[natural tickler]

Well for me, my parents already knew because it was them that got me into it. My siblings and I were raised in a tickle world, so grew up in it.

And we are more the crazier for it

 

[scorpionldr]

"Nice" relatives you've got...

yea well I never said my fetish was a gift......it limits who you can date, what you get off on, how you release your stress........genuinely a pain in my ass

 

[Kalamos]

yea well I never said my fetish was a gift......it limits who you can date, what you get off on, how you release your stress........genuinely a pain in my ass

You know? I was telling just the same thing last evening, to a female friend of mine.

...

Most of my [girl] friends have been really patient with me and my sadistic side.
I hope they enjoyed my company as much as I have enjoyed theirs, so far.

🙂

 

[Rage]

Oddly enough my mom and my aunt know I have a foot fetish. They tease me about it sometimes. But I don't think she knows about the tickling thing though. When I got my own laptop I was able to keep it a secret. But then my friends and siblings would want to use it so I had to quickly learn how to hide files and delete web histories, and hide previously viewed/opened files. I had to think of every scenario. I am on my own now so I dont have that problem. I will say though investing in Po box helped a lot when I was younger.

 

[giggle-maker]

Forgive the ignorance of this question,

but how do you clear history?

 

[Rage]

If you have Fire Fox its really easy. just hit ctrl, shift, delete. And a menu will pop up that asks if you want to delete all your web history, and download history. and you just hit okay. Internet explorer is a little bit tougher. just open internet explorer. THen click on the tools tab and go to internet options. There should be a menu that pops up. Then just click the "clear history" button.

 

[Fantastklr]

My parents never found out.

 

[xionking]

Hell yeah my parents know. The incriminating evidence is overwelming. For years before I had my own computer, they would find the tickling clips I'd downloaded, and they'd question me about it, but felt too uncomfortable to discuss it. They are pretty conservative. I've chatted to Mum about it now that I'm a bit older. It's not a dinner table discussion, but Mum has on the odd occasion asked me why I'm into tickling. I'm just honest, I say, 'I really don't know why. It's just something I enjoy." Dad and I have never discussed it cuz that would just be the epitomy of ackwardness.

It's strange though because like I said, they are conservative. They never gave me the "sex talk" when I was younger or anything, so for me to finally come out of the 'tickle closet' after years of denial even though the evidence (video clips) were there for so many years, it felt almost liberating. Mum just told me one time to practice safely, almost like she understood that tickling was something that would come along with foreplay or with sex you know?

I've done a lot worse in my time, been addicted to pot, been expelled from a school, so I guess having a light fetish like tickling really can't bother Mum and Dad in the long run. I guess Mum's right, if it's practiced safely just like anything, then no real harm can come about of it.

 

[Abel]

I don´t know if my parents know about it or not. I believe they at least have a clue (unless they forgot about it). As a child my farther took me with him to his school sometimes. Usually he was working on his schools (he´s a teacher) internet/computer rooms and i´d be allowed to go online. I don´t know but i belive those system allow you to keep track on what each pc is doing so he might have noticed. Since my memory is rather blurr when it comes to my past i can´t tell for sure but: It is possible that i even talked to them not even hiding my interest for that. As a child i was rather "stupid" when it came to trusting people or hiding your feelings. As a child i actually asked adults (only those i knew well) at several occasions if they´d let me tickle them...being a cute little child i even got more than one "ok". So with that pattern of action it is rather likely that i´d go and ask my mom about things i didn´t understand. Or things that made me curious. See i remember running into a site with one of those "You must be over 18 to enter" startsides and at that time i would know that a pc can´t tell my age. So i was rather caught up between "do it or don´t do it?". As far as i know my family never said anything special about it. I guess i got the basic sex education (although school bored the hell out of me by having that topic THREE times). My parents usually answered my questions since they didn´t believe in that "you´ll know when you´re older" crap.


Well being bullied in school for being different (they didn´t find out about my tickling fetish) made me rather cautious about what to reveal about myself and what not so when i started my second search for tickling (after a break of several years) i took any means to hide myself from anyone i could learn (and i learn fast). Though by now i have worked on my past and what it did to me and i guess i have no real reason to hide any longer. Though i am not going to simply walk up to them and tell them. What´s the reason after all? They never told me what turns them on and my thinking is more like "to tolerate doesn´t require to know everything". I am lucky that my parents are very tolerant. If it was for them i might as well be gay or whatever and they´d accept that. Still there is no need to actually talk about it right?

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Please. My father is a Reverend and freaks out whenever I have a very occassional beer. I figure what the ol' man don't know, can't hurt him. Plus I don't think I could stand a 5 hour lecture on why I am 'a sinner' because of it.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

He was this big Catholic, and the lecture started, so I just looked at him and said, "Well, at least it's girls, and not little boys like the priests!" and that was the end of the conversation.

Ouch! True... but still. 🙂

 

[Texas_Tickle]

yea well I never said my fetish was a gift......it limits who you can date, what you get off on, how you release your stress........genuinely a pain in my ass

I hear ya there, dude.

 

[tickmankyle1]

hello

my sister once found tied and tickling mags i had back when i was 18 at home and kinda made fun of me saying tickle tickle tickle. that was about it. i'm sure my mom knows but never talks about it later kyle