• If you would like to get your account Verified, read this thread
  • The TMF is sponsored by Clips4sale - By supporting them, you're supporting us.
  • >>> If you cannot get into your account email me at [email protected] <<<
    Don't forget to include your username

Fewer Posts

AphroditeRabbit

TMF Master
Joined
Oct 27, 2002
Messages
792
Points
0
As of late I have noticed a rapid decline in the number of people posting on the forum in the general discussion area and otherwise. Is it becoming a non thought-sharing community? Does no one want to express themselves on here anymore? More importantly...WAS IT SOMETHING I DID?!?! I'm so sorry!! Please come back and post more often! I won't do it again! Just tell me what I did! :weird: :dead:
 
With all due respect to our TT members, we just aren't a speaking crowd for the most part. We hardly talk about issues, or bring up serious topics that people would actually get into and put their real two cents in. It seems they can't move away from the tickling aspect of the forum, enough to engage people on a meaningful general level, person to person.

It happens, but these topics are few and far between and they are usually almost always brought about by the same people and these people tend to carry the weight of the thread to ensure it's surivival, no new faces, no new posters. That gets old. Theres no consistancy in the posts and people end up spamming, getting off topic, flamming others, or actually saying nothing that adds to the topic.

Its obviously not your fault. As for recently, I suppose the agressions between some of the users may make the atmosphere seem unfriendly. But this is unfounded in a way, since usually people are professional and mature enough to put matters aside to respond to a topic. I know I am at least one of those people, and you are too.

Overall, this site is more about the media and less about the people unfortunately. We are a reclusive bunch who seem to only come out and speak to ask a question or get an opinion and then go back to lurking. I think this is one reason why some people here don't like the TMF, because it's showing them (these people) what we lack here at any point and time, and perhaps its a form of spite against the TMF for having something we still lack in sufficient quantities.

We're soft-spoken, and while that is a virtue sometimes, its that kind of timidness that makes creating a community more difficult than it has to be.
 
Last edited:
Methinks it has to do with apathy of lack of participation :sigh:

I don't like posting on everything, and sometimes I enjoy something but don't post on it either. But for heavens sake...how is a community forum suppose to have posts, participation, pictures, clips, and thoughts if no one wants to submit?! Just think of how much better tt would become if 100 of these 20 some THOUSAND members started posting and contributing. Just 100! Or even have some posters who used to be regulars come back! It would be beautiful!

Although I might be scared to not become a lurker too if I was under the impression any thought or idea I had for a post would come under fire from 50 different people instead of being accepted for what it's worth. 🙁

Speaking of lack of participation, WHERE'S YOUR PIC IN THE STICKY THREAD MISTER!
 
Thats, exactly what I'm saying- lack of participation. People carry dead weight around here, no offense. LOL

It is the veteran patrons (ie- you, me, Ness, etc.) that do most or all of the work. And thats not right, but, unless lurkers are going to come out of the shadows, or we get new members who don't just join for the free material, leave and then only come back for more new material, then theres no help.

Case in point- we are not a community unless we work together. There is SOME cooperation, but there are some, more than others, who are pulling more weight than they should have to, to make this site possible, and quite frankily thats not fair.

I've brought this situation and topic up before and some people sneered at it, thinking it wasn't a problem. Oh well.

As for me participating, I didn't know I was required to post a picture of myself missy! 😛
 
Last edited:
man i have been here since before tickle theater was a forum. Remember when tickle theater was actually just a web page with a video player on it. You dont!!hahaha noob. Just kidding. The only main problem i see around here is this constant arguing. Someone makes a topic, you get a few posts and then someone comes along with some smart ass or hurtfull remark. Lets keep it real people, its a community forum, this is one of the few places we can come to discuss things that we wouldnt have the opportunity to do so in real life.
 
Vladislaus Dracula said:
Thats, exactly what I'm saying- lack of participation. People carry dead weight around here, no offense. LOL

It is the veteran patrons (ie- you, me, Ness, etc.) that do most or all of the work. And thats not right, but, unless lurkers are going to come out of the shadows, or we get new members who don't just join for the free material, leave and then only come back for more new material, then theres no help.

