Does looks matter? bringin this up again

[venray]

Its deffinately straight over here. And ven-whatever--- No one takes the posts i make as they should. Most of the time you all think im attacking someone or something. Do I really give two shits if you dont get the poitn, no, not really.

LOL we get your point alright....and take what you say as you give it..perhaps you should listen to DTrel when he says that words should be chosen carefully....Your posts do not lead one to believe that you have never "helped" anyone...you come across as demeaning and judgemental in almost everything you write....

Just an opinion mind you....but perhaps if you went back and looked at some of the things you have written here you might get a clue.....perhaps not...As you say, it doesnt really matter as the things you say have little meaning to most here....I am " just making a point".... 😀

 

[kis123]

Oh, my definition of attractive.

This is on topic i wouls assume.

Intelligent
Sarcastic
Funny
Healthy mind
Healthy habits
Healthy body
Ticklish/tickler

In my type of work i meet all shapes and sizes, and help all of them. I have dated all types. But i can garuntee you that anyone who is 5-4 350, isnt a healthy person. Being healthy and strong of mind is what i instill in those who work with me. And to me someone who doesnt care about their body, and isnt strong enough to put down the food, or to better their body composition. Then that is not attractive to me. Someone can be a chub and still be cute or whatever, but to me thats where it ends. Im extremely picky, and its not because of hollywood stereotypes. Its because of my beliefs and personal health practices.
5-4 350 was an example, but an example to prove a point. I said it.

I was trying to stay out of this, but.....

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you behold a fitness queen or a supermodel type as beautiful, good for you! The men in my life behold a woman who is significantly overweight but has a good looking face, an intellectual conversation, and is fiercely loyal and devoted to them. Not every man on the planet finds a size 2 attractive! There are chubby chasers and big-mama lovers out here running after me on a regular basis! I've NEVER had a problem getting a man and my two children were conceived the old-fashioned way! That is why I really could care less if someone found me attractive or not. I don't subscribe to dating sites looking for people to like or love me-I get plenty of "play" on my own, thank you very much!! And I'm not on this tickling site because I don't have a life! I'm here because I love tickling and I'm sharing my love with all of you. Simply put to whomever it may concern, if you don't like what's on TV, turn the channel!

My last doctors appointment I was told I was healthier than her. A big body dosen't necessarily dictate an unhealthy person. I'm not in the shape to run a marathon, but very few people are. I'm healthy enough to raise two children (one disabled) by myself. I've lost 45 lbs and intend to lose more weight because it's what I want to do for myself, not some media fantasy forcing me !! I go to work everyday and give my employer 150% because society sees a fat person as lazy. That's a crock of garbage shoved down our throat by the media who has always dictated what is or isn't attractive.

You don't like fat girls? No problem-I have plenty of men who like my fat tail just the way it is! You think a large person is unhealthy? Maybe yes, maybe not! That goes by individual to individual

Last I checked, they're not just FAT people in the cemetary! They're a bunch of skinny people there too!

 

[chode]

So kis. What exactly was the point of quoting what i said?

 

[dtrell]

My last doctors appointment I was told I was healthier than her. A big body dosen't necessarily dictate an unhealthy person. I'm not in the shape to run a marathon, but very few people are. I'm healthy enough to raise two children (one disabled) by myself. I've lost 45 lbs and intend to lose more weight because it's what I want to do for myself,

kis, you go girl...im proud of you. keep up the good work with that and your life.

 

[venray]

I am done wasting time on the topic.

🙄

 

[chode]

venray1

 

[venray]

Just makin a point....... 😛

 

[chode]

OK!!

 

[kis123]

So kis. What exactly was the point of quoting what i said?

Are you serious??? If you have to ask, something got terribly missed on the program!

Do you really need to know why someone like me would
quote you after some of these posts? You are an intelligent person and you know exactly what issues I'm adressing.

I'm not trying to beat up on you-I'm actually proclaiming the opposite. It's something I've had to deal with in this forum. You can have your opinions, but be prepared for others to disagree with them. This is just one of the issues of life where we'll just have to agree to disagree.

 

[chode]

Well yeah, because if you got the meat of what i posted you would see that you are the kind of person i admire. Christ.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Oh, my definition of attractive.

This is on topic i wouls assume.

Intelligent
Sarcastic
Funny
Healthy mind
Healthy habits
Healthy body
Ticklish/tickler

In my type of work i meet all shapes and sizes, and help all of them. I have dated all types. But i can garuntee you that anyone who is 5-4 350, isnt a healthy person. Being healthy and strong of mind is what i instill in those who work with me. And to me someone who doesnt care about their body, and isnt strong enough to put down the food, or to better their body composition. Then that is not attractive to me. Someone can be a chub and still be cute or whatever, but to me thats where it ends. Im extremely picky, and its not because of hollywood stereotypes. Its because of my beliefs and personal health practices.
5-4 350 was an example, but an example to prove a point. I said it.

