Does tickling happen in cincy?

[Spenser]

Aaaaamen!! Bella dear, on every bit of these good thoughts;

. . . . “ Look around for venues and have your own, but don't just sit and wait for someone else to hand you a ticklish girlfriend, or you might be sitting for a loooong time. “

I’ll add my own on frustration as a party host, next follow on message to this.

Spens..

 

[Spenser]

I'll say this about that too... sigh...

My wife and I have pretty much given up on trying to 'help' the tickle community get "with it". We don't really think its going to happen anytime soon (like for another decade or two). As a matter of fact, the gains made regionally, nationally, and internationally as far as social organizing and supporting real time tickle folk seem to be retreating rather than gaining.

In the Washington DC area (including nearby Virginia and Maryland) we were planning to hold a large convention style party in late July. We had the support (financial and logistical) of a one thousand member alt.-SM group (Black Rose), and a location that could easily hold 1,500 people. I was seriously hoping and anticipating attracting 100 to 120 avid tickle fans from all over.
My wife and I sent notices to over 45 forums, lists, and tickle and foot fetish websites. Less than one week before the party we decided to cancel as we found out there were only 14 people reserved. The hotel offered to refund the three thousand $dollar site reservation fee that the Black Rose Society was "ready, willing and prepared to lose, even if the party did not go forward"!

I simply don't know what more any of us out there can do for "the community". So M and I are sorta out of the (formal) tickle party hosting and promoting biz.

On the other hand... We've held two spanking society parties at our house this year. Each time we had 50 RSVPs within one week. In February we had ovr 25 people show up even in an ice storm; one couple driving down from Pennsylvania to our house in Maryland to attend! Over 35 showed up at our second party in April, over half of them women.

In mid-October M and I are going to host another house-party, and we'll be cutting off reservations at 50. We are going to invite both spankers and ticklers, and we do hope one or two tickle folks show up (we do know all the local DC-MD-VA and most of the Northeast USA ticklers anyway). But we're not going to promote it on this forum. Folks will just have to find out when and where by their own best investigative devices.

Oh yes, the best and biggest tickle fest in the world is still the best and biggest. I'm proud to have attended several of these and bless those who've created the Magic. The last one had people flying into Philadelpha from Minnesota, Alaska, and England. And I'm pretty sure that at least a couple of delightfully kinky tickling relationships have developed through that great big party.

So, my best guess is, for all of you who (and I fear that's almost all of the tickling "community") don't get to many gatherings for whatever reasons, or can't create munches or parties .... you're .. on your own from now on.

Spenser, returning my energies back in the direction of those other kinksters who have the more active real time fetish gatherings and parties

 

[LayDeeMe]

I'm a firm believer in "life is what you make it."

Knowing yjgfn, I know he'll make a tickling scene in Cincy all on his own. He's good like that. 😀

 

[chode]

Dont want to take time to convert? No women in ohio for tickling? This may sound bad, but quit whinning about it, you just said its too much work to convert, but there arent many women in ohio into tickling. Well then your just plain screwed. And i drive about 75 miles an hour, perhaps 80 at some times. And all of you talk about girls into f-m tickling, where are they? I only know one, send em my way, i am always up for some f-m tickling when i am the "m." And i think the aggressive comments about you "trell" come from what may just be "sourness." You and alot of the other guys seem so pissed, or "wronged" by the fact that you have to actually do a little work, or show some genuine interest in a girl as a person to get some tickling. I know this may be a post tghat gets deleted because i never say things i think may come across as mean. But i want all of you to know i am not trying to be an asshole. Its just that this topic has become so frustrating. And when you start to take little jabs at me i wont whine about it, but it does open the gates for me to be less accepting of complaints.

 

[naveltkltr1350]

yjgfn..not to sound like an asshole or anything..but what does the 75mph sometimes 80 have to do with that statement? it threw me off.

 

[naveltkltr1350]

its sad to say ohio is boring..not just the tickling part..but in general..i mean..i hit up Dave and Busters(westlake), Easton Mall(columbus)and Summit Racing(tallmadge/akron) the most..i blame a lot on the fact i cant handle rollercoasters(go ahead and laugh at me..i dont care)because their is like 4 theme parks in ohio. Cicny is a nice area. i like Florence, KY too right outside of covington/cincy and erlanger area. i have a few friends who like tickling..but only for a little bit..not too long. i just wish more got into it and that some of the women quit viewing all guys as rough ticklers..cause some of us arent really. nothing against women either..