Case in point- we are not a community unless we work together. There is SOME cooperation, but there are some, more than others, who are pulling more weight than they should have to, to make this site possible, and quite frankily thats not fair.

I've brought this situation and topic up before and some people sneered at it, thinking it wasn't a problem. Oh well.

As for me participating, I didn't know I was required to post a picture of myself missy! 😛

Well you can't FORCE anyone to post, some people just aren't comfortable with it...but MAN. You'd think we'd have a few more posters for a bagillion people on here. (Granted I've seen alot sign up once, and never come back.)

I think the best way is to encourage people to use the voice given to them. I mean..if you obviously like a picture posted, reply in a post that you loved it! I mean it's not like anything BAD could happen, with ANY luck they'll be MORE than willing to find you more! Positive feedback is a godsend. It fuels people's desire to give you what you want! (Not that I'm encouraging people here to post for self gain, but I motivate how I can 😀 ) Why would someone continue posting things you love if they never hear how much it is liked!

AND YES MISTER!! I thought everyone knew the requirement was posting your pic! The meeting was on Tuesday about that! HOW COULD YOU HAVE MISSED IT!! Didn't you get the memo?
 
I believe that this situation happens every certain time, people become a bit shy, quiet and after return the common rythm. Besides this forum has lots of lurkers, maybe because many are underage kids, than don't post for keep them hidden and those than aren't underage prefer only get and don't share. I personally, keep my posting habit (mainly clips, what's my main reason for to be here) and reply in some threads that grab my attention. Speaking of post, when we'll enjoy again of your really beautiful barefeet (i personally love them !!) 😉 😀.
 
AphroditeRabbit said:
Well you can't FORCE anyone to post, some people just aren't comfortable with it...but MAN. You'd think we'd have a few more posters for a bagillion people on here. (Granted I've seen alot sign up once, and never come back.)

I think the best way is to encourage people to use the voice given to them. I mean..if you obviously like a picture posted, reply in a post that you loved it! I mean it's not like anything BAD could happen, with ANY luck they'll be MORE than willing to find you more! Positive feedback is a godsend. It fuels people's desire to give you what you want! (Not that I'm encouraging people here to post for self gain, but I motivate how I can 😀 ) Why would someone continue posting things you love if they never hear how much it is liked!

AND YES MISTER!! I thought everyone knew the requirement was posting your pic! The meeting was on Tuesday about that! HOW COULD YOU HAVE MISSED IT!! Didn't you get the memo?

I'm not suggesting anyone should be forced to reply, but we do need more activity, but our incentives are not working. The numbers simply are not adding up. We have alot of material, and alot of art, yet the user presense is somehow deficient.

And yes, I agree of course that if you like something SAY SO, otherwise people, especially us artists and authors, won't know what you like, what you want, or what you particularly liked about something.

We don't need just an increase in general discussions, we need a FORUM WIDE RESPONSE. What we have, is just not doing it I'm afraid.

No single aspect of this forum is going to save it. We'll suffer a burn out if things don't get better. TT is trying harder than he has to to make this site better, and I don't see him getting any real results or reactions from the people themselves (aside from the likes of us).

Polls, votes, and statistics be damned. They are worthless if those numbers and calculations cannot be supported by a presense thats not there.

Memo? What memo? 😛
 
Last edited:
Vladislaus Dracula said:
Memo? What memo? 😛

They miss it everytime!!! I gotta start using hot pink or something.

..................pink..........*shudder*

Anywho, I would post more fun little pics of my anatomy, however I left my digi cam at my aunts house! Thanksgiving rolled around...completely forgot about it. I need it too! I have some gorgeous pictures I took of a lil snowstorm that hit my area...

Poor TT....He works so hard to have everything work out!
It's just so weird to me that at one point we had many regular posters with fresh topics and threads all of the time!! But now...it seems like only a handful 🙁 Come beloved members! Post to your hearts content!
 
the only idea i can come up with is maybe those people found themselves a soul mate and are exploring there um "hidden desires".
 
