Finally telling my GF

[SweTickler87]

OMG, it´s is finally done. So much anxiety and pressure released. I know it´s considered a babystep for some of you but as inspiration to others, I post this anyway =)

After a lot of thinking and going back and forth in my head I told my girlfriend about my fetish for tickling. I didnt spill everything about clip-watching and this place and stuff like that but I told her I like it in a sexual way when she tickles me and that tickling in general is a very sexual activity for me. Imagine my reaction inside when her answer was "Is that it". Haha i guess she expected me to drop something about latex and whips because she really took it really well.

I didnt raise the question of actually tying HER down and tickle her, but I told her that I bought some furry handcuffs and that I´d love it for her to tie me down and try tickling me =) I figured i´d let her come in to it in a pace that doesnt scare her off. Later that night she tickled me alot untied before and while having sex and it was truly epic! To all of you guys and girls out there thinking about telling your partner, go ahead and do it. Even if it feels like the hardest thing in the world to do (which it felt like to me).

Cheers

 

[stockytickler]

Yay! Congratulations on having an understanding and accommodating gf! Good luck as you continue to explore each other 😉

 

[Angel_2]

Congrats on telling your girlfriend. Its not easy but its not like some deep dark secret either. She accepted it as is and now life can go on as it has.

 

[SweTickler87]

Yay! Congratulations on having an understanding and accommodating gf! Good luck as you continue to explore each other 😉

Thank you, it´s an amazing feeling to have told her =) Looking forward to see if she actually starts liking it herself if we try bondage!

 

[SweTickler87]

Congrats on telling your girlfriend. Its not easy but its not like some deep dark secret either. She accepted it as is and now life can go on as it has.

Thanks! Trust me, for me it sure as hell felt like i deep dark secret haha =) And hopefully, life will go on better than it has now that she knows 😉

 

[usgrant]

When things go wrong, it will be used against you. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!

 

[Coffee]

Congrats Good for you

 

[ticklishdanny]

Congratulations! Hopefuly she'll embrace it often

 

[aussietickler1]

That's awesome dude, sounds like you've got yourself a pretty cool girl!

 

[NG02]

Congrats man! Its always good to hear of people being able to be comfortable enough with themselves and the ones around them to do such a thing.

I know it´s considered a babystep for some of you but as inspiration to others, I post this anyway =)

Imagine my reaction inside when her answer was "Is that it".

I quoted these two points first to say....Atleast in my eyes its totally not babysteps Ive told quite afew friends and women that I have dated about my fetsh for years and everytime pretty much feels like the first time(I mean that in the sense that even those of us who seem like we are so cool, smooth, and comfortable about outing ourselves still get pretty nervous when telling others)

Second point is I have also been on the recieving end of the "thats it?" rebudle and I have to say there is no greater feeling than knowing that thing you were sweating and worry over ended up being greeted with such non judgement and understanding.

 

[milagros317]

Congratulations!
Glad that it worked out well for you. 😀

 

[barefeetarebest]

Yay! Congratulations on having an understanding and accommodating gf! Good luck as you continue to explore each other 😉

We should all be so lucky.

 

[georgeosborna]

You have done it man and I am feeling glad for you that you get your expected answer about sexual activity from your girlfriend. I like to read all conversation here between you and your girlfriend. It's truly quality time for me to read it.

 

[dr_random]

Good for you dude. I know vocalizing this kink of ours to other people can be a little nerve-wracking, I know it was for me. And the reaction you got is pretty typical, I think for the most part. Congratulations on the first step. I hope it goes well with every other step.