You know what? I am done with you. You in your mind are right. So how can you have an intelligent conversation with someone who thinks they are perfect and is always right. It is apparent I will not be able to convince you of my point of view and BTW I am a good guy who is not interested in arguing with anyone.

 

[Brewhaha]

In the immortal words of Rodney King..."Can't we all just get along?" I don't think Rodney was a 'lee or a 'ler, but I suppose he had a good point.

As to the question, "Does looks matter?"...(actually, I believe the question would be correctly phrased, "Do looks matter?") In any case, whether they "does" or whether they "doesn't" (actually, whether they do or whether they don't...just further illustrating my point)...this is a no-win proposition. The answer to this question all comes down to personal taste. It's like asking, "What's better...chocolate or vanilla?" (The answer is vanilla, by the way). The bottom line is, who really cares???? If you think they matter, great...more power to you. If you don't think they matter, great...more power to you. Now, let's focus on more pressing matters, such as which women will be tickling Brewhaha at Motown??........

*Climbing down from my soapbox*

 

[chode]

"So how can you are with someone who thinks they are perfect."

HUH????


No one seems to see the small tiny point iw as trying to make to begin with.

You originally made it seem that if someone wanted to tickle only people whom they found attractive then they are wrong. But You say you have to have someone with hot feet. How is that different than wanting a hot bod?

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I did not use the term HOT feet. I said well taken care of. Meaning clean. Not anything else. Then you define it as a character flaw. Bring in a 350 pound person and everything else. I never define it as hot feet. Why don't you read it again.

 

[chode]

You understand only what you want. Go on about your buisness. While i go tickle super models............

 

[venray]

Now THAT is funny........

 

[Iggy pop]

I don't understand why everybody is getting so upset. People just have different preferences. Yes, I like to tickle women I'm attracted to. Guess what? You can tell me about all the ticklish guys in the world, I still have no desire to tickle any of them. I have nothing against guys that want to tickle other guys. Some guys here like certain shaped feet. Personaly, that does not really matter to me, but I have nothing against being attracted to certain type of feet. Were just talking about preferences here, so there is no reason to call people names or to even get angry. So everybody just relax.

 

[dtrell]

Now THAT is funny........

he tickles some pretty hot women ray...ive seen some of em.

 

[dtrell]

Now, let's focus on more pressing matters, such as which women will be tickling Brewhaha at Motown??........

*Climbing down from my soapbox*

you gonna be there brew? i guess ill see you there then....ill be manning the grills

 

[dmb41]

It's like asking, "What's better...chocolate or vanilla?" (The answer is vanilla, by the way).

Uh-uh...chocolate.

"Tied up and twisted, the way I like to be..." - Dave Matthews

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I don't understand why everybody is getting so upset. People just have different preferences. Yes, I like to tickle women I'm attracted to. Guess what? You can tell me about all the ticklish guys in the world, I still have no desire to tickle any of them. I have nothing against guys that want to tickle other guys. Some guys here like certain shaped feet. Personaly, that does not really matter to me, but I have nothing against being attracted to certain type of feet. Were just talking about preferences here, so there is no reason to call people names or to even get angry. So everybody just relax.

Iggy it is very nice of you to be the voice of reason. On that note, I will let it go only because he will always be right in his mind and everyone else is wrong. So that is that.

 

[chode]

Absolutly!!!!!

 

[venray]

he tickles some pretty hot women ray...ive seen some of em.

It is the pompous attitude I find funy D...I have tickled some pretty hot women myself, but then again..I find most women hot in one way or another..

I don't care who prefers what when it comes to sex and or tickle play..What I care about is the offensive way in which some treat others as if they are G's gift to the world at large...

You have been around some time in the community D....remind you of anyone in particular?...Reminds me of several....none of which are very likeable folks...

 

[ticklkitten]

You know... I'm more of the personality kind of girl as I mentioned before. But in my honest opinion I respect all of your opinions. Some of them tend to come off more superficial than others but we are entitled to our opinions and preferences. More power to us as individuals. Whether you are Mimi, yjgfn, tf4f or kis just to name a few. You've all posted intelligent arguments... I just wish we wouldn't all get so fired up about it.

 

[Stevereeno]

Looks do matter! Personality does matter! People have different views on which looks and which personalities they find attractive. Why argue about it or put down what each of you all like? Physically fit people can be quite unhealthy physically and mentally just like people who aren't physically fit. My view on the topic is that personality and looks are the whole picture. However, there are reasons why certain people place more emphasis on looks or on personality. My question to all of you is do you know why you place so much emphasis on looks or why you place so much emphasis on personality?