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I agree with the titles, but my concern is that people might post only to work those titles off.

And my concern with this "lite" version deal is that people might not follow though and may just go back to freeloading and lurking. It would be so simple for me for example to wait the allotted time, make some half-assed posts, gain complete access, take, and then leave. And then only come back when new material is uploaded.

By rewarding them access to the material little by little according to post counts of quality we keep them interested. Giving it ALL to them at once may seem appealing at first, but won't pay off in the long term.

My way may seem like it would take too long, but thats why I proposed the star/points idea. So that when people make intelligent, helpful posts, etc., they are given points for that and eventually, sooner or later depending on how bad they want it, they will get enough points to get an automatic "boost" to the next tier of options and/or material without having to post up to that required ammount.

This rewarding will make them feel appriciated in participating and it will serve as an example to others that if they try and participate, the rewards will be all the more sweet and they will have EARNED them. It also promotes "going the extra mile" for others and yourself.

Giving them everything at once is not a good idea. Giving it to them little by little and rewarding them with boosts and extras for making exceptional posts and contributions gives them something to keep posting for.

And like I said, by the time they've attained all of the privledges, they will have racked up a good post count, and that count will be validated and legitimate and something to be proud of. Its at this point that whether or not they follow through and continue to help and participate that is of less concern than it is in the beginning like you are suggesting, because it is at this point that we got a good run out of them and participation. I don't think they'll stop. They'll stop in the beginning though, especially if they already have everything they want. Theres no reason to post at that point.

By handling this in small, managable ammounts, I don't think it would drive off people, and it would seem "do-able" and not unreasonable and they're being rewarded for even trying. If people cannot even commit to a simple system such as this, then they are clearly too lazy to begin with and want nothing to do with a community, and can go elsewhere for their material.

The whole point in this is to create more active users. You won't get that if you give them more of the same, but just delay a week or so or put stipulations on it that don't really affect anything in the long run and greater scheme of things.
 
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Hiya everyone.

I'm new here, only a few posts.

Why don't I post more? Well, I enjoy the site, but in searching have found some remarks against m/m tickling. As a gay man, I enjoy both f/m and m/m tickling. From the responses I've read, it seems as that is not welcome, and I've not posted in regards to that.

If you want an idea, I belong to another site that offers free memberships, which allows members access to certain forums on the site. If they chose to, they can pay a fee of $5.00 a month, or a discount of $40.00 per year for a "VIP" membership, which allows access to other forums that "non-VIP" members don't have access to.

You could always offer some pics and clips for non-VIP membes, and save the rest for VIP members.
 
AR...

I noticed some of the same about ppl not posting, and when folks do, it appears to be the same ppl. But hey, I like to see everyone's thoughts or ideas. As I do not always agree with one might say, it is quit interesting o see everyone's thoughts or views on any subject.

Personally, I think though I spend more of my posts in "general" than anyothers, at times..in 'tickling discussion' and I have never posted pics or clips or stories...I realise I really do not answer any question here, more just saying I post at times in 'general' and it does seem to be the same of us over and over, so perhaps we would just need some newbies to post, and the great thing about 'general' is it does let you know a member more, like anything from their favorite food, favorite tv show, actor, clothing line, and so on.

AR..I do see the decline, and would like to see more, and get to see more of everyone's thoughts and ideas.
Currahee
 
To cellardweller:

The TT doesn't discriminate based on gender, sex, religion, or anything else, BUT unfortunately some people do.

You are welcome, and I'm sure theres other gay individuals on this site who are just waiting for another to speak out and share in the universal interest that we all share, regardless of sexual orrientiation.

As for charging money, thats good and bad. Its good because it makes things really simple. If they're paying the fee, they get access and theres no need for structure really or user interaction.

But see, the flaw in that is two things:

1.) Not everyone can afford to pay and/or would want to for something they can get for free elsewhere.

2.) Pay sites don't encourage or promote a community-based environment. Thats what we're trying to do. While the owners of paysites may have nothing but good intentions in their endeavors, the driving force behind it all is the money, unfortunately. And as long as they are getting the funds they need to keep the site going, that appeases them and is good enough.

TickleTheater is not a man who thinks like that, and his values are more wholesome. He has the edge of a businessman, but the compassion to understand the user base and put himself at their level.

I'm glad you brought this up though. ^^
 
Vladislaus Dracula said:
my concern with this "lite" version deal is that people might not follow though and may just go back to freeloading and lurking. It would be so simple for me for example to wait the allotted time, make some half-assed posts, gain complete access, take, and then leave. And then only come back when new material is uploaded.

They already thought of that at OCMB -- they monitor download activity and have been known to rescind viewing privileges in obvious cases of abuse. At any rate, this is all hypothetical, since TT himself has not expressed any desire to change the levels of participation or rules for download access 🙂

Best regards,
 
Of course not. But that leaves us with very little to work with as incentive for more users to come out and post. We basically just have to have blind faith that more users are going to come out and post. And if it hasn't been that way since the beginning, why would that suddenly change?

