Does looks matter? bringin this up again

[kcantankerous]

Sometimes I wish I could enjoy tickling and being tickled just for the sake of it. Does anyone else like engaging in lee ler relationships only with people they are attracted too? Do any of you avoid or even dread being tickled by someone your dont find good looking?

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I think the only look that should matter is the look on the persons face that is being tickled

 

[aticklishguy]

Looks have always been secondary to me. As long as someone truly enjoys tickling/being tickled, that works for me.

 

[Tickler Bart]

When it comes to attractiveness . . .

I've discovered that if someone is not that attractive to you, & you tickle them or they get to tickle you, that they somehow seem more attractive.
I've had a few experiences with women that I did not find attractive, but when I started to tickle them, they were more attractive & I had a better time than expected.
Perhaps it isn't WHO you're having a tickle session with, but the ACT of tickling itself.

 

[Mimi]

To me, they don't in the least. Tickling is about giggling and playing and having fun. Not about how much sexy flesh can you grope or if you're gonna get laid afterward.

If you come to a gathering with the intention of seeking out only highly attractive people to play with, for one you're gonna be disappointed because we're all (mostly...there are a few exceptions) just your guys and girls next door, and secondly, you're likely going to offend the other attendees so badly you won't get any tickling action anyway. It's about the FUN, and you can't have that much fun while being superficial and egotistical.

For me, a desirable tickle partner has a great bubbly personality and loves to be silly. THAT'S a quality trait!

Mimi 😀

 

[Numo]

Personally, I only enjoy/allow myself to be tickled by my boyfriend, my close girl friends, and a few choice male friends (because I know they only do it playfully, and not nearly as extensive as my boyfriend). It's all my own choice really, I just have some insecurities about strangers and new acquaintances and I know I'd never enjoy that sort of touch from them.

 

[vampirecult]

To me, they don't in the least. Tickling is about giggling and playing and having fun. Not about how much sexy flesh can you grope or if you're gonna get laid afterward.

If you come to a gathering with the intention of seeking out only highly attractive people to play with, for one you're gonna be disappointed because we're all (mostly...there are a few exceptions) just your guys and girls next door, and secondly, you're likely going to offend the other attendees so badly you won't get any tickling action anyway. It's about the FUN, and you can't have that much fun while being superficial and egotistical.

For me, a desirable tickle partner has a great bubbly personality and loves to be silly. THAT'S a quality trait!

Mimi 😀

Amen. I agree preach it sista

 

[leeboy]

My only criteria is that she be female. Whether she be the lee or the ler.

 

[maniactickler]

For me, there has to be some sort of physical attraction.

 

[TicklishLayla]

Naw, looks don't matter

Not to me they don't. Besides, I have a hard time seeing the unattraciveness in people. Everyone is beautiful.

 

[kis123]

I personally think this one wins the gold star (if such were available)! It has nothing to do with the physical stuff, but everything to do with if the tickle-fit is there or not!

If he/she laughs when tickled and gives the ler the fun and thrills, then physical appeal takes a whole different dimension, don't you think?

 

[dtrell]

absolutely they matter. for me, there has to be at least a minimum level of attraction, or i dont enjoy it.

 

[chode]

Not that i ever wanted to. But i can say that after reading what mimi said, I will never ever attend a gathering.

 

[kcantankerous]

keep in mind Im not saying they need to be brook burke or anything, I'm just saying that some level of attraction is needed for me to enjoy it. Seems only afew will back me up on this one.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Morality aside, they do matter. I've been left out of the tickling loop on occasion becasue I don't look like some of the more male-model types here on the TMF. At the same time, I like having at leastr some attraction to my eyes when I am either in 'ler mode or 'lee mode (although most of the time then my eyes are crammed shut with tickling torment). It's human behavior and human nature. And we know how well that often goes.

 

[Iggy pop]

Tickling is sexual to me. Sex is physical based heavily on physical attraction. So yes, looks do matter. Are they the only thing that matters? Absolutely not. Personality plays a large part as well. And no you don't have to be a super model for me to find you attractive.

As for tickling someone I'm not attracted to, I may playfully tickle them, but I would never engage in full on tickle session with them.

 

[dtrell]

oddjob, the only "male model" type i know of on here is yjgfn...do you know others?

 

[dtrell]

Tickling is sexual to me. Sex is physical based heavily on physical attraction. So yes, looks do matter. Are they the only thing that matters? Absolutely not. Personality plays a large part as well. And no you don't have to be a super model for me to find you attractive.

As for tickling someone I'm not attracted to, I may playfully tickle them, but I would never engage in full on tickle session with them.

iggy, i coudlnt have said it any better.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

If we are going strictly by looks, then I have no right to express an opinion on this subject. I am as ugly as the day is long.So that being said, I can't judge on looks because roadkill looks better than me.

 

[dtrell]

wow tf4f, you seem more down on yourself than i do....thats not good. im sure you arent anywhere near that bad.

 

[ticklkitten]

Well, I'll say that attraction matters but to me attraction is 99% personality. Maybe I'm an odd one... I'm all about the personality of the ler/lee.

 

[venray]

Nope...looks have never mattered to me....just lucky I guess.....

 

[MrMacphisto]

LOL... good one Ray... although looks do matter to me, as well as gender... I don't tickle males, and I pretty much only tickle/flirt with women I'm attracted to. There have been a few cases where I tickled women I wasn't attracted to, like the girlfriend of a friend of mine. I also have been interested in tickling a certain female friend that I don't plan on getting involved with, but I am slightly attracted to her...

 

[Mimi]

Nope...looks have never mattered to me....just lucky I guess.....

And thank god for that, Ray. There are so many of you incredible folks in the community who I would never have been blessed with the opportunity of playing with if you all had a "looks are important" frame of mind. I'm so glad most of the folks who attend gatherings have a "ticklish skin is glorious ticklish skin that needs to be tickled....NOW!" sort of attitude!

Mimi 😀

 

[moxs602]

Just a thought

1) Mimi i would tickle you anywhere, 2) i',m old 44 but in good shape, all the rest of that crap, it is sexual, but we have learned to control all about this, the least we can do is, control so we show respect for others