 

[dtrell]

Dont want to take time to convert? No women in ohio for tickling? This may sound bad, but quit whinning about it, you just said its too much work to convert, but there arent many women in ohio into tickling. Well then your just plain screwed.

yes i am. i agree.

And i drive about 75 miles an hour, perhaps 80 at some times.

thats what i figured...and it was a JOKE...notice the LOL on the end?? maybe i didnt make it large enough, or i should have used about 100 lame emoticons....

And all of you talk about girls into f-m tickling, where are they? I only know one, send em my way, i am always up for some f-m tickling when i am the "m."

theres a hell of a lot more than there are m/f ill tell ya that. when youre on the forum as long as ive been , then let me know...

And i think the aggressive comments about you "trell" come from what may just be "sourness." You and alot of the other guys seem so pissed, or "wronged" by the fact that you have to actually do a little work, or show some genuine interest in a girl as a person to get some tickling.

absolutely not even close to the truth, so im not going to address it further. ive posted "sour" posts on this topic maybe 3 times in 3 years...hardly a pattern....and i show interest in regular girls sometimes, but the fact remains that to most people we are FREAKS and the amount of women that woudl actually want to be into it without saying it first, such as posting on this forum, is MINUTE.

I know this may be a post tghat gets deleted because i never say things i think may come across as mean. But i want all of you to know i am not trying to be an asshole. Its just that this topic has become so frustrating.

it wont be deleted because posts that rip me are welcome on here by many people. and actualyl, im not the least bit insulted by it, because unlike most of the people on here i have very thick skin and can easily take it as well as i can dish it out...and im not trying to be malicioous in saying that.

And when you start to take little jabs at me i wont whine about it, but it does open the gates for me to be less accepting of complaints.

im not taking jabs at you in the least. again, it was a JOKE.

im saying that its a fact based on the people that post on this forum, that the women that are into this are mostly on the east coast and west coast, and SO FAR there are NONE from northeast ohio. period. this point is not even arguable. it can be easily proven by reading the posts from day one on here. im done on this point. navel agrees and bella agrees...no more discussion is warranted.

 

[chode]

naveltkltr1350, the 75 -80 comment was in reference to how fast i drive when going to cincy or columbus, i didnt go into detail, i was somewhat rambling and commenting on like 8 things at once, sorry for the random confusion.


Trell, ok, i didnt get the "lol" i really never new what all those abreviations meant, i am not online chatting enough to know, or learn them. And its always hard to tell when someone is being an ass or not when your reading soemthing and not actually talking to them. So i am sorry if i took you the wrong way. The last thing i want to do is not become friends with the people in my state into tickling, guy or girl.
I dont really know what to say, and i am not going to ramble. I am going to bed now, and when i get up i am driving to a cabin in the mountains in P.A. to go fishing for 3 days and not be around computers or cell phones, or tickling. Vacation from it all. Hope you all get out whatever you need to be getting out in this thread.

 

[dtrell]

thats ok yjgfn...for the record, LOL stands for "laughing out loud".

 

[BellaRisa]

Dtrell:

1. I wasn't referring to you or anyone else, personally. It's a general thing.

2. Since you missed that event, you can write the hostess and support her having another that you *can* attend, and/or have your own.

3. To be blunt, I'm not looking for a tickling munch or event right now; WAY too much on my plate at the moment, from video shoots to fixing up my new house to getting my oldest into first grade. But you certainly don't need me to have an excellent meeting!

4. Hosting a gathering or munch is a great way to do this; I met my favorite play-partner, who became my Bellarisa Productions business partner and cameraman, when I held a little picnic for tk-philes back in '99.

5. www.Ohioleatherfest.com

 

[BellaRisa]

Ohio is SO not boring!

its sad to say ohio is boring..not just the tickling part..but in general

It's not sad, it's false 😉. I really have to ask what the heck you're looking to do that you can't in Ohio. As I've said, I have nothing but fun in the 6 years I've lived here-and as a former New Yorker I *know* fun

Seriously, you can do everything here! Wanna hike, swim, go dancing-any kind of dancing-,camp, go to incredible amusement parks, see a great broadway show, ski, attend an excellent rock/jazz/country concert, see the BEST comedians, explore your kinky side, attend museums and art shows, go to coffee houses, take any class you can think of, go to an excellent zoo, go to Wyandot Lake for water rides or explore the caverns...the list if pretty darn endless. There's a reason we just bought a house and chose to settle and raise kids here. I've been to L.A., Chicago, N.Y.C. and all kinds of cities, none of them was as cool AND good for kids AND pretty clean AND not too expensive...

Can you tell I like the place? 😛

I ask again: what are you looking for?

Bella