Perhaps I ought to propose this idea to TT and see what he thinks and work with him on it and approach it in different ways, rather than assume that he has expressed no desire.
 
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Vladislaus Dracula said:
Perhaps I ought to propose this idea to TT and see what he thinks ... rather than assume that he has expressed no desire.

I didn't "assume" anything 🙂 I merely stated a fact, "TT himself has not expressed any desire to change the levels of participation or rules for download access." I have not seen any post where TT said that he was disappointed with our current activity level.
 
We had a veeeeery lengthy discussion about privilages, etc before TT came to the Power of 10 rule. Every option has it's pros and cons. Really only TT can say what's best and what best fits into his overall "TT Vision" 😛
 
Val-

I didn't say you did. And about the activity, its just as much our concern about the activity sense it is WE, the users who are here more often than he is. And if another user, our own AR brought the subject up, then it bares a discussion.

Ness- Power of 10 is not cutting it, and everyone knows it. What is "power of 10" anyways? Sounds like a rip-off of "power of blue" for the credit cards. 😛
 
Not cutting it? Not cutting what? It's TT's site and he's the only one who can say what does or doesnt work cause only his opinion on desired participation levels matters. If he's got a probvlem with it he'll probably ask our opinions like he did last time and then change it. But he hasn't so we must assume he's got no problems with it. Chill man, life is good.
 
We can have our own opinions, can't we? Thats what this thread is about, discussing it. Are you saying we shouldn't be talking about it at all and should be all hush hush? Why are you being so hostile? You're the one that needs to chill. This isn't normal for you. Is something wrong? You seem tense...
 
I'm tense? ooookay. 😛 Opinions are cool
Power of 10 is not cutting it, and everyone knows it.
That sorta hints at a massive public outcry that things are rotten. If anything THAT sounds tense 😛 Ah well, no biggie. Sorry if I have the impression that I'm tense. Just chillin...hanging out, etc. 😛
 
It doesn't hint at anything. All it hints at is an assumption you arrived at because it suited the emotion you wanted to feel.

If anything, even HDS has admitted the power of 10 thing isn't working. AR wouldn't have brought up this thread either if she wasn't concerned and others wouldn't have posted as well. Sure, theres nothing massive about the topic, but its obviously a concern thats more than mine own. Just because I was suggesting solutions rather than just complaining doesn't put me in the wrong.

And another thing, I don't think it was appropriate the way you refered to TT, the site, and us. You spoke as if this was a dicatorship and he's some sort of god and we are just peons whose opinions don't matter. You could have worded your frustration a little bit better, Ness.
 
oooookie doke. I even didnt realize I was frustrated. 😛 lol No need to argue with me dude. I think you can apply your comment about twisting things so it's what you want to hear to yourself there.
I aint looking for an argument. 😛 Anyway, this is getting dumb. I doubt it's what AR had in mind. 😛 LOL
Aaaaanyway, AR! Yeah I see you up there. 😛 it's not you (but THAT shirt with THOSE pant?! Puh-leeez!) 😀 Remember last summer? It's the flow of the tide. It's all cool in the end. 🙂
 
The fact to remember is that TT is the forum owner, so he bears the ultimate responsibility for making the decisions here. I felt that some of the concerns raised here had merit, so I pointed out the options that a different forum has used, listing the pros and cons of their approach. However, since TT has not expressed any concern with the current participation level, I think that it's premature for us to discuss the details as if this plan has already been approved.

Besides, KY expressed a more acute problem when he said "there have been so many bile-spewing fights that many may be scared to say anythng, fearing being bawled out verbally on here..." This seems a more pressing issue right now.
 
Totally, Missy Val. KY is right on there. We've got to keep the members from killing eachother before we think up new ways to penalize those who dont post. 😛 😀
hehehe...I just like the term "bile-spewing fights". 😛 I shall add that to my vocabulary and use it at the next available opportunity. I'll say one thing for this forum...it's added a new spectrum of colorful phrases to my vocabulary. Not that you'd understand, Missy Val...having the super squeaky clean mouth that you have 😀 We'll corrupt you yet! You wait! 😀 😀
 
Sometimes when people - new or old - post on the site, they either get completely ignored, or eviscerated with a verbal sawed-off shotgun from someone due to a conflict of opinions. Consequently, they are put off from submitting any further posts.

I've noticed that most (note: NOT ALL) of the time I post something on a thread, it usually dies, or no one responds. That's probably just because I'm an "old newie" - I've just started posting on this forum recently, so no one really knows much about me. But I swear I'll keep posting and bugging y'all till SOMEONE responds! 😀

Though if I see a thread where people are engaging in these...ahem...bile-spewing fights, I'll just er...try not to get involved. 🙂
 
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MistressValerie said:
The fact to remember is that TT is the forum owner, so he bears the ultimate responsibility for making the decisions here. I felt that some of the concerns raised here had merit, so I pointed out the options that a different forum has used, listing the pros and cons of their approach. However, since TT has not expressed any concern with the current participation level, I think that it's premature for us to discuss the details as if this plan has already been approved.

