Does EVERY man with a foot fetish HAVE to be submissive

[Violetta]

I really find it hard to imagine a guy being dominant about it and going up to a girl to say "you are going to sit there and let me lick those toes and you are going to like it!"

But I'd be damn impressed if he did. >_>

 

[MistressValerie1]

More than a few so-called "submissives" have a hidden dominant streak. You would be surprised at how aggressive many self-proclaimed subbies are towards female members at femdom and foot forums, often chasing the ladies away with incessant demands and even stalkerish behaviour. I believe that some of these men are repressed dominants who project their dominant urges onto women as a defence mechanism against guilt (because our society expects men to act gallant towards women).

 

[P[a]pi]

I think the setup of the session determines who is being dominant and who is being submissive.

I could smell, caress and kiss Meka's feet with me laying down on my back and her putting her feet in my face, or I could do the same things with her ankles tied, wrists tied behind her back, blindfolded, gagged, collared, with her laying on her stomach with her feet in my lap.

I do the 2nd one haha. Her feet are mine to play with. So, foot fetishism can go both ways, but I admit most guys seem to like it the first way that I described, which makes them submissive in my opinion.

 

[Sir Bombers]

LOL!

Feet for rent?

L.M.A.O.

Kinda makes you wonder how she would pay for fast food?!

Girl: "let me get a Big Mac."

Server: "okay that'll be $3 bucks drive to the next window"

Server: " Cash or credit?"

Girl: "Neither...feet..."

Server: "declined..." :laughing:


You don't need to be submissive, but you do have to keep your foot friends in check though.

Your "feet for rent" friend is a wonderful example of a person you need to keep in check...

They're using your love for their gain and that is completely wrong... Draw the line!

I mean c'mon... I love feet just as much as anyone here...if not more... But not THAT much!

:laughing:

 

[ttheocjones]

Man i know what you mean. I am a nice guy and women think that they can run all over me and i'll allow it. Because you have a foot fetish doesn't mean you have to be submissive. Their are those who do but i think it's from something in their life where they were submissive to females usually during their childhood. Like meka said "tell them hoes to get a life." fanatasy island is on t.v. Not in reality

 

[tower98]

This is a topic I can relate with. Most of my experiences came with my girl friend of eight years. She never demanded anything from me because of my love affair with her feet. Manipulate maybe😛 There were many times I came home from a long day at work and was ready to just collapse. With some teasing and placement of her feet in my lap would always lead to what she wanted.

Now I did have a friend who enjoyed foot massages and such. She did manage money from me for pedicures. I guess we both got what we wanted lol. I think it’s more about the personality of the person. If she is demanding or looking to take advantage, some just enjoy the attention and are comfortable with that.

I my self am submissive in nature when it comes to fun with my girl. That’s just who I am though. I do at times just want to nurture the girl’s feet and am not looking for much more. Simply kissing her feet as she reads a book somtimes. Sometimes I enjoy light bondage and take her feet. Maybe I am a little top and bottom lol.

I love the attention this tread has received. Good topic!

 

[Jondude521]

I don't consider myself submissive with my foot fetish in the least. What I find the most pleasurable about foot worship is that it could lead to my girl's possible arousal and orgasm if I'm lucky, and the power to control what she's experiencing through her feet, especially while she's in bondage, it means I'm the dominant force, and it's great having that power.

 

[wolfman40]

I consider myself a switch, but when I'm a ler, I like adding a bit of biting, toes esp and licking..

I don't think thats being too submissive!

 

[NicholasA1]

I haven't had the same experiences as the OP. My ex knew about my foot fetish before we dated, and she didn't take advantage of me or blackmail me based on that. Of course, our relationship didn't work out but I didn't experience any mistreatment due to my fetish.

She was the only other person I've told about how much I like feet. I think a lot of women figure out that I have a fetish. They probably catch me looking. I think I'm sly about it, but I'm probably painfully obvious. But no woman has ever said anything to me about it, nor tried to take advantage of it.

But nobody should be taken advantage of. I have my submissive fantasies, but I wouldn't let anyone treat me like crap just so I can fulfill my sexual desires. I can wait until a nice girl comes along. It has been three years since I had sex, tickled a woman, or touched someone's feet. It sucks, but I can wait until I meet someone nice. It's better to be alone with your blue balls than with someone who makes you feel worse than you did when you were alone.

 

[Slaver123]

Not at all. It can be wonderful to worship your slave's pretty, tied-up feet. 🙂