So here is something Ive been wondering about. Hypothosizing about... and as usual generaly obsessing over. (and misspelling too since I dont have a spell check for the TMF 🙂 ) I know that we all have our particular girls we fantasize over, but there is a odd thing thats been bothering me a bit... at first I thought it was a bout with unexpected morality (thank goodness that came to pass j/k) but what i was wondering is this. Does anyone else have a little less fun fantasizing over the married ones. Now part of this comes from my work, I at least occasionaly meet simi-famous people so in my heart of hearts I think that I have a chance (is my ego enormous or what) but marriage always puts a damper on that. Then I remember the average life expectancy of a hollywood marriage is 6 months and Im right back in the game. Anyway, I digress, SMG, Jessica Simpson, and now the soon to be Mrs. Spears... does anyone have there fantasy life upset by the attrocity that IS bueatiful women getting married? Just curious 🙂 And of course, dont worry about me, I have a good imagination I can always figure out a way 🙂
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Fantasy.... and marriage
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AffectionateDan
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What an interesting question!
Interesting on so many levels, too... so many perspectives one can consider it from. I'm not sure if you're wrestling with a moral dilemma, or if you're just throwing out a meaty bone for us all to chew on, but it does spark the imagination. Fantasy is powerful stuff, innit? You mention the famous and semi-famous, which obviously conjures images of celebrities. And who doesn't entertain notions of intimately associating with someone they've seen in the movies or television or magazines, etc...? Few, if not none of us. We're human. Fantasies are a product of our imaginations. Of course, some of them are more realistic than others, so you can work towards making them come true. Marriage, Hollywood or not, is rather immaterial to me, when I fantasize, seeing as I already know that I'm never going to run in the same circles as anyone I've seen in the media to think that way about. It's as much an obstacle, at least, as say, them actually sharing the same notions and interests.
Interesting on so many levels, too... so many perspectives one can consider it from. I'm not sure if you're wrestling with a moral dilemma, or if you're just throwing out a meaty bone for us all to chew on, but it does spark the imagination. Fantasy is powerful stuff, innit? You mention the famous and semi-famous, which obviously conjures images of celebrities. And who doesn't entertain notions of intimately associating with someone they've seen in the movies or television or magazines, etc...? Few, if not none of us. We're human. Fantasies are a product of our imaginations. Of course, some of them are more realistic than others, so you can work towards making them come true. Marriage, Hollywood or not, is rather immaterial to me, when I fantasize, seeing as I already know that I'm never going to run in the same circles as anyone I've seen in the media to think that way about. It's as much an obstacle, at least, as say, them actually sharing the same notions and interests.
LMAO--you crazy guys!
Well, Master, you didn't say this was gender specific but you reminded me of a conversation that's a fave topic of my male friends who always discuss these things in front of me like they're in the company of "just one of the guys" (I had 2 older brothers.)
For this particular bunch, they seemed to be less concerned with those celebs who are married than with those who've had children. As if giving birth somehow loses them points in the "hotness dept" 🙄
Ridiculous! Do we really need to remind y'all how many of your fantasy women have been married AND have had kids?? Goldie Hawn, Sophia Loren, Farrah Fawcett, Brooke Burke? Oy!
XOXO
Well, Master, you didn't say this was gender specific but you reminded me of a conversation that's a fave topic of my male friends who always discuss these things in front of me like they're in the company of "just one of the guys" (I had 2 older brothers.)
For this particular bunch, they seemed to be less concerned with those celebs who are married than with those who've had children. As if giving birth somehow loses them points in the "hotness dept" 🙄
Ridiculous! Do we really need to remind y'all how many of your fantasy women have been married AND have had kids?? Goldie Hawn, Sophia Loren, Farrah Fawcett, Brooke Burke? Oy!
XOXO
I have another strange twist to this. For me, whether it is a celebrity or just "one of those fantasies" about someone I know, it makes a difference as to whether or not they were married when I first met/encounter them.
I know it makes no sense but if I met them and they were already married then the fantasy remains as strong. If they were single when I met them and then they announce marriage plans, the fantasy weakens (although does not disappear).
I realise this makes no sense because as a married individual, I would never "persue" any of these fantasies, regardless of how "realistic" they might be. Just for some reason, it does make a difference.
I know it makes no sense but if I met them and they were already married then the fantasy remains as strong. If they were single when I met them and then they announce marriage plans, the fantasy weakens (although does not disappear).
I realise this makes no sense because as a married individual, I would never "persue" any of these fantasies, regardless of how "realistic" they might be. Just for some reason, it does make a difference.
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Re: Fantasy....and marriage
Whenever I read or find out that one of my 'fantasy' women are married or even dating someone, it does take something away.
If someone is single, the fantasy of a 'hook-up' makes it more real in my mind. "Hey, this CAN happen!" goes through my feeble mind.
Now, I know that 99.999 % of the time it can never REALLY happen.
BUT . . . That 0000.0001 % chance is still there, whether it's a real chance or just in my head.
The THOUGHT of an actual encounter makes it better. Makes it more . . real.
Does this make any sense?
Whenever I read or find out that one of my 'fantasy' women are married or even dating someone, it does take something away.
If someone is single, the fantasy of a 'hook-up' makes it more real in my mind. "Hey, this CAN happen!" goes through my feeble mind.
Now, I know that 99.999 % of the time it can never REALLY happen.
BUT . . . That 0000.0001 % chance is still there, whether it's a real chance or just in my head.
The THOUGHT of an actual encounter makes it better. Makes it more . . real.
Does this make any sense?
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Last night, I so deftly introduced myself to the fine foot of a pretty girl in my wife's scrapbooking class. Which I thought was cool. When I can do things like this, I can find absolutely no reason to care about anyone like Jessica Simpson.