Besides, KY expressed a more acute problem when he said "there have been so many bile-spewing fights that many may be scared to say anythng, fearing being bawled out verbally on here..." This seems a more pressing issue right now.

1.) No one, at any time implied directly or indirectly that the talk, conversations, or opinions within this thread should be put into a real action, right now or in the immediate future.

Its merely conversation and conjecture which you yourself are a part of. Its much better than just complaining and wondering why things are the way they are when we know why. And what we were talking about at the time IS a reason, technical perhaps, but a reason nonetheless.

2.) Yes, it is an interesting topic in and of itself, and it may very well be an underlying reason for the problem, but no one really cared, up until this point to make it a focus. We clearly got several opinions and reasons for why some people don't post here, and they had nothing to do with past arguments.

And really, people shouldn't feel threatened by arguments. They can always avoid them. I don't know where the fear comes from that they'll somehow get pulled into it, or if they become active, there will be no one to talk to because everyone will be in on the argument or something or it will take some sort of priority over them enjoying themselves. Thats not true either.

Although, anyone will admit, it can, on a first impression give a negative image of who and what people are here. But we've nothing to hide and we are only human. And if the topic itself comes about as a thread on it's own, then we could definitely discuss it.

But I see a merit in discussing the two aspects as different topics altogether. The original question/comment was why people are posting less. There are many reasons for that, and to single out one, perhaps to end this one, because its viewed as pointless by two people, who are coincidentally moderators, is clearly an attempt to cut us off at the pass.

Its clear we are not wanted to talk about this, and if thats the way it is, perhaps TT himself should post and give his opinions to us all, rather than you two being his official mouth pieces. With all due respect to the both of you.
 
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piano_er said:
Though if I see a thread where people are engaging in these...ahem...bile-spewing fights, I'll just er...try not to get involved. 🙂

My point exactly, from what I would vouch safe is how new members feel about the matter, in that if it can be avoided it will be. Its very mature of you to realize you have a choice and are not helpless. 🙂
 
Vladislaus Dracula said:
but no one really cared, up until this point to make it a focus

Ahem, it was mentioned in its own thread: http://www.tickletheater.com/showthread.php?t=13773

Vladislaus Dracula said:
perhaps TT himself should post and give his opinions to us all, rather than you two being his official mouth pieces

Goodness! Aren't we supposed to represent the forum when TT isn't personally present? 🙂

As I stated before, TT has not complained about the current participation levels. We think that his silence on this issue constitutes his opinion, unless he tells us differently 🙂
 
LOL! Talk about whatever you want, dude. I aint here to stop you. 😛 If it was some sort of "taboo" subject I'd be saying so! 😛 (also getting my torch and pitchfork to burn the heretic witches are something LOL)
Like I said, No biggie. Talk about whatever. If anyone's got an idea or something they wanna tell TT about then it's best to PM him or stick it in the Site Feedback forum cause I doubt he goes digging through General Discussion much. 😛
Aaaanyway...I'd love to stick around but my litle ankle biter (no, not GT!) is up and needs to get her little hiney back in bed. 😛
 
LOL great minds think alike, Missy Val! You were two seconds quicker than me though...you win a cookie! 😀
 
piano_er said:
😀 Thanks!

You're welcome. 🙂

And thank YOU for giving yet ANOTHER reason why this has necessarily nothing to do with the arguments themselves, but as you suggested, or rather said of your own feelings, that you feel like a newbie and perhaps feel that you are taken as one who perhaps has nothing valuable to say. I know what that feeling is and I've been treated that way before, albeit not here.

You can be assured my friend, that at least from me, I will not short-change your comments or take them on any lesser a level than my own or those that have been here longer than myself or are in an authoritive position.

I prefer to cut right through the bullshit and get to the heart of the matter, and its clear that you're modestly fet up with it going this way for you, just as cellardweller feels ousted as a gay man and the lack of material or subject matter for him.

Clearly there are different reasons, many different reasons, and I'd be glad to hear them all, because even though I do not have the power to change things, I can at least know what other people are feeling.
 
MistressValerie said:
Ahem, it was mentioned in its own thread: http://www.tickletheater.com/showthread.php?t=13773

Goodness! Aren't we supposed to represent the forum when TT isn't personally present? 🙂

As I stated before, TT has not complained about the current participation levels. We think that his silence on this issue constitutes his opinion, unless he tells us differently 🙂

1.) I was unaware that thread even existed. And clearly AR didn't know about it either, or opted to be more direct and make her own.

2.) Yes, but he can post here when he has time. I'm not suggesting or demanding he stop what he's doing and post now of course.

"We" as in you two, "think", etc. etc.

All I'm saying is it would be even more clarified if he presented his aims for the site, and for the future and discussed them, however briefly with us. Wanting an "audiance" with him, so to speak is not a bad thing, or uncalled for. Yes, you are now an intermediary for him, but you are NOT him.

Damn this is a shame. Why? Because I like you, believe in the same policies you do, and yet within 24 hours of your appointment, we are ironically disagreeing about something.

Or maybe its not a shame. We shouldn't be expected to all feel the same way all the time, but I'm sure when we do its always a nice thing.
 
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