People are taking this site for granted, I think. And its a real dishonor to the man who runs it. I know the frustrations of being an administrator, but an owner as well? He's got alot cut out for him and he's doing more work than he has to.

It also does not add up that he's trying so hard and putting his own money into this, and these are the results he's getting from the users.
 
Last edited:
AphroditeRabbit said:
... I would post more fun little pics of my anatomy, however I left my digi cam at my aunts house! Thanksgiving rolled around...completely forgot about it. I need it too! I have some gorgeous pictures I took of a lil snowstorm that hit my area...

I hope than soon your get again your digital camera, i'd appreciate really much can to see again those wonderful feet !!! 😉 :happy:.
 
Yeah, come on people...this forum can't thrive without your participation. We all obviously like it here, but it's up to us to keep it alive and kicking. A forum without participation will surely come to ruin. :sigh:
 
I wouldn't mind posting more, I just havn't since I've joined for fear of talking TOO much.
 
AphroditeRabbit said:
As of late I have noticed a rapid decline in the number of people posting on the forum in the general discussion area and otherwise. Is it becoming a non thought-sharing community? Does no one want to express themselves on here anymore? More importantly...WAS IT SOMETHING I DID?!?! I'm so sorry!! Please come back and post more often! I won't do it again! Just tell me what I did! :weird: :dead:

I used to post more often, but seeing that most here are much younger than I, toned it down quite a bit fearing any 'old-o-phobics' that may exist here have a pre-formed opinion about me. Being a young soul trapped in an older body is hell...trust me. Most, if not all of my friends are half my age. They KNOW me personally....and know that I'm okay with them. You here do NOT know me personally...so I am now hesitant to say much. There are some other reasons too, but I haven't been feeling all that great lately, and am having a bit of difficulty putting my thoughts into words properly, so if this doesn't read well, then excuse me.

All for now...maybe more later.
 
TT has tried, with the latest effort being the power of ten feature. We had hoped that if members were required to post ten times that it would stick and they would continue. Sadly, it has not. I myself can't really think of a way to jump-start it. Posting comes too naturally to me to think of a way to encourage it.
 
When a site gives away too many freebies people take advantage and actually care LESS because they WILL find their material elsewhere. For them, its not about a community, its all about them.

Perhaps another incentive to posting would be to capitalize on the "power of 10" by restricting access to ALL the material (art, clips, stories, etc, but not posts themselves) until a sufficient ammount of posts have been accumulated by that user (and not just 10, and spamming, smiley posts, etc. do not count toward the required ammount).

Or perhaps as people keep posting, the more priveledges they get. Strictly for example, posts between 30-80 gets you access to stories, 90-100 gets you access to the artwork, and 100-120 gets you access to the clips and media.

We could also have giveaways and contests to reward intelligent posts, funny posts, helpful posts, and posts which deserve some kind of recognition by giving them earlier access to said material.

A points system could be put in place to keep track of this. Again, strictly for example, one star gets them an automatic boost to access to stories. If they are already at that post range, then its an automatic boost to art, and so on.

After accumulating so many stars, you get a boost to the next tier of priveledges.

This is very good incentive, and not only has users post, but post like they mean it, not just to get to the free stuff.

It may not be popular at first, and we may lose some, but I think its critical to uphold the attage of "if you want to recieve you've got to give."

TT is being taken advantage of, and thats not right.

The way you've been doing it, people have been taking advantage of the generousity. And maybe if there are some restrictions for a while or this proposed system is used or tried out, people will either get to stepping or get involved. We don't need excess baggage and dead weight that does nothing. Sure, it looks good for us to have 27,000 + members, but we really have far less than that, far less genuine members that is.

I know that if this was my site I'd choose efficiency, productivity, results, and the overall enjoyment and happiness of my members over tons and tons of accounts that aren't even active or only represent selfish people who offer nothing in return for the free services I would be rendering.

TT is treating this site at the level of a financial investment because it is one. Real money IS going into it. I don't see him being paid dividends for his investment. And there is plenty more we could all do to make his monotary expenditures worth every penny he's paying.

As for those simply too shy to come forward, or those that have stated their reasons, granted, you may very well be exceptions, but unless you are willing to come forward and be more active by your own free will with no cajoling or coaxing from us, I don't see why you would be above this system.

