Does anyone PAY to tickle/be tickled?

[Blackstar216]

njjen,

You must realize that a ticklee of your type is like finding a diamond in the snow..... in Antartica! Males in the tickling community are ALL wishing they had a partner like you for sessions! And 98% of us fail at finding one! And that is why guys might be more apt to actually pay to DO the tickling.....however.....I can't imagine how ANY female could EVER have a problem finding a tickler......except finding a good or experienced tickler.

 

[njjen3953]

Blackstar216,
Do you pay for it or do you have a partner?
If the answer is no to both questions, contact me. WEG

Jen

 

[ktickler]

How?

Hi Jen:

Responding to your suggestion. How would one get the chance to have a session with you? Which area do I have to be near to in order for me to enjoy the marvels of tickling you?

Thanks,

Knight Tickler

 

[njjen3953]

Knight Tickler,
I see you are in the midwest. I am in Albany, NY. If you really want to do this and are willing to travel,e-mail me privately at [email protected]. I will send you my phone # and we can make a plan.

Jen

 

[ManInBlack]

Stripper Tickling

Wallstreet,

Please elucidate the finer points of stripper tickling.

Can't be sure how all the ladies will feel, but some ladies here like to watch ladies get tickled, and some want to try. Some women end up going with a guy to a strip club for fun or a business meeting. Remember, some of these female dancers are moonlighting their way though law school. 🙂

MB

 

[WallStreet]

I assume the word elucidate means describe, so let me commence elucidating. Tip#1: Your NOT going to tickle any strippers at clubs like Scores or higher end "No Touch" Juice Bars. You need to find a "Hole in the Wall" type establishment. I could name a few but I'm unsure if the moderators of this fine forum would approve.

 

[WallStreet]

Tip#2- The Strip Club you find should have Lap Dancing. Preferably with lap dancing stalls. That makes things much easier. If you offer politely to buy one of the ladies a drink they will usually join you. As Man in Black pointed out, these are ladies and let's not forget that. When one of the ladies sits with you for a drink it provides many tickle probing opportunities. If they are immedietly angered you know not to waste your time getting a lap dance. If they don't complain or if they tickle you back you're in like Flynn. I've tickled girls silly just giving them massages at the bar, but the lap dance room is more private. Wether the lady is in to tickling or not BEWARE of the large bouncer. Bouncer's aren't big tickle fans.

 

[WallStreet]

TIP#3- The Lap Dance Room. Remember: Be a Gentleman!! The best way to commence tickling is to offer to rub there sore feet or simply "Fish Hook" there armpit when they sit on your lap. A good massuese can qualify how ticklish her feet are before you get into the lap dance room. These girls have been dancing all night and believe me: They Enjoy Having There Feet Tickled! The "Fish Hook" technique is more of a surprise attack. Bend 2 fingers into a fish hook and gently insert them into her armpit. This has a paralyzing effect so don't exceed her limits. Remember the gentleman clause.
That's all the tips for now. If I get more positive posts than disgusted posts I'll go to TIP#4.

 

[Giantfan]

Wallstreet.........someone else who thinks like me.

Hey Wallstreet, your describing in excellent detail how I sometimes fulfill my tickle fetish. Your analysis is right on the money, especially the foot massage technique which is my personal favorite since Im a foot tickler by trade. I live in NJ and I bet you know the same clubs that I use for doing this. I have at least 3 that I've used.

Your right on the money about a place like SCORES. SCORES would be my ultimate foot tickle 'score'. All of the girls are drop dead gorgeous. Unfortunately that place is way to stuffy, can you believe I'm describing a strip club as stuffy, for a foot tickler. Its also way to pricy.

To all who read this post, the previous tips, and the future tips, this man is speaking the truth!

 

[qjakal]

Bouncer info...

Okay...I moonlighted in college one year as a club bouncer. What can I say? I'm kinda big and into athletics and boxing etc. and it beat doing construction work all to hell and back! If you are a "regular", the bouncer will cut you slack...if you are a CLEVER regular, you will also talk to the bouncer once in a while when the girl whose set it is is not your type....they are semi-normal people, and may surprise you. a drink after work and some intelligent non-sex related conversation will probably pave your way into the "zone", which is what we called a room we ignored no matter WHAT noises came out of it...lol. Just a suggestion... Q

 

[njtickle]

Philly Dungeons/Strip Clubs

Someone asked about dungeons in Philly. There are mainly two (that I'm aware of). Check out the following websites:

www.theroyalcastle.com

www.oldenglishchambers.com

I can vouch for TheRoyalCastle. Very nice women (if you want them to be). Be wary of the website with blood and stuff. It may freak you out a bit...remember, tickling is lumped together with all the other fetishes within S&M.

Also, Strip Clubs can be a cheaper way to play. WallStreet is right. It just depends on the girl. But make sure she doesn't get upset with you, or the Bouncer won't be too happy. Good point WallStreet.

It probably satisfies the "fix" for a couple of quick pokes here and there.

 

[WallStreet]

Wall$treet-3 Disgusted-0

Qjakal has an excellent point, and that's actually part of
TIP#4: Always grease the palms of places you frequent just in case things get weird (well actually, by this point things are already weird, perhaps ugly is a better word). I was in a lap dance stall showing a lovely Brazillian girl my definition of Cocegas when I heard the barmaid yell "What's going on back there!". When they saw your humble narrator emerge from the stall they remembered the years of palm greaseing and the matter was immediatley dropped. The other part of tip#4 is that Brazillian and Russian strippers are usually more willing to be tickled than American. Most American strippers look at it as income supplement, as Man in Black had pointed out earlier.

 

[MadKalnod]

I've got to second just about everything WallStreet has said so far. (With the exception of Tip #4, and that's only because I have neither been going to my local strip club long enough to be considered a fixture, nor do I wish to go that far. I've got enough money-draining hobbies that $30 per 5 minutes of couch dance has to remain a rare luxury.)

I also offer this advice: Talk to the women and treat them like people. Whenever a dancer has approached me for a tip, and the established procedure at the club is that they grasp the bill in their cleavage, I always tell them "Please, take it in your hands. You're a person, not just a pair of self-propelled breasts, and you deserve some dignity." They're usually surprised, but most find being treated as a human being is enough of a refreshing change that they stick around to talk for a while. As qjakal pointed out, non-sex-related conversation goes over well. (As an unapologetic Fanboy, I'm surprised at the number of strippers who have lauched into conversations with geek-enthusiasm that matches mine about Doctor Who, comic books, Celtic myth, obscure New Age musicians, and bad direct-to-video horror movies. Geek Pride!)

I also recommend offering foot-massages in the couch-dance room. I also make sure to tell them that they don't have to take their top off if they don't want to. Again, concern for their feelings and making sure that the experience is enjoyable for her as well has always gotten a favorable response. This will go a long way towards separating you from the pack of drunken jackals that leer and paw at her all night long, and then the tickling, when it comes up, will be regarded as playful rather than perverted.

WallStreet is right, after dancing all night, they do enjoy having their feet tickled. (And having their toes kissed and sucked, but that's another forum.) The only downside that I've discovered is that their feet are often too tired and sore to be properly ticklish, and sometimes they react to it as just another massage technique, responding with purring and contended murmurs of "That feels really good" instead of actual laughter. But then, I prefer gentle, affectionate tickling to the intense torturous variety, so I find the foot-worship satisfying enough on its own. (Your mileage may vary.) One incident that sticks in my mind involved giving a girl a back-rub, and my fingertips grazed her ribs. To my my utter amazement, she grinned softly and raised her arms above her head, actually inviting me to tickle her armpits and ribs with abandon! We then rolled all over the couch locked in a tickle-fight, laughing our fool heads off. Afterwards, she kissed me on the lips and said it was the most fun she'd had in a long time. I've only ever found two girls who positively hated being tickled, but they were more than happy to pin me down and tickle me in retaliation, so again, it's all good.

One warning that I can't stress enough, however, is that this is my natural approach. I think that the main reason that I've been successful is because I'm as real and as honest as I can be with these women, who have to deal with fakery and deceipt for a living. I sincerely want to treat them with respect, even reverence. If anyone tries what I've said and done as a ploy just to get into tickling range, then I don't know that I can guarantee the same results.

 

[WallStreet]

I agree with everything MadKalnod said except for the part where the girl gets to keep her top on. Man can't live on tickling alone! He was right about treating them like ladies. But $30 a lap dance? Things must be more expensive in AC than they are in North Jersey. For those of you who are wrestling fans, I've gotten lap dances from both Missy Hiatt and Dawn Marie. It was at the place where they shoot Bada Bing for the Sopranos. Unfortunately TIP#2 was in full effect and I was unable to do ANY tickling due to Large Bouncerage.