This is why it needs to be post based, since it would be too difficult to look into every account and find merit in it and the person behind it.
 
Last edited:
the hollywood brother is asking all the 20,000 posters out there to come out and support this great site. the hollywood brother has tried numerous times to make intelligent thought provoking post and not too many people replied. the hollywood brother will not die and will not ever give up on this forum but let's not make Ar sad by not posting. She is too nice a person to ever be sad. We can all cheer her up by posting on here so that is what the hollywood brother will continue to do
 
Interesting idea, Vlad. The solutions you are proposing have been in effect at 6.000-member femdom forum www.ocmb.org for some time, with mixed results.

When the rule there was 10 posts needed to view attachments, there was too much abuse (spam), so the rule was changed to require 50 posts and a PM to a mod who would decide whether to grant access. Contributions did increase, but many new members found this daunting and quickly stopped participating. Their newest rule now grants automatic attachment access to all members after 28 days, based on post count, with 4kB added for each post to a maximum of 500 kB.

However, unlike TT, OCMB also has a paying membership option which allows instant access, so the free-download rule serves to increase paid members. The download limit at OCMB is the main source of member complaints, and has always been considered a controversial and "touchy" subject.

OCMB also uses a "Karma" system in which established members can add or deduct "points" to fellow members. Karma was abolished there last year but has just been reinstated, so we shall see how it goes this time.

I personally believe that it would be fair to require two weeks membership and a post count of 20 or so non-spam messages in order to view attachments at TT. Since we have active discussion sections, it should be no problem for a member to reach 20 posts. Still, it would require a significant investment of time and effort to monitor posts for spam and then have someone manually grant access (or manually remove automatic access in case of spam). Nonetheless, I think the idea has some merit.

Regards,
 
It has alot of merit. The karma idea isn't a good one however, as people could just give people points because they're friends and they didn't do anything necessarily, and deduct points from enemies for no reason, only out of spite.

I can see why it was abolished, but I don't think that portion is necessary here.

I stand by what I've said and think it will work if applied. And maintaining a record will not be difficult, as mods will be the one awarding the stars or merits and we could create a hack for it, or a list which updates itself. We can even have star icons in the post bit under the user names so the person will know how many stars they have.

If we grant access to people simply waiting two weeks to see attachments, that doesn't necessarily mean they'll post. It just means they had to be more patient, and will probably be irritated about it. I see a loophole, which is why we need multi-tiered priveledges.

The more you post, the more incentive there is to keep doing so and the more rewards there are. Eventually, by the time they've accquired all of the privledges they hopefully will have become an active member here and will come to appriciate others, the site, and be proud of themselves in the process for speaking up and taking part in site activities and discussions.

My idea promotes healthy posting, and rewards it at the same time.
 
Last edited:
I envision two weeks AND 20 posts in order to gain attachment privileges as a "lite" version of OCMB's rule. In any case, I would be happy to arrange a contact between TT and OCMB's admin if TT wants more information about their system.

Another thing at OCMB that I like is that member titles are based on post count, with the coveted "Established Member" title given only to members who have distinguished themselves by positive and active contribution over at least a year's time. (At my IPB forum, I use titles geared to 10, 100, 200, 500, and 1000 posts, with the special title "VIP Member" awarded to content producers who are particularly generous in sharing with the community.) I don't like the confusing and complex titles at TMF, but a more-streamlined system might be just the ticket here, maybe with the option to create custom titles after 1000 posts or so.

Regards,
 
MY guess is (1) some are out of ideas
(2) Holiday lull...
(3) there have been so many bile-spewing fights that many may be scared to say anythng, fearing being bawled out verbally on here...

Just my $0.02
 
What's New

11/18/2024
Need to report a post? The button to do so is in the posts lower left.
Tickle Experiment
Door 44
Live Camgirls!
Live Camgirls
Streaming Videos
Pic of the Week
Pic of the Week
Congratulations to
*** LadyInternet ***
The winner of our weekly Trivia, held every Sunday night at 11PM EST in our Chat Room
Back
Top