 

[MadKalnod]

Maybe I'm just a crazy old fashioned romantic, but I'd rather that a woman get naked because she really wants to, not because I'm paying her $6 bucks a minute to do so. (I know, you're all asking what I'm doing in a strip club in the first place if that's how I feel. I kind of stumbled in out of curiosity and developed a big stupid crush on one of the ladies there. She's since quit, but we still talk online and I know her boyfriend from way back. It's decidedly weird, but then so am I.) Many feel comfortable enough with me to take their top off after a few minutes. As a foot-fancier, I'm far more entranced by their bare feet anyway. Besides, several of the dancers at the club I normally visit have pierced nipples, and that just makes my skin crawl.

As for the price tag, I did say it was a bit steep and I try to avoid making a habit of it. What does it run you up in North Jersey for a 5 minute session? My friend who quit had worked in a club in Philly where they charge $20 for a single session and $200 for a full 30 minute "champagne room" but it's not like I've been shopping around to see who has the lowest prices. $30 = 1 Lap Dance = 10 new comics or another squad of miniatures for my wargaming army; and those addictions have had their hooks in my wallet far longer.

Besides, I only go every other month or so to appease the urge with a simulation until I can find a proper loving relationship. Kinda like when Tuvok had to go through Pon Farr on the Holodeck while stranded in the Delta Quadrant. It isn't the act of tickling or foot worship in and of itself that I'm craving, so much as having someone who cares enough about me to share such things with them. Even with all the sexual complications, at the core of the tickling experience is an expression of love. At least, that's the way it feels to me.

 

[MRI]

Let me throw my 2 cents in this one

Well i have had two experinces in paying to tickle someone. I had two different escorts on seperate occasions. I find it is a little easier this way if you REALLY want to satisfy your fetish, because if you get an escort say for 2 hours, (its about $400-500 +hotel room if you get one, a GOOD nice looking one at that). The way i find out if the will do a tickling session is i email them, by going through this approach you wont get as nervous as talking to them on the phone. I found my money well spent by getting an escort. Pretty much once you find an escort who does not mind being tickled and is ticklish your set and you pretty much can branch off into all your other foot fantasies with no problem and if you want too you could have sex (even though i did not, i was there for the foot play 😀). When you do this, you are in a private area, you can enjoy the lady for a good amount of time, and heck you can fufill your wonderful foot fetishes to your hearts desire. Take my advice, save up the money, find an escort who is into tickling and then get too it, trust me this is coming from someone who has done a lot of research on this. 🙂

 

[Onlyfornow]

This thread is interesting enough to merit a bump. I'm interested in what the current users think of this.

 

[alex]

Thanks for bumping the thread, Onlyfornow. It's an interesting thread, and so early that I'm sure few of us have ever seen it.

I paid for tickling any number of times in my younger days. I'm more lee than ler, so I was paying women to tickle me. Going to these establishments let me choose more than one woman at a time to tickle me. This of course was pricier than choosing one woman, but there usually is a discount for multiple-girl sessions. What with the economy, these places probably have fewer clients and more women than they did, so even for one woman, they might react favorably if you were to plead poverty and propose a reasonable (say, 20%) discount. Regardless, the real question is whether the pleasure you get is worth the money you pay. This of course is a profoundly personal determination, depending on (a) how much pleasure you get, and (b) what you can afford.

I see two main differences between this and a tickling session with a significant other or a friend. The first is that in a professional session, you needn't be concerned with accommodating the woman's desires; you're paying her to accommodate yours. The second is that in a long-term relationship, if your woman wants to accommodate you, she'll get better at knowing exactly what turns you on, and that's wonderful. Working with professionals, I found it takes several sessions for them to really get it down, though after that (if the woman remains on staff, which they don't always) it can really be good.

 

[stan327]

I've paid for tickling and luckily it was fairly inexpensive to do so. It started out with me answering a Craigslist ad that a woman had posted offering "Sensual" massage. Women offering this kind of service often post in the Erotic section and are not Licensed Massage Therapists.

Anyways, I explained to her in my email that I was into feet and tickling and asked if it would be ok for me to tickle/massage her feet while she rubs my back. She was more than ok with this and even wore nylons on request. After a couple of visits, the sessions changed from one hour of her rubbing my back while I play with her nylon feet to more like two hours of me massaging and tickling her feet while she lays back and takes it all in. Even the cost of session was reduced despite being longer and it's way cheaper than than a Dungeon. For the record, she is also very ticklish!

I should mention this lady is probably rare find. I can't imagine many sensual massage ladies being hip to being tickled by a first time client and even fewer willing to be tickled at such low prices. But if any of you are feeling adventurous